My ex lied to me. It hurts. I kissed a girl while we were on break, never told her, and we got back together. This girl is muuuuuuuch better looking than her (this would annoy her, very much).

Then, I went a little bit further with a girl a week or so ago.

Even though she's my ex, she still REALLY cares if I touch another girl. I slept at a female friend's house. She cried.

Reason I never told her is because I had hoped to get back with her in a year or two when she wasn't a stupid little bitch of a child. Guess that aint happening.

So, hold on to a chance of getting back with her? Or hurt her so bad it's impossible?

Things against:

She's hot. Has the sex drive of a guy. Is incredibly intelligent. Swallows. Very funny and fun to be around.

Things for:

She's crazy. Mentally unstable. I thought she was trustworthy, but I was wrong. She's stuck in her little 'party age' phase. Loves E and to drink (she drinks like a sailor). She's EXTREMELY indecisive. And her worst personallity trait: she always needs two guys in her life, one bf, one ex, so they compete and keep on their toes.

Crush her, or not? I'm not in a good mood/state to make a decision.

email me at

sunny_flinn@hotmail.com

or MSN.

i had a similar experience but dont want to broadcast it.

If you're smart you don't do anything and just cut this person out for good.

quote:Originally posted by Aseren:

If you're smart you don't do anything and just cut this person out for good.

I've tried, a lot! Trust me. She's manipulative.

She needs things to end on her circumstances under normal conditions. Telling her that might change conditions.

Naked pictures first.

Definitely crush her, all the things against are side affects of her being a party girl sailor. Definitely hurt her back for being such a manipulative bitch....I hate manipulative bitches though so yeah you probably wont get a fair answer from me

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

Naked pictures first.

Done. See my other thread.

Don't hurt her, just drop her.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Don't hurt her, just drop her.

It's been tried. I'm taking a new approach to it. Maturity hasn't worked.

Didn't you already send her some sort of hurtful text messeges?

Why does it matter to you if she REALLY cares about you touching another girl? You aren't dating her and haven't been dating her for a while now.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Didn't you already send her some sort of hurtful text messeges?

Why does it matter to you if she REALLY cares about you touching another girl? You aren't dating her and haven't been dating her for a while now.

I'm a kid. I need to get the last word in. Also I hate the idea of a girl I was with hating me, even if we're appart. Little curses, that I really need to get over. And I try, but then one night I'll be bored with nothing to do, and I'll send a text message. Or I'll get smashed, and ring. Either way, it's mostly my fault.

She needs things to end on her terms. I need to have the last word. See it can be difficult?

You just need to remember, you're really level headed, mature and straight forward. Not all people are like you . I wish I was.

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 02-04-2007).]

Just leave her completely alone. Delete her from your phone and dont message her. Tell her your done with her. She's gonna be hurt sooner or later anyway.

Destroy the cunt. Finding a girl with those good traits will be somewhat hard, whereas her being a psychotic, manipulative bitch is simply too big to brush under the rug.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:



She's hot. Has the sex drive of a guy. Is incredibly intelligent. Swallows. Very funny and fun to be around.



Jesus fucking christ man, you make it sound like she's the only girl in the world with these qualities!

Crush the bitch horribly, stop wasting your life on her, go out there, find a hot girl with the above qualities with the added bonus of being loyal and grown up.



But yeah. Destroy her. You'll feel better for it.

If it's the only way you can really end it, then for fucksakes, rip her heart out. Fuck knows she's done it enough times to you...

If it was me, I wouldn't bother. You know, taking the higher road and all that. But if you do want to hurt her, I think it would be more effective to not just be like "na na na na boo boo, I kissed another girl!" (lol) but to either mention it casually, or make sure she finds out somehow, but don't actually tell her. Because it'll hurt more if she thinks you don't care that it hurts her...

I broke up with my ex a few months ago, and we've still been kind of fuck buddies on and off since then. She still wants me and everything, which is why she still lets us have sex. Anyways, last week I guess she was hanging out with a group of her lesbian friends, and they decided they were going to have an intervention on her behalf.

Between the four of them, they must have called/texted my phone 100 times in one night. (Texts cost me 25 cents :\ ) They kept saying how I wasnt worthy of her and how i didnt have any power over her anymore, and that she was done with me.

It really pissed me off, because up until that point I had been encouraging her to move on and find someone she can be happy with, and I've tried to keep our encounters to a minimum. And then she pulls shit like that.

I also suspected she was trying to get pregnant. In addition, we had always toyed with the idea of a MMF threesome while we were together. So I formulated this whole plan about pretending to ask her to be my girlfriend again, build her up with all this falso hope, and then after a few months ask her to do the threesome for me. And then either sabotage the condom or lie to him and tell her she's on birth control or something.

I was going to repeat that until she got pregnant, and then encourage her and talk about starting a family together so she'll carry it to full term. And then just get a paternity test and dump the bitch. Hard.



I couldnt do it though...She really doesnt deserve that :\

I cant tell you whether you should hurt her or not. But if you decide to, then at least take the classy approach and actually hook up with another girl, take video, and send it to her.

Rip her out! All the good qualities are hard to find them all in just one girl, but the bad ones are mostly common trait.

What you do with psychotic bitches? You dump them. Preferably in multiple bags, and different trash cans. In a 8 mile radius.

Concluding: Hook up with the other much better looking girl in her face. That will leave it enough clear for her.

quote:Originally posted by Ronin13:



What you do with psychotic bitches? You dump them. Preferably in multiple bags, and different trash cans. In a 8 mile radius.



Be carefull though. If at all possible, incinerate the head and hands as they're the easiest way to gain ID.



It's a gruesome task but cutting a body up into small and easy to move pieces is a good option, because then you can despose of the body carefully and over a period of time.

Just take it apart in the shower and hose everything down really well with industrial disinfectants.

With the head, if you really want to make sure, you could actually boil it, like a ham. You can get a pretty good pressure cooker for around £20 and after that you can just pour the broth away, smash the skull into small insignificant pieces to scatter throughout the city,and feed the rest to dogs.

Just tell her it's over, she's only gonna be a burden in your life.

What you could do is say that while she's asleep you've been having sex with her "other personality".

Now this my freind, will freak her the fuck out.

she sounds like a fucking peasant. Drop her like its hot. You don't need a stupid bitch like that in your life.

[This message has been edited by Tesla (edited 02-05-2007).]

Where the FUCK is the thread with the naked pics? Huh? HUH?!?!?!

Just get with the new girl, and accidentally get busted making out with her.

That would give her something to cry about (wait, no it wouldnt. Why would she cry even if she wasnt in the relationship?)

If you want to do both, just cut her out of your life. Refuse to speak to her, and make her think she hurt you worse than she did. Draw it out until she's miserable. With the slightest modicum of luck she'll be all over you (and wanting to make up for what she did!). the boyfriend thing could pose a problem though. Whatever, just don't talk to her. BUT TALK TO YOUR MUTUAL FRIENDS.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

If it's the only way you can really end it, then for fucksakes, rip her heart out. Fuck knows she's done it enough times to you...

Good point.

quote:Originally posted by Machoman411 reborn:

Just tell her it's over, she's only gonna be a burden in your life.

Well, easier said than done. But I'll try.

quote:Originally posted by Mr. Stabby:

What you could do is say that while she's asleep you've been having sex with her "other personality".

Now this my freind, will freak her the fuck out.

I don't think it'd scare her. She's the closest thing to a split personality I've ever encountered. On many occaisions has she started having sex with me in her sleep, only to wake up half way to realise what she's doing, only to continue and go with the flow.

So she'd think I was joking.

quote:Originally posted by Tesla:

she sounds like a fucking peasant. Drop her like its hot. You don't need a stupid bitch like that in her life.

You're right. I can do better.

quote:Originally posted by ApocalypsePlease:

Where the FUCK is the thread with the naked pics? Huh? HUH?!?!?!

http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/027062-2.html <- Thread

http://tinyurl.com/26fhsc <- Photo

quote:Originally posted by Numberjumbo:

Just get with the new girl, and accidentally get busted making out with her.

Wont happen. New girl is annoying. She's uber nice. To the point of wanting to kill her. She's very stupid, but she's good at school (if that makes sense), so she thinks she's smart. She wouldn't leave me alone at a club so I pushed her away by the face...

Some girls/guys like it when a girl is persistant, I for one, don't. So she's not an option, nor would I want her to be.

quote:Originally posted by Numberjumbo:

That would give her something to cry about (wait, no it wouldnt. Why would she cry even if she wasnt in the relationship?)

Things were ended while emotions were still at their peak. We thought I was going to the army, so I dumped her for both our sakes. Army rejected me (karma?). So she still wants me, a lot. This I know for fact.

quote:Originally posted by genericwittyusername:

Refuse to speak to her, and make her think she hurt you worse than she did. Draw it out until she's miserable.

She wont be miserable while there's another dude. That's what he's there for. To comfort her.

quote:Originally posted by genericwittyusername:

With the slightest modicum of luck she'll be all over you (and wanting to make up for what she did!). the boyfriend thing could pose a problem though.

If I wanted her back, she'd be mine. That simple. Thing is, I don't compete. Period. I just say "haha, he can have you for all I care". Some women are worth going to war for, killing for, dying for...she isn't one of these girls.

quote:Originally posted by genericwittyusername:

Whatever, just don't talk to her. BUT TALK TO YOUR MUTUAL FRIENDS.

We don't have any. We're from different worlds and scenes. She's the "Trendy club promoters/dj" world. I'm from the more nerdy group. I usually go out/hang out with my best friend and his physiotherapy class. Basically, smart kids.

Any way, [/thread]. I know what to do now. She attempts contact again drop the "I kissed a girl" bomb.

Dude... you need to ignore her untill she contacts you (thats if she does). Shes a immature little girl, she has issues, she needs SERIOUS help. Your bad habits were mostly brought on by her anyway, she provokes you alot and tries to get a rise out of you... which she usually suceeds with. Its your life, and your choices but from what ive seen.. yeah she loves you but shes too caught up in her own life to really dedicate herself in any way to you.

Shes a bitch and she hurts you, if anything she likes when you lash out and spit shit back at her because not only does it fuel her fire but she gets enjoyment from it.

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

Dude... you need to ignore her untill she contacts you

She did contact me. I told her I cheated on her. Then blocked and deleted her.

She texted me saying "Tell me when? And who? Then I'll maybe believe you. And maybe even tell you some secrets if you're a lucky boy!"

I texted back "Thanks, you cheating on me is what I needed to hear. Makes my choice easy."

she wrote back "Oh I fucked everyone behding your back darling.. *insert ex bf's name*, *insert her old best male friend's name*, *insert her new best male friend's name*, Pffft a few randoms as well. Honesty is fun isnt it?"

I texted back "when?"

She sent "Around about..? july 2006 - February 2007. The entire time. Get fucked scum bag =)"

I rang her and asked "Yo...so..do I like need to get tested? You know, for STD's? You're probably full of diseases"

Then she told me she was lying to get a response out of me. I didn't take that well. Hung up. Rang the doctor. Booked an appointment. Fucking bitch, you don't joke about fucking people who are obviously disease ridden (her ex bf) when we constantly had unprotected sex (no condom, the pill).

Fucking drama. I hate the shit. Now I need to get a blood test. This shit has gone on for too long.

All seems pretty childish to me tbh.

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

All seems pretty childish to me tbh.

That's because we're both immature.

Forget her and move on.

It's her problem...Don't make it yours.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

She did contact me. I told her I cheated on her. Then blocked and deleted her.

She texted me saying "Tell me when? And who? Then I'll maybe believe you. And maybe even tell you some secrets if you're a lucky boy!"

I texted back "Thanks, you cheating on me is what I needed to hear. Makes my choice easy."

she wrote back "Oh I fucked everyone behding your back darling.. *insert ex bf's name*, *insert her old best male friend's name*, *insert her new best male friend's name*, Pffft a few randoms as well. Honesty is fun isnt it?"

I texted back "when?"

She sent "Around about..? july 2006 - February 2007. The entire time. Get fucked scum bag =)"

I rang her and asked "Yo...so..do I like need to get tested? You know, for STD's? You're probably full of diseases"

Then she told me she was lying to get a response out of me. I didn't take that well. Hung up. Rang the doctor. Booked an appointment. Fucking bitch, you don't joke about fucking people who are obviously disease ridden (her ex bf) when we constantly had unprotected sex (no condom, the pill).

Fucking drama. I hate the shit. Now I need to get a blood test. This shit has gone on for too long.

LOl, and you call me a pathetic drama whore?!



She sounds pretty nasty. I guess that's the sort of person people like you attract. :S

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

LOl, and you call me a pathetic drama whore?!



She sounds pretty nasty. I guess that's the sort of person people like you attract. :S





No, I called you a pathetic fat bitch. Get it right.

quote:http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/027062-2.html <- Thread

http://tinyurl.com/26fhsc <- Photo

Luckily for me, I read that thread beforehand. That's a dirty trick, arquin, a dirty dirty trick.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Luckily for me, I read that thread beforehand. That's a dirty trick, arquin, a dirty dirty trick.

lol, shameless self promotion, what can I say?

My penis isn't getting any action at the moment, so I figure it has to be seen some where.

What about a face pic, arquin? I've only ever seen like 2 shitty quality ones...

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Say, we can go where we want to

A place where they will never find

And we can act like we come from out of this world

Leave the real one far behind

And we can dance, "dansez"

We can go when we want to

Night is young and so am I

And we can dress real neat from our hats to our feet

And surprise them with a victory cry

Say, we can act if we want to

If we don't nobody will

And you can act real rude and totally removed

And I can act like an imbecile

And say

We can dance, we can dance

Everything's out of control

We can dance, we can dance

We're doing it from pole to pole

We can dance, we can dance

Everybody look at your hands

We can dance, we can dance

Everybody's taking the chance

Safe to dance

Oh well its safe to dance

Yes it safe to dance

We can dance if we want to

We've got all your life and mine

As long as we abuse it, never going to lose it

Everything will work out right

I say, We can dance if we want to

We can leave your friends behind

'Cause your friends don't dance, and if they don't dance

Well they're no friends of mine

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Everything's out of control

We can dance, we can dance

We're doing it from pole to pole

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We can dance if we want to

We can leave your friends behind

'Cause your friends don't dance and if they don't dance

Well they're, no friends of mine

Say, we can go where we want to

A place where they will never find

And we can act like we come from out of this world

Leave the real one far behind

And we can dance, "dansez"

We can go when we want to

Night is young and so am I

And we can dress real neat from our hats to our feet

And surprise them with a victory cry

Say, we can act if we want to

If we don't nobody will

And you can act real rude and totally removed

And I can act like an imbecile

And say

We can dance, we can dance

Everything's out of control

We can dance, we can dance

We're doing it from pole to pole

We can dance, we can dance

Everybody look at your hands

We can dance, we can dance

Everybody's taking the chance

Safe to dance

Oh well its safe to dance

Yes it safe to dance

We can dance if we want to

We've got all your life and mine

As long as we abuse it, never going to lose it

Everything will work out right

I say, We can dance if we want to

We can leave your friends behind

'Cause your friends don't dance, and if they don't dance

Well they're no friends of mine

I say, we can dance, we can dance

Everything's out of control

We can dance, we can dance

We're doing it from pole to pole

We can dance, we can dance

Everybody look at your hands

We can dance, we can dance

Everybody's taking the chance

Well it's safe to dance

Yes it's safe to dance

Well it's safe to dance

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Well it's safe to dance

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Just hope she doesn't have something in store that could in turn rip you apart...but would that be...okay? Do unto others...

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Be carefull though. If at all possible, incinerate the head and hands as they're the easiest way to gain ID.



It's a gruesome task but cutting a body up into small and easy to move pieces is a good option, because then you can despose of the body carefully and over a period of time.

Just take it apart in the shower and hose everything down really well with industrial disinfectants.

With the head, if you really want to make sure, you could actually boil it, like a ham. You can get a pretty good pressure cooker for around £20 and after that you can just pour the broth away, smash the skull into small insignificant pieces to scatter throughout the city,and feed the rest to dogs.

OMFG LOL!!

...Is it too bad I got a raging erection?



Yo, Arquin, did you get tested? Hope everithing's allright.