Had the couple from next door over last night. Played some cards had a few glasses of wine and puffed some hash. We have known these people for 7-8 yrs. So anyway after we have all loosened up they drop a bombshell. They are involved in Swinging and swapping, My wife and I didn't know what to say. We just looked at each other with our jaws on the floor. They invited us to join them sometime but we politely said no thanks. I'm already feeling uneasy now about this. Even having them back over for cards might not happen, not sure why I feel this way. what they do on thier own time is not my buisness. Why would if feel threatened and uneasy???

damn I dont know how they do it but I know I wouldnt be able to swap my girl..shit the thought of some other guy fucking my girl just sounds horrible

Yes exactly, I mean I'm a man I'd take his wife if it was a consensual thing between everbody, but there is no way in hell I'd let him after my wife

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Yes exactly, I mean I'm a man I'd take his wife

THEN TAKE HER! THROUGH BATTLE!! (http://www.io.com/~beckerdo/games/pictures/HagbardCharging640x480.jpg)

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quote:Originally posted by 2020:

Yes exactly, I mean I'm a man I'd take his wife if it was a consensual thing between everbody, but there is no way in hell I'd let him after my wife

But would you let his wife be with your wife? Without you of course.

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But would you let his wife be with your wife? Without you of course.

Maybe if I was present, I'm not sure. I don't think my wife has any same sex desires

I had neighbors who were swingers. They approached another neighbor of ours who was appalled! She said: "Sure, my husband is better looking and I'm supposed to want to swap for her husband?"

She never let her near their house again either.

Hey these are solid people, they have been good neighbors. I wish they han't told us damn it.

So getting back to yesterday oc6 you conviently forgot to expose your age as I did to you!

Later 40's.

btw...how did they work the suggestion into conversation?

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Thank you!! So do you too feel sometimes like WTF are these kids bitching about. I mean it is funny to read some of these posts because it takes me back to my school days.

Just brush it under the carpet.

Nothing to worried about unless you let it worry you.

It all came about with a stupid comment from me I said if my wife didn't smarten up I may be forced to trade her in. And they just blurted it out. They told us they were involved in it and that they had often wondered if we would be interested

Yes, I do. It brings back old memories, that's for sure. And to see such pretty girls who seem to have problems. I always thought the pretty ones would have fewer problems, but it seems that is not the way of things. They're just problems of a different nature, I suppose.

What kind of card games do you play, btw?

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Your stories are inconsistant and bland. You're one of the worst trolls I have ever seen.

Fail.

Hopefully it won't affect your relationship, they sound like good neighbours. As long as they realise it won't happen and don't bring it up, it shouldn't change things. They're the same people they've been for the previous 8 years.

Although I'm betting it'd be different if they were my neighbours.

Just out of curiosity, how old are you?

Mr Happy I'll be 44 very soon,

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

Your stories are inconsistant and bland. You're one of the worst trolls I have ever seen.

Fail.

WTF????

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Yes, I do. It brings back old memories, that's for sure. And to see such pretty girls who seem to have problems. I always thought the pretty ones would have fewer problems, but it seems that is not the way of things. They're just problems of a different nature, I suppose.

What kind of card games do you play, btw?



Last night it was auction 45's but we also like crib,

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

Your stories are inconsistant and bland. You're one of the worst trolls I have ever seen.

Fail.

Well I'm not understanding the inconstistant part but I'm not going to argue the bland part with you, real life has a habit of being bland,but where I come from this was pretty exciting stuff

quote:Originally posted by 2020:

Last night it was auction 45's but we also like crib,

I've never played either games.

My games were gin, hearts, spades, and poker. It's been decades since I've play any cards though. I'm not sure if I remember how now. *chuckles*

I do miss playing cards.

We play hearts a lot also, 45's seem to be a local game never hear of too many outside our area that play it, I'm in eastern Canada. It has warmed up today to -19

Geez I wonder why Zonko would say such nasty things to me

you feel threatend cause they're different, get over it. If they we're good neighbours all that time KNOWING what they were all that time's not gonna change what kind of neighbours they gonna be in the future

Beats me.

Although, I'm sure I've not read all your posts I haven't noticed any actual inconsistencies. Unless he's referring to double standards, maybe?

I don't mean to be rude, but who gives a shit? Make it clear to them that you and your wife are not interested in participating, that it makes you uncomfortable, and that they shouldn't bring it up again. After that, I guess I don't understand what the problem is.

Maybe I'm not sure, I'm just about to vacate this place to be honest, I've chatted with some nice people but I'm also disappointed with the anger and the pissing contests that go on here I guess it's a part of inmaturity

Nah...don't go. I'm out numbered here.

No it's not going to affect my relationship with them, They are good people and I should not have mentioned it. It just took me by surprise. For all I know the guy on the other side of me is a axe murder

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For all I know the guy on the other side of me is a axe murder

You just never can tell these days...

Don't be a pansy, you'd be suprised how many people (don't have to be swingers) engage in group sex. If you're still thinking like a 12 yr old then you shouldn't even be married.

quote:Originally posted by flash:

Don't be a pansy, you'd be suprised how many people (don't have to be swingers) engage in group sex. If you're still thinking like a 12 yr old then you shouldn't even be married.



Not me. No way. No how.

Not married. Not unmarried.

Gotta draw the line somewhere.

Although...I have a lot of lines drawn, I do believe. It's an art.

do you really think that you won't be able to be friends with them anymore?

i mean, i'm sure now that they know how you and your wife feel they won't bring swinging up again in conversation with you. will the knowledge of what they do in private really affect your interactions?

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Not me. No way. No how.

Not married. Not unmarried.

Gotta draw the line somewhere.

Although...I have a lot of lines drawn, I do believe. It's an art.



Nicely put