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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-02-04, 18:15
cranfields_a_chode cranfields_a_chode is offline
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EVERY MOTHERFUCKING TIME!

This isn't funny to me any more, in my last relationship, my girlfriend barely touched me and I was off, or, if I did make it inside her, it would last 2-5 minutes TOPS. I didn't even care about her that much..and at least she was a virgin.

Now, I'm heading into this new relationship, with a girl I care A LOT about, I've seriously never felt like this about any person before, and my friends and I are closer than brothers. It's real weird for me.

We havn't done anything yet, but when it gets to that stage, I know she's not a virgin, had a fuck buddy for a year, and I'm fucking nervous. I've read on the internet just to be calm and shit, or buy all these "amazing" products that could keep you going for days, but none of it has worked, and how am I meant to stay calm if I'm thinking I'm going to have to live up to the standards she was used to..and she "loved" that guy, back in the day.

This is fucking my head over...

R.
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Old 2007-02-04, 18:22
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DXM.

I once tried fapping for 50 minutes before I realised it was a lost cause and that I was never going to cum.
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Old 2007-02-04, 18:35
cranfields_a_chode cranfields_a_chode is offline
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I live in the UK, so that stuff isnt widely accessable to me..plus, isnt it a cough repellant??

R.
 #4 
Old 2007-02-04, 18:45
Mr.Happy Mr.Happy is offline
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quote:Originally posted by cranfields_a_chode:

I live in the UK, so that stuff isnt widely accessable to me...

Heh.
 #5 
Old 2007-02-04, 18:46
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Away with thee coughs!
 #6 
Old 2007-02-04, 18:53
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quote:Originally posted by cranfields_a_chode:

I live in the UK, so that stuff isnt widely accessable to me..plus, isnt it a cough repellant??

R.

Benylin dry cough non drowsy.

Costs £3.50 from a pharmacy, or £3.69 from Boots.
 #7 
Old 2007-02-04, 18:56
frinkmakesyouthink frinkmakesyouthink is offline
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No no no no no

Do it naturally.

Every day do kegel exercises (tense that muscle that stops you pissing). Tense it 20 times, rest for a minute, hold it tense as long as you can. Do that three times a day

Every night, fap until you almost come. Then stop and read something about cars, or something like that, so you completely lose your stiffie. Then go back and fap until you almost come again. Read, fap, read, fap. Do that five times and then on the sixth time just come. Do that every night

It worked for me!
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Old 2007-02-04, 19:09
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quote:Originally posted by frinkmakesyouthink:

No no no no no

Do it naturally.



+1. But I wouldn't say you necessarily need to masturbate every day - whatever's normal for you. Use the technique described by frinkmakesyouthink - do not cum for 35-50 minutes.

You might also want to try to masturbate a couple of hours before the intercourse.
 #9 
Old 2007-02-04, 19:57
lordsjohnson lordsjohnson is offline
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Right before you're going to fuck excuse yourself to the bathroom. Beat your meet and shoot a load. Then go back and tear the pussy up.

This is a tried and true method.
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Old 2007-02-04, 21:29
Kx1 Kx1 is offline
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Do what he said, beat off right before you and her are gonna screw around. If you can, piss after you jerk it because it'll clear all the leftover sperm out of your dick.
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Old 2007-02-04, 21:34
grungekid grungekid is offline
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I have this problem too some times. Do these three things right here:

1. Practice kegels (long term investment)

2. Fap earlier that same day.

3. Take around 150 mg of DXM (mildly fun and pretty effective)

Alternatively, for step 3, a modest dose of ambien (5-10mg) made me horny and last quite a while.
 #12 
Old 2007-02-04, 22:14
AprenticeChemistBITCHS AprenticeChemistBITCHS is offline
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Why not instead of fapping just have her suck your dick before you guys fuck? I mean if its going to be a realationship type thing shouldn't you involve foreplay? Anytime me and my girl mess around theres always foreplay its been getting less latly but most of the time before we would always cum before we fucked then cum again during sex. Also fapping an hour or two before hand doesn't garuntee anything. It helps some but if I have that much space between fucking and fapping it doesn't effect it it usually needs to be done a few miniutes prior for it to really help at all.
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Old 2007-02-04, 22:22
bloodenangel bloodenangel is offline
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Tie a rubber band around the base of your penis.
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Old 2007-02-04, 22:24
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First thing to do is see your doctor.
 
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