Theres a very hot girl i see most days, i walk past her work. For maybe 3 months she showed all the signs she liked me (prolonged eye contact, smile, waving)but unfortunately im a bit of a dumb cunt and never approached her. Then all of a sudden nothing she turns away as i walk past, hardly smiles and kind of looks uncomfortable when i try to make eye contact etc.

My qustion is if your a girl and you liked a guy then found a boyfriend would act this way? Or would it be another reason for example she saw me with a girl and assumed it was a girlfriend.. something like that.

No. It has to do with the facts she was giving you all the signs to approach her. But when you DIDN'T for three months, and just kept staring at you, her feelings went from possibly wanting you, to thinking you're creepy.

Maybe she thinks you don't like her?

Do you ever actually talk to this girl?

Im thinking tomorrow ill throw a teddy bear with a note attatched at her(more often than not i cant approach her shes dealing with a customer).

Something along the lines of

Youre hot do u have a boyfriend. If not lets go out sometime .If you have got one thats OK but you can still smile and say hi instead of avoiding me.

Does this sound like a good idea? Im in a situation that i want to be sweet enough for her to break up with her boyfreind if shes got one ithe few weeks shes been ignoring me. And i cant not walk past her everyday unless i take a huge detour so itd be nice not to avoid each other.

quote:Originally posted by P.R:

Im thinking tomorrow ill throw a teddy bear with a note attatched at her(more often than not i cant approach her shes dealing with a customer).Teddy bear = bad idea in my opinion. But that's because I'd only want someone who knew me really well to buy me one, one that I'd like. And not a crappy one from a greetings card shop.

Hmm i have somewhat similar circumstances but its with 4-5 girls i just like flirting with them i never seem to go further unless chemically inebriated.

yes i think theres something wrong with me you sir just fucked up so move on and see the next girl who smiles and waves.

Sorry man but I think it's too late. You hesitated way too long.

But you're not alone, I do that all the time.

Instead of a teddy bear, use a brick. It'll get her attention better.

The thing is i have to go past her every day. I dont really care if shes moved on and found a boyfriend or whatever but it'd be nice to still acknowledge each other.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Instead of a teddy bear, use a brick. It'll get her attention better.

haha ! , Brick ftw