Well, I have never known the answer to this question so I am asking the totse community

On a first date with a girl you like, and want to see again (assuming the date went well), what should you do for the kiss goodnight?

do I just ask her out again, and go home?

ask permission to kiss her goodnight?

just kiss her goodnight?

Just go in for the kiss, never fucking ask for permision take that shit. If she declines you suck if not then bam good job.

quote:Originally posted by FidelCastro:

ask permission to kiss her goodnight?

NO! Whatever you do, don't do that.

I dunno, if it feels right, then just go for it.

I don't really "date" much, but if I feel that we've made a strong enough connection on the first night I meet her or whatever, and she seems ready to kiss (IE: You're face to face and she seems like she's leaning in, you know...) then I'll go for it.

Sometimes I even go straight for the sex and it's successful.

It all depends on how well you connected through the night...

[This message has been edited by gadzooks (edited 02-04-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

Just go in for the kiss, never fucking ask for permision take that shit. If she declines throw a brick through her front window.

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I like the idea.

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I giggled in a really evil fashion.....and it scared me

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I like it thanks.

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QFT.

Quit being a sissy. At the end of the night, be a gentleman and walk her to her front door. Then give her a hug good night. When you pull away, make eye contact and lean in. Don't expect her to kiss you. I don't know how old you are or anything. If you don't think you're getting a kiss at the end of the night, then just kiss her on the cheek after the hug.

Point to your cheek and tell her "kiss goodnight"

If she asks for more, playfully call her greedy and make her work for it.

what she can't have my friends...what she can't have

I actually gave my first real "kiss goodnight" tonight, which is kind of strange.

Anyway, she dealt with me as an uneasy first-time drunk, so she deserved it! Or well.. I mean, at least she wanted it.

It wasn't our first date as such, so I guess this doesn't count.

I've been out with this girl a couple times, and last night in particular we got a little bit.. cozy. Then tonight was open mic in which I was playing (had fun!), so she came out to see it. Afterwards, we got a bit cozier and then when it was time for her to go to bed, I just decided 'what the fuck?' and said 'give me a hug before you go!' and then kissed her. It was pretty nice. Especially since it was like 12 degrees outside. Ok, honestly, it was a beautiful night so I didn't mind the cold.

What in the hell. I'm kind of going off here. Sorry.