I feel as if this should be common sense to most people. Why would you even do it? Unless you broke up because somebody was moving or you thought he was MIA or something, don't get back together. You broke up for a reason, and it's just going to be hell once you get back together, and you'll only end up here, with me having to read it and tell you how much of an idiot you are.

So please, give people a once over, and maybe a reacharound, but don't go back for seconds. PLEASE.

Good advice. I'm too stupid to follow it though. I still hook up with my ex regularly, and she keeps trying to make it into some sort of relationship. I'm an asshole :\

I'm never getting back with my ex-girl. She's a bitch.

My current girlfriend and I dated for about 3 months last year and we got back together. Her dad made her break up with me. He even told me to my face that he thought I was no good and I will never date his daughter. How is an EMT/Firefighter a no good? Anyway, Ive been with her 7 months this time, and this time her dad is out of the picture. So your advice isnt always the best option, but usually a good idea

my psycho ass ex called me lastnight...it was kinda awkward, I think she might be plotting to kill me *loads shotgun*

my ex-bf still kinda tries to get me back... and says he'll be back to get me and makes threats about whoever i might be with then. but yeah he's miles away from me and i'm starting to like someone else... i still feel guilty about him wanting to get back with me and i'm slowly moving away... jus saddens me that he still says he loves me and that he'll be back to get me, cuz i don't think i'd split with someone who treats me right, to go back to him.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Good advice. I'm too stupid to follow it though. I still hook up with my ex regularly, and she keeps trying to make it into some sort of relationship. I'm an asshole :\

I know the feeling.

I still get occasional drunk phone calls from an ex, telling me that she misses me and she'll break up with her fiance for me (wtf) but Ive easily held out... reforming a broken relationship could be good, in some circumstances, I guess. Not for me, though.

My ex broke up with me a couple of months ago. Guess what, next afternoon she phones me up and says she wants to get back together with me. WTF? Stupid, fucking bitch, she bashed my pride, made me hate her, and then tries to pretend it can go on anyway.

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

I still get occasional drunk phone calls from an ex, telling me that she misses me and she'll break up with her fiance for me (wtf) but Ive easily held out... reforming a broken relationship could be good, in some circumstances, I guess. Not for me, though.

Poor fiance

good advice, but im too much of a dumbass to follow it

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Good advice. I'm too stupid to follow it though. I still hook up with my ex regularly, and she keeps trying to make it into some sort of relationship. I'm an asshole :\

how true, how true :\

I am on the other end of the telescope .

I love this woman whom i left upon the otherside of the globe. We went out and she broke it off . She knows how i feel .

I never told her though i am just assuming she does because of the depth of my feelings.

I cant do anything about it . Different hemispheres. But fuck it eh ? , you just move on dont you.

I would love to go there again just for a smile and to hear her laugh . I dont really mind whether we make love . A hug and a smile is all i am accustomed to and at times i wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.

I want my ex back so bad it makes me sick. Thinking how she fucked my best friend... it makes it hurt so bad. I feel like an emotional pushover. We're still close.... but god, I would do anything. She made me feel like I was on cocaine.

quote:Originally posted by genericwittyusername:

I want my ex back so bad it makes me sick. Thinking how she fucked my best friend... it makes it hurt so bad. I feel like an emotional pushover. We're still close.... but god, I would do anything. She made me feel like I was on cocaine.

That's because being in love and being high on coke is the same chemical reactions in your brain.

Heartache lasts too long, whereas the coke comedown is only a couple hours at most.

For awhile I let cocaine replace women in my life, but I'm thinking maybe I'll give women another chance...but I don't know. Coke is expensive, but so are women.

quote:Originally posted by Rykoshet:

I feel as if this should be common sense to most people. Why would you even do it? Unless you broke up because somebody was moving or you thought he was MIA or something, don't get back together. You broke up for a reason, and it's just going to be hell once you get back together, and you'll only end up here, with me having to read it and tell you how much of an idiot you are.

So please, give people a once over, and maybe a reacharound, but don't go back for seconds. PLEASE.

....whoops. I just got back with my ex about a week ago. I was the one to terminate our previous relationship, but I question(ed) my reasons. We get along just fine and really enjoy out time together. Oh yeah, it's a long distance realtionship if that makes a difference. We were together for about 3.5 yrs ( i know that's a long..very long time).

quote:Originally posted by casanova:

That's because being in love and being high on coke is the same chemical reactions in your brain.

Heartache lasts too long, whereas the coke comedown is only a couple hours at most.

For awhile I let cocaine replace women in my life, but I'm thinking maybe I'll give women another chance...but I don't know. Coke is expensive, but so are women.

You're still close with the chick you were in love with, who fucked your best friend? Good for you pal! :P