Ok, I really like this girl, I usually wouldn't be so nervous but I really like her and she never says yes to anyone. I was hoping you guys could tell me how t go about this so she says yes, she already told me she'kinda' likes me. It would really tear me up on the inside if she says no. Well my questions are, when should I ask her?, in person ?, how could I make it so there is a better chance of her saying yes ?



Thanks if you help.

Sorry about the skipping around and shit, I gotta hurry.

I wouldn't bother. Jack to her a couple of times if you think she's that great and move on.

Bump.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Ask her in person. Invite her out somewhere fun.

Talk to her a lot. Refuse to talk to her about other guys and shit-mouthing girly gossip. Don't be 'one of the girls'. Then, start touching her a lot. Make things between you phsysical. Tickling is corny, but it works. Lastly, don't just ask her out. Unless by 'asking her out' you don't mean "will you be my girlfriend" you mean "hey want to hang out/catch a movie/go bowling/gokartin/what ever" on the week end.

Invite her to do something fun. If you're fun to hang out with, she'll want to be around you more. Keep being fun to be around, and then you can consider asking her out.

You know what really pisses me off? When you ask a girl out and it goes something like this:

me: "Hey, what are you doing this weekend?"

her: "I don't know yet. You?"

me: "Nothing.. well there's this movie I want to see, [insert movie name], have you seen it?"

her: "Nope."

me: "I hear it's really good. What do you say we go see it this weekend?"

her: "Yeah great idea, I'd love to! We should get a whole bunch of friends together and go as a group!"

me: "..Yeah."

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Yeah, that has happened to me.

Bump.

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Ask her via text message. It will let her know you are in the 'now'. Chicks dig it. "wan2sex?" It is fast, incredibly personal, and saves you face to face humiliation.

quote:Originally posted by Gojeero:

Ask her via text message. It will let her know you are in the 'now'. Chicks dig it. "wan2sex?" It is fast, incredibly personal, and saves you face to face humiliation.

LAWL liar, it's hard to just go and ask someone out, do you know her well? If not talk to her more become better freinds then ask her in the mits of conversation start talkign about films and a new film out say you want to see hopefully she'll says somethign like "yeh me to" then its easy to ask her.

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

You know what really pisses me off? When you ask a girl out and it goes something like this:

me: "Hey, what are you doing this weekend?"

her: "I don't know yet. You?"

me: "Nothing.. well there's this movie I want to see, [insert movie name], have you seen it?"

her: "Nope."

me: "I hear it's really good. What do you say we go see it this weekend?"

her: "Yeah great idea, I'd love to! We should get a whole bunch of friends together and go as a group!"

me: "..Yeah."

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yeah i hate that lol. but when that happens jsut try to make the best of it and sit next to her if you can and make slight jokes every now and then. and honestly if she says that she has no interest in you realyl and she wont be reseptive.

quote:Originally posted by Ravenman:

yeah i hate that lol. but when that happens jsut try to make the best of it and sit next to her if you can and make slight jokes every now and then. and honestly if she says that she has no interest in you realyl and she wont be reseptive.

Or you can just say "NO BITCH, I WANT TO SEE IT ALONE, FUCK YOUR FRIENDS. FUCK EM IN THE ARSE!"

Don't stand for that shit.

I'm in the exact same boat as the OP.tomorrow,we've organised to hang out.but as this town is shit,basicaly the only thing to do is go to the movies.or get drunk.either way im gonna find out if she likes me

quote:Originally posted by shadow operative:

LAWL liar, it's hard to just go and ask someone out, do you know her well? If not talk to her more become better freinds then ask her in the mits of conversation start talkign about films and a new film out say you want to see hopefully she'll says somethign like "yeh me to" then its easy to ask her.

I'm not quite sure if you're using sarcasm to respond to his......god help you if you're not

Get her slightly tipsy, hang out with her and wait for the right moment and kiss her. Don't ask first, do things first and then apologise, and then do it again if you enjoyed it. One thing leads to another. Good luck.

Turn off the lights so that it is pitch black. Then tell her that if she doesn't say "yes" she will be likely to be eaten by a Grue. But be careful because the Grue may eat you too.

Get out of Highschool, the "pool" is a lot bigger. Its a lot easier to get laid, with less preasure.

Hey does this smell like chloroform to you? always works.

Seriously though.

quote:Originally posted by Ravenman:

yeah i hate that lol. but when that happens jsut try to make the best of it and sit next to her if you can and make slight jokes every now and then. and honestly if she says that she has no interest in you realyl and she wont be reseptive.

Yeah. But every time? I must be doing something wrong.

Maybe I should make my own thread.

Ffs. Just tell her. This is how conversation goes:

You : I like you.

Her : Good. / Bad.

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