Alright, long story short.

When I was 12 my parents got divorced. My dad turned gay, and my mom never got remarried. She should have, because well, since then she hasn't really had any money, and she is stupid about what she does with it. Examples include:

1.buying dogs right before she was selling her house. spending money on doggie day care, hair cuts, and stupid shit for them.

2. Selling her house, and buying one of equal value where the taxes were a lot higher.

3. Spending money on more stupid, stupid shit.

Basicly, she works, barely. And I feel bad for my grandma because, my mom dosen't realize that calling my grandma to pick up the kids, getting her to pay for things like a car, getting it fixed, christmas presents for the kids, and Now the furnace. My grandmas only income is SS. And well, its shit.

My grandma is my mothers fall back for all her mistakes, and although I have told my grandma not to, she still does it. Its not the first time my mom has pulled this shit. It's proabably the 20th time.

I guess the last straw was when she called me and told me that her furnace was out, like I was going to do something about it.

A little history about me and my mother. My mom kicked me out more than once, starting at 17, and when I needed someplace to go she won't let me around, she has taken over 1000 dollars from me, and thinks I owe her shit. When I was little she used to go to a psyc and tell her how bad I was, ect. * I wasn't really*, I was on so many meds as a kid, I still am a little fucked up over it.

So, she called and basicly told my grandma she needed money. I was furious, I didn't say anything because well, I didn't want to make my grandma cry.

I think the easiest solution, is for my mom to put out, and get a husband. I just can't find a way to tell her. Any suggestions?

PS. I really really dislike my mother for many more reasons, other than in this thread, but they don't pertain to the current situation. I am just tired of her taking advantage of EVERYONE, and then wondering why people won't help her.

She has been playing this whole." OMG i'm divorced" shit for way too long. *over 10 years*

I doubt very much that her having a husband would solve the problems.

she needs another form of income, and if she sold her house, she would be fine.

You'd inflict that scourge on another human being? If something, steal her shit to cover the money she stole from you

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

I doubt very much that her having a husband would solve the problems.

Indeed; she needs a master. Get her hooked into the BDSM scene, and get someone to take ownership of her.

you did not make it clear: how old are you and do you live with your mother currently?

I'm 21, and I am visting family.

Yeah, you fail to realize that any man capable of providing for a woman is already taken by this time in your mother's life. You see, dumb bitches like her slutted around for their whole life and now all of the good, caring men are taken and all that is left are the druggies and losers that will end up beating her and stealing from her.

Just one question:

Is she hot?