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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-02-08, 02:17
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samurai_steve 
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I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
It's about how to conquer your fears of talking to women... i recommend watching all 5 parts.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9DYn4-h3Cnk
Edit: I'm glad so many of you guys watched it! I think that we should start to actually try some of this stuff and post our results! I'm going to try and touch this girl in class as much as possible tomorrow, and i want to deliver at least three SOI's... shes a hotty, i hope i can pull it off without freaking her out too much
[This message has been edited by samurai_steve (edited 02-09-2007).]
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#2
 2007-02-08, 04:11
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
nice find
+1
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#3
 2007-02-08, 04:16
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
I really don't see fatty getting anywhere outside of staged TV shows
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#4
 2007-02-08, 04:31
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:
I really don't see fatty getting anywhere outside of staged TV shows
Why is that? He is more persistent than most all of totse.
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#5
 2007-02-08, 05:15
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
I think that fatty had the most improvement of all of them. He'll likely find somebody who can appreciate him for who he reall is... Rickets boy seemed to stagnate the most imo.
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#6
 2007-02-08, 05:33
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:
Why is that? He is more persistent than most all of totse.
Lemme rephrase that, get anywhere with anyone under 300lbs or not otherwise hideous
But hey, if you wanna settle for the tablescraps.
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#7
 2007-02-08, 05:37
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:
Lemme rephrase that, get anywhere with anyone under 300lbs or not otherwise hideous
But hey, if you wanna settle for the tablescraps.
lol ur jus jealous cuz he can talk to chicks self-pwn
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#8
 2007-02-08, 05:52
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
God I'm about 8 minutes in of part 2 and watching chubs there talk to those girls eating is just killing me!
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#9
 2007-02-08, 07:14
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
Good tips.
I'm only listening to it now, just because they have those gorgeous accents.
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#10
 2007-02-08, 12:59
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
Dave's such a badass.
nice find
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#11
 2007-02-08, 14:21
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
Fat guy could always learn the skills, practice them continuously at the same time as gradually losing weight.
Suddenly, he's a super stud.
To be fair, any action for a guy like that is better than none.
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#12
 2007-02-08, 14:29
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
About 8 minutes in on Part one. And Fat Guy's got some balls I'll give him that.
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#13
 2007-02-08, 16:47
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
Actaully, I know all that stuff. Its easy to observe. Its easy to come to conclusions. But its harder to actually change. To get rid of those bad things like keeping hands in pockets, being a bit hunched (im 6'2" so I have to hunch to talk to half the people around here), and a smile. DAMN IT! I need to smile more, talk a bit more clearly and louder, and fucking TALK! Ive already had so many situations where Im with some one special for me and I cant think of absolutely anything to say to her. Tomorrow is a big day, the last day I see her in the next two weeks and I am more than determined to fucking DO something, something to get that bit more attention from her.
Cause I have the same mind set as the fatty does, I dont like my look and wonder why would somebody else like it. And how could some one even stay friends with me, cause Im kinda creepy, and ive heard that too many times before, being over 6' and at 145pounds, quiet and the fucking INDIFFERENT face, I got asked about it today, that I always wear the same fucking face. And am even able to hold a straigh face anytime. Its that I have to think before I can do something spontanous(sp?). And thats not spontanous anymore.
Ok, enough of this shit. Its time to think. FUCK NO, its time to act.
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#14
 2007-02-08, 17:21
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
I watched some of it and plan to finish watching it when I get a chance.
But...I'm not so sure about the touching thing. I don't like people I don't know to touch me. It would make me uncomfortable for a guy to come up to me and touch me like that.
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#15
 2007-02-08, 19:02
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LiquidIce 
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by oc6:
I watched some of it and plan to finish watching it when I get a chance.
But...I'm not so sure about the touching thing. I don't like people I don't know to touch me. It would make me uncomfortable for a guy to come up to me and touch me like that.
Hm, I more than sure that this is important. And its better if its used against the other sex. I would damn uhm, well, wierd of some guy started being all touchy. But if you like a girl, or want to approach one, this is a basic. If she accepts it, means you got a foothold, if not, then just give up.
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#16
 2007-02-08, 19:44
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by LiquidIce:
Actaully, I know all that stuff. Its easy to observe. Its easy to come to conclusions. But its harder to actually change. To get rid of those bad things like keeping hands in pockets, being a bit hunched (im 6'2" so I have to hunch to talk to half the people around here), and a smile. DAMN IT! I need to smile more, talk a bit more clearly and louder, and fucking TALK! Ive already had so many situations where Im with some one special for me and I cant think of absolutely anything to say to her. Tomorrow is a big day, the last day I see her in the next two weeks and I am more than determined to fucking DO something, something to get that bit more attention from her.
Cause I have the same mind set as the fatty does, I dont like my look and wonder why would somebody else like it. And how could some one even stay friends with me, cause Im kinda creepy, and ive heard that too many times before, being over 6' and at 145pounds, quiet and the fucking INDIFFERENT face, I got asked about it today, that I always wear the same fucking face. And am even able to hold a straigh face anytime. Its that I have to think before I can do something spontanous(sp?). And thats not spontanous anymore.
Ok, enough of this shit. Its time to think. FUCK NO, its time to act.
Hahaha, we're twins. No facial expression comes naturally to me (except smiling, and then only on some occasions - and I hate my smile so I don't anyway). I'm tall, though an inch shorter than you, and I'm not the right height for anything unless I hunch! My hands just feel like they belong in my pockets, too. One of my professors calls me Silent Guy because I almost never talk... and when I do it's a low mumble/rumble. And, like Fatty, I don't like myself and wonder how anyone else could.
But there's good news. I found the girl of my dreams. She loves me even though I'm weird and ugly.  There's hope for us!
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#17
 2007-02-08, 20:29
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
Holy shit, Fatty McButter pants had the yellowest fuckin teeth. Goddamn, all Britsh people are ugly too. Only a few of the girls would be considered good looking in the U.S.
Was interesting development to watch. Was funny how poor fatty's social IQ was. In the bar, 2nd time he approached that decent looking chick, she looked unconmfortale as fuck, obviously threw digits just to get this blob with yellow teeth away from her.
The tall dude obviously had a chance all along. Wasn't weird looking and being tall is attractive. He just warped his mind so bad, probably from some mocking coments on his lanky height when he was younger.
Lard ass and the short guy, though, will always have trouble with women. Just natural selection.
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#18
 2007-02-08, 22:07
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
what balls. To be are not to be why is that a question?I've got no balls when comes to women. Maybe Ebay might have some
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#19
 2007-02-08, 22:58
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:
Lemme rephrase that, get anywhere with anyone under 300lbs or not otherwise hideous
But hey, if you wanna settle for the tablescraps.
YOU are the exact kind of troll who destroys the confidence of people like that - who are exactlty the same as you and me - and deserve just as much the chance for love.
Die, you faeces of the human race.
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#20
 2007-02-08, 23:28
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dodging the rain and tractors
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by SlapinFoFun:
Holy shit, Fatty McButter pants had the yellowest fuckin teeth.
Ya think? (http://tinyurl.com/2tvwph)
Ain't never cramped my style none.
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#21
 2007-02-09, 00:30
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by jackketch:
Ya think? (http://tinyurl.com/2tvwph)
Ain't never cramped my style none.
I think you need to pull your shit back together.
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#22
 2007-02-09, 01:03
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by LiquidIce:
Actaully, I know all that stuff. Its easy to observe. Its easy to come to conclusions. But its harder to actually change. To get rid of those bad things like keeping hands in pockets, being a bit hunched (im 6'2" so I have to hunch to talk to half the people around here), and a smile. DAMN IT! I need to smile more, talk a bit more clearly and louder, and fucking TALK! Ive already had so many situations where Im with some one special for me and I cant think of absolutely anything to say to her. Tomorrow is a big day, the last day I see her in the next two weeks and I am more than determined to fucking DO something, something to get that bit more attention from her.
Cause I have the same mind set as the fatty does, I dont like my look and wonder why would somebody else like it. And how could some one even stay friends with me, cause Im kinda creepy, and ive heard that too many times before, being over 6' and at 145pounds, quiet and the fucking INDIFFERENT face, I got asked about it today, that I always wear the same fucking face. And am even able to hold a straigh face anytime. Its that I have to think before I can do something spontanous(sp?). And thats not spontanous anymore.
Ok, enough of this shit. Its time to think. FUCK NO, its time to act.
Roflmao, inspirational. I use to have a problem with never smiling, I got out of it by just listening to a shitload of feel good music. Blast the shit out of your ears until you get in a good ass mood, then its easy to smile.
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#23
 2007-02-09, 01:11
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
Fatties do get women. I'm fat. I admit it. I have stretch marks, man tits, you name it. I'm 5'11 and almost 270 pounds. But despite this, I've never, EVER had an ugly, or fat, girlfriend. The "fattest" girlfriend I had was about 145 pounds, and she was big-boned and 5'8.
Anytime I'm out with people, and someone asks me who the blonde, big-titted, model-bodied girl is, no one believes she's my girl. We're both completely in love with eachother. I'm also flat broke so she ain't in it for the money either. It's all in the attitude.
Sure, superficial women exist that will only bang 6 foot tall guys who weigh 170 pounds, have a pound of lard in their hair and listen to Sean Paul, and drive a BMW, but those women are whores.
And before anyone tries to say I met my girlfriends on MSN, not one of them were met online. I met all of my girlfriends in person.
It's all in the attitude and personality. Or in my case, being a good bullshitter.
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#24
 2007-02-09, 01:32
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
Meh, all is staged. The ladies want three things:
1) Teh cock.
2) Teh car.
3) Teh money.
Everithing else is a lie/delusional drunkness.
...and remember kids! Beauty is in the eye of the Beer-holder! Use alcohol to your advantage!
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#25
 2007-02-09, 02:29
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samurai_steve 
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by Ronin13:
Meh, all is staged. The ladies want three things:
1) Teh cock.
2) Teh car.
3) Teh money.
Everithing else is a lie/delusional drunkness.
...and remember kids! Beauty is in the eye of the Beer-holder! Use alcohol to your advantage!
I think it's safe to say that you know nothing about women
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#26
 2007-02-09, 04:31
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by samurai_steve:
I think it's safe to say that you know nothing about women
Fuck you. You'll eventually realize it when you're dating with girls with more than 20 years. As they realize they are loosing beauty, they'll try to latch on any male host that has at least something on each requirements.
Under 18, they're all undecissive hoes that lie about their feelings since their sole objective is to get teh cock.
At least with the 98% of female population. And yes, we could debate hours on how a women's psyche is different, subtle beings and all that (wich is not) crap.
Thing is, I am tired of having to move around females like they're made of cristal when the statistics indicate me that most are worthless sluts.
And yes, there are exceptions, but I've spent quite a time without getting even TRACES of those females.
And yes, you can say it's all about attitude. I am not talking about how to fish them, I am talking about what most of them are up to.
And yes, I am tired of the same crap.
And quite so! Why don't you have a nice cup of shut the fuck up? Eh?
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#27
 2007-02-09, 06:52
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:
But there's good news. I found the girl of my dreams. She loves me even though I'm weird and ugly.  There's hope for us!
Dude, thats great. Hope it lasts  as long as possible.
quote:Originally posted by Easy Rider:
Roflmao, inspirational. I use to have a problem with never smiling, I got out of it by just listening to a shitload of feel good music. Blast the shit out of your ears until you get in a good ass mood, then its easy to smile.
Thats what Ive been doing too, I just layd off the Vader/Metallica music, and went back to something from my childhood, the 90's music (Smack My Bitch Up), which always brings a smile to my face.
quote:Originally posted by Ronin13:
Blah blah BLAH blah...
Id have to agree with you paritally. People rather believe in such things as love to make life more worth living. Sadly, or maybe happily, even though a voice is yelling at the back of my head "it aint gonna last, she's not the one you fag face", I somehow have this illusion of chance that she may actually be the one.
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#28
 2007-02-09, 07:32
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Re: I think that this video would be good for a lot of us!
quote:Originally posted by Ronin13:
Fuck you. You'll eventually realize it when you're dating with girls with more than 20 years. As they realize they are loosing beauty, they'll try to latch on any male host that has at least something on each requirements.
Under 18, they're all undecissive hoes that lie about their feelings since their sole objective is to get teh cock.
At least with the 98% of female population. And yes, we could debate hours on how a women's psyche is different, subtle beings and all that (wich is not) crap.
Thing is, I am tired of having to move around females like they're made of cristal when the statistics indicate me that most are worthless sluts.
And yes, there are exceptions, but I've spent quite a time without getting even TRACES of those females.
And yes, you can say it's all about attitude. I am not talking about how to fish them, I am talking about what most of them are up to.
And yes, I am tired of the same crap.
And quite so! Why don't you have a nice cup of shut the fuck up? Eh?
You may be right but i hope you aren't. I feel a certain way about the world, i can only hope that a fair portion of women have some similar feelings and thoughts. Who knows though.. popular culture is pumping out a lot of dumbasses these days.
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