I met a guy at the New Year's, there was some chemistry right from the beggining, but because we were in a families' getogether for the new year, we didn't really make a move onto each other (with parents, brothers and family friends' all around not much room for flirting). Some time after we were on the phone and got to the conclusion we were indeed very interested in each other...

So yeah we had been talking and decided to meet and I knew he was a virgin but we still got to sexual intercourse the second night we met. I guess it should be meaningful that he had his first time with me, which we enjoyed a lot, and we're going to get together more often for sure.

Thing is, I come to think I might want to move into a relationship with this guy and not just 2 friends shagging each other once in a while. I asked him about it in the coolest way I could, and his answer was that it was too soon to know if we were going to be bf and gf...

Oh well I'm not too bothered about it, but I don't usually go shagging guys around just for fun, I'd rather keep it real and exclusive and I'm already falling a bit for him so yeah... For a start he felt attracted to me and things worked out greatly, the sex was good and all (I think there are non-virgins that would do worse than him lol), we talk every day... but I want to make him feel more than that as I know I'm already growing feelings for him.

I should take it slow and let things roll because I sense I'm in the right path, still want to ask for advice, any thoughts on this?

Thanks a bunch =)

Patience. Keep doing what you've been doing. When you sex, pull out some wicked crazy shit.

The only girl I stayed with captivated me with this line during the first time we had sex "You can blow on my tits or in my mouth"...I knew she was a keeper from that moment.

But seriously, he's a virgin, fulfill his fantasies. He wont be able to let go of you.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:



But seriously, he's a virgin, fulfill his fantasies. He wont be able to let go of you.

SO GOD DAMN TRUE

Not going to claim I'm sex goddess but I'm kinky enough... and I have 3 nipples which is always a lil surprise (he liked it) ha ha!

But yeah I didn't use all my moves the first time with him, still have more tricks for the next... guess I can keep him interested in the sex till he might fall for me.

And if he doesn't, oh well, at least I'll be having some fun =D

quote:Originally posted by deathbyrainbows:

and I have 3 nipples

OMG, so do I! ...we should fuck.

(Smooooooth, or what?)

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

(Smooooooth, or what?)

Indeed =P

Are there any more suggestions?

Besides grab him with sex and take it slow...

Thanks =)

Nope. Just grab him with sex =)

bump

3 nipples? where is the extra one? paint me a picture. (well taking a picture would be better)...I'm curious.

it's still incorporated on the right boob, bout half an inch below the "original" right nipple. it's smaller but looks like the original ones, it's sensitive n all.

i'm still looking for advice on the guy tho (the one i want to be my bf, not the nipple).

quote:Originally posted by deathbyrainbows:

it's still incorporated on the right boob, bout half an inch below the "original" right nipple. it's smaller but looks like the original ones, it's sensitive n all.

i'm still looking for advice on the guy tho (the one i want to be my bf, not the nipple).

And you will be duly rewarded for your nipple details.

You have to be careful I guess, some totally radical young dewds (the kind you see in here going on about "wingmen" and the like) just want sex without commitment, and will take it anyway they can.

Do you feel it's moving towards a proper relationship? do you suspect he has feelings for you?

I just got a new PSU in the post today, boy I'm going to get my timings so low.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

You have to be careful I guess, some totally radical young dewds (the kind you see in here going on about "wingmen" and the like) just want sex without commitment, and will take it anyway they can.

Do you feel it's moving towards a proper relationship? do you suspect he has feelings for you?

well i think he likes me for a start... i mean when we talked about meeting he said i caused a "big impact" on him...n we were kinda flirting... he took the initiative saying he was interested on me before we even started to give out more sexual hints...

i know his family, he knows mine... dunno, we talk nearly everyday and we're scheduling another meeting soon (after i finish mid-term exams), i might go spend the night at his place.

so yeah slowly i hope it develops into a relationship... =)

bump

heh

nevermind... after all I had nothing to be worrying about.

he already asked me to be his gf

thanks for the advice though