ok so this may get confusing but ill give it ago...

Half way throu May last year i started seeing a guy. Lets call him Chocolate.

I was seeing him for 6 months and then we broke up because things were starting to get so hard. even tho we broke up we were still seeing each other.... in this time of seeing each other i starting gettin feelings for my brothers mate, lets call him vanilla. Me and Chocolate ended up having a big fight over me having feelings for vanilla and he ended up wanting nothing to do with me. so after 3 weeks or so of me and chocolate not talking i started going out with vanilla.

everything was fine but then he started gettin way to obsessive and to controllig, he wouldnt let me do anything so i couldnt handle that so i broke up with him then that same week of us breaking up me and chocolate started talking again.

(of course i never stoped liking chocolate)

So now i really like chocolate and my feelings for vanilla are still there.

There 2 totally different people and both get to me in there differnt ways so im really confused on what to do!!

AND on top of that, my x from like 2004 has come back and started talking to me again and wants to see if theres anything still between us!?

What do i do!? Someone please help me.

xxMWAZxx

First of all, I don't like you.

Now we've covered that, I would suggest NOT entering into a relationship with vanilla again. You've been there, and he's a control freak. Cross him off the list.

Second of all, analyse the relationship you had with chocolate. What exactly was it that ended the relationship? If you don't know, or cannot give me a reason better than 'it was too hard' without thorough explination, then it's likely you broke up for no reason.

Third and finally, the ex from 2004 seems like an afterthought to you. Only pursue this eventuality if the other two boys, after careful consideration (no lying to yourself about anything, okay?) turn out to be lost causes.

Choose what is best for you, and do not be overwhelmed. These boys are pining (gunning, wanting) for you, not the other way around.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

First of all, I don't like you.I'm guessing you only feel for any of them with your head, your heart would tell you the right one. But maybe not.

Get to know these guys better before you commit to any of them. I made the mistake when two girls both liked me at the same time of going out with the buffest one first, then cheating on her with the other one. Now neither of them talk to me.



[This message has been edited by UraniYum (edited 02-07-2007).]

HA! I told ya indecisiveness is a female trait!

Any way, to make it easier for us to give you a proper opinion, write a pros and cons list of "chocolate and vanilla".

Otherwise I'll just have to give you an opinion based on which flavour I like more. Then I say choose vanilla.

lol, y u troll me?

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Then I say choose vanilla.

I like chocolate.

*hope chocolate isn't a jerkwad*

(oh...I guess the 2004 guy is strawberry?)

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 02-07-2007).]

Based on the quality of her posts I thought she was going to slip up one of their names like two sentences in.

quote:Well, let's just call them, uh, Mr. X and Mrs. Y. So anyway, Mr.X would say, 'Marge, if this doesn't get your motor running, my name isn't "Homer J. Simpson."

Thoroughly disappointed.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



(oh...I guess the 2004 guy is strawberry?)



Damn, beat me to it.

To the OP: you're not ready for a proper relationship. Go away and grow up.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

First of all, I don't like you.

Second... hmm.. actually thats all.

I say vanilla because its also the better flavour.

Ithink I have the anwser: switch to neopolitan.

Get chocolate/vanilla swirl. Can't go wrong.

I was gonna give you some advice, but this whole "chocolate/vanilla" thing makes it look ridiculous.

By any chance, is Chocolate a negro and Vanilla caucasian?

wait, Can we call the Ex Strawberry?

Alright, so you are in decicive. I pray that you are under the age of 20. That could explain a lot.

It sounds like both of them aren't good for you. Have you ever thought about casualy meeting boys, and just kinda seeing whats out there, and not preasuring your self in to anything? That looks like it might be the route to go.

quote:Originally posted by Toraton:

Get chocolate/vanilla swirl. Can't go wrong.

Winner.

^ I disagree.

quote:Originally posted by just a name:

Ithink I have the anwser: switch to neopolitan.

Winner!

quote:Originally posted by UraniYum:

Originally posted by stab:

First of all, I don't like you.I'm guessing you only feel for any of them with your head, your heart would tell you the right one. But maybe not.

Get to know these guys better before you commit to any of them. I made the mistake when two girls both liked me at the same time of going out with the buffest one first, then cheating on her with the other one. Now neither of them talk to me.





are you on crack

lol

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Based on the quality of her posts I thought she was going to slip up one of their names like two sentences in.

Thoroughly disappointed.

Me too. They usually do. Maybe it's just a fluke.

Anyway, chocolate > vanilla.

Forget about both of them and get kinky with strawberry.

Gee thanks for all your help people.

Have no idea why half of you'se dont like me?? I am under the age of 20 (not far off tho) AND im alot smarter than slipping up on the whole naming thing.

So sorry for using flavours what did u want me to say!?!

once again thanks for all your negativeness, if thats even a word!

[This message has been edited by LiL MisSy (edited 02-08-2007).]

quote:xxMWAZxx

Am still trying to decipher this. Will respond when have done so.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Am still trying to decipher this. Will respond when have done so.

I believe it's a kiss.

I don't like you, but I gave you my best advice.

Me not liking you has nothing to do with my advice to you.