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 #1 
Old 2007-02-04, 14:18
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Default Ever wish you met someone later in life?

I've really been liking a girl, and in a more than sexual way. This is kinda rare for me, being a bit of a slut.

I know that I could never commit to one person right now...but that doesn't change how I feel about her... if that makes any sense and isn't too hypocritical.

I just wish I could meet her later, when I wanted to settle down, rather than having met her now when I'm not.

Anyone else follow?

-deus-
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Old 2007-02-04, 14:20
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Default Re: Ever wish you met someone later in life?

I met a guy once who I really liked. I fucked things up alot at the time because I was so..weird.

I was so obsessed with my eating disorder and that sort of rubbish, it's like I wasnt really..alive.

Now I am, but he's long gone. Meh.
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Old 2007-02-04, 14:28
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Considering you haven't stopped talking about her for the last 4 weeks, I totally follow.

And the answer? Cryogenics.
 #4 
Old 2007-02-04, 14:31
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Often.
 #5 
Old 2007-02-04, 15:01
Solidus Solidus is offline
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Indeed. :/
 #6 
Old 2007-02-04, 15:10
shiva shiva is offline
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Yeah...
 #7 
Old 2007-02-04, 15:12
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Must have missed 3-5 amazing girls thanks to my inexperience at the time.

High, and I've come to 4 girls.

No, 5.

Just thought of a another one. 6



[This message has been edited by Aseren (edited 02-04-2007).]
 #8 
Old 2007-02-04, 15:13
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Yep.
 #9 
Old 2007-02-04, 15:22
neato bandito neato bandito is offline
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Unfortunately, yes.
 #10 
Old 2007-02-04, 15:53
grungekid grungekid is offline
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Yes. I was just thinking about this a week ago.
 #11 
Old 2007-02-04, 17:36
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Hells yeah. I think this is pretty much a universal feeling for people at some point in their lives.
 #12 
Old 2007-02-04, 17:43
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Default Re: Ever wish you met someone later in life?

I'm glad I met everyone in my life at the point I met them. Things didn't always work out well at the time, but I fear that if I changed anything, things now wouldn't be like they are, and I'd hate for that to happen.
 #13 
Old 2007-02-04, 17:52
B-Phaze B-Phaze is offline
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Default Re: Ever wish you met someone later in life?

Heh, I wish I could meet my current gf later on. I'm 20, she's my first girlfriend and I'm not sure if like... I wanna have 1 girl for all my life but... I really don't wanna let go of her at the same time, I could totally see us grow old together :/
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Old 2007-02-04, 17:56
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^ What's wrong with having one girl for your life? If you find a good one, there's no point trading her in for something else. Until she breaks.

I haven't had that feeling yet, probably because I'm not all that in tune with myself.
 #15 
Old 2007-02-04, 21:08
Jessic Jessic is offline
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Default Re: Ever wish you met someone later in life?

Yep.

The boy who is sort of mine but sort of not. I can see us growing old together. Just, not starting now.

I get this feeling with some people, like I know that I'll meet them again sometime. It's always a really certain feeling, and I just don't have it with him.



Be at peace, all is as it should be.

Jx
 #16 
Old 2007-02-04, 21:15
AprenticeChemistBITCHS AprenticeChemistBITCHS is offline
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Default Re: Ever wish you met someone later in life?

quote:Originally posted by B-Phaze:

Heh, I wish I could meet my current gf later on. I'm 20, she's my first girlfriend and I'm not sure if like... I wanna have 1 girl for all my life but... I really don't wanna let go of her at the same time, I could totally see us grow old together :/

Like someone said if you meet the right girl right off the bat don't think its a bad thing. So what if you can't say you have fucked many girls or been with many others your lucky. My girlfriends same way with me im pretty much her first at most things boyfriend being one and at first she was like how you are but then after talking to her made her realize I wished she had been my first girlfriend and all. I know id much rather have found the right girl from the beggining and not had to go through other girls, most of them were more flings but still. Some people have to get hurt many times and suffer break up before they find that right person others get lucky and don't have to deal with the pain or what ever. Be glad.

As far as the OT no never REALLY felt that way. My girlfriend did a little because we both kind of wish we had met later after highschool so we hadn't had to deal with her parents at first but I wouldn't change that if I could. I mean it would be easier if we were both out of highschool and older but at least we are together.
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Old 2007-02-04, 21:29
Mahatma Gandhi Mahatma Gandhi is offline
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I met a 9/10 (very pretty, rich dad) three years ago. I screwed it up by being an asshole that I was that time. She tried coming back once but my fuckin ego made me hurt her. Then she was gone for good.

But I have a feeling I may meet her again some time in future. Or prolly am being too optimistic. I met her sister a few months back and I am sure she must have told her about me.
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Old 2007-02-04, 21:33
Mahatma Gandhi Mahatma Gandhi is offline
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Default Re: Ever wish you met someone later in life?

quote:Originally posted by Jessic:



I get this feeling with some people, like I know that I'll meet them again sometime. It's always a really certain feeling ..

I didn't read that earlier. That's what I was talking about.
 #19 
Old 2007-02-04, 21:41
Twisted_Ferret Twisted_Ferret is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

I'm glad I met everyone in my life at the point I met them. Things didn't always work out well at the time, but I fear that if I changed anything, things now wouldn't be like they are, and I'd hate for that to happen.
 #20 
Old 2007-02-04, 21:43
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Default Re: Ever wish you met someone later in life?

What Mr. Happy said, only without the fear and hate.

It does no good to regret things.
 #21 
Old 2007-02-04, 22:02
Mellow_Fellow Mellow_Fellow is offline
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Yep, one occation I can definatly think of...

Heh, who knows, I might meet 'em again, positive attitude and all that
 #22 
Old 2007-02-04, 23:10
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Default Re: Ever wish you met someone later in life?

i wish i'd met my ex sooner... or perhaps after college. Either woul be preferrable.
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Old 2007-02-05, 02:20
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Default Re: Ever wish you met someone later in life?

No.

Yeah, sometimes it would have been more convient to meet them at a different time, but thats just the way life goes.

I guess its because I live by these words "Regret nothing"
 
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