History:

My first time ever, i failed to get hard. 14 years old, nothing...

Since then i've gotten better, but MOST of the time i'm not 100%, and actual penetration is nearly impossible. So i found a girl thats been taking it slow and settleing with blow jobs until i think i'm ready again. Which has been just fine until...

Last saturday night we were drunk at a party, we went out to my car and started messing, all was good throughout felacio until i just randomly went limp. I wasn't even close to begging to come.

The next day was a failure, earlier in the morning i held it, then it died quickly and the same thing happened later. But on tuesday we were in my car and all was fine.

Today me and my girl were fooling around and stuff. I got hard, held it for a while, then it went away. After layer there for 15 minutes we tried again, same results. So we layed there for a while and then about and hour later i was fine, well at least a lot better than i was.

so pretty much it's ok sometimes but not all the times, but even then, its never great. Any tips, advice, suggestions. I'm 16 by the way.

Serious replys only please.

at age 16 i couldnt get SOFT! you doin drugs? maybe yer gay? viagra/murder/suicide

It happens even when you're sober?

I suggest a doctor/sex therapist.

-F☺rd

It may just be nerves, man. Since it happened once for whatever unexplainable reason, you keep worrying that it will happen again - so it does.

=>DOCTOR/UROLOGIST.

YOu need to check that there are no underlying physical reasons for the problem before you do anything else. I doubt that there are at your age (and seeing that you can achieve some sort of erection). However you need to rule out physical reasons first.