well thsi isnt anytrhing realy serious but this one girl i know likes me and i like her also. ive suspected it for about 2 weeks know and only really figured it out yesterday. during this one class we sit on a couch and we usually share a cover, its drama class(underfunding leads to big couch), and we finally held hands, i know this sounds childish and shit but w/e im new to this. im really retarded when it comes to girls and ive passed 2 other girls, one i passed because she has done some stuff in the past and was a slut and the other because i was kinda scared, and ive kinda regretted it because they would have been learning experiences.

Im kinda shy and dont really know how to carry on conversations after so much time. what can i do to help with this? we had a basketball game and i tried to get next to her to talk and shit but there were too many people between us plus everyones an ass and wouldnt let me through. i didnt really talk to her at all except for at the end and then i had to leave. i then hugged her but accidentally slipped and hugged this other gilr next to her also basically making me look retarded. what can i do really?

Firstly, get rid of this stupid notion that you are retarded stupid or inferior.

I am a total hypocrite for saying that I feel like that all the time/. however thanks to Solidus, I have learned the error of my ways. Thanks Solidus.

My advice? Dont hurry things. If this girl likes you, then take your time, you dont want to pressurise her and scare her off.

Start to talk to her be it after class, or whenever, ask her her hobbies, etc. Once you build up a bit of a rapport, then aks her if she would like to go for a coffee sometime. All the mean time, any time you see her walking past, make sure to smile and say hi.

DO NOT THINK YOU ARE RETARDED. YOU ARE ONLY RETARDED IF YOU THINK THAT OK?

Best of luck man.

Please, give us an update on how things go.

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WHAT'S WITH THIS FUCKING THREADS?! FIGURE IT OUT YOURSELVES! ANYTHING TOTSE TELL YOU, WILL EITHER BE COMMON SENSE, OR BUTTSECKS! FOR THE LOVE OF THE GODS!

If I can figure this shit out, a monkey can, actually... The monkey probably figured it out long before me. Anyways, buttsecks/personality change. Yes, you heard me, change your entire fucking personality, then, maybe you'll have a chance.

quote:Originally posted by don_stracci:

Firstly, get rid of this stupid notion that you are retarded stupid or inferior.

I am a total hypocrite for saying that I feel like that all the time/. however thanks to Solidus, I have learned the error of my ways. Thanks Solidus.

My advice? Dont hurry things. If this girl likes you, then take your time, you dont want to pressurise her and scare her off.

Start to talk to her be it after class, or whenever, ask her her hobbies, etc. Once you build up a bit of a rapport, then aks her if she would like to go for a coffee sometime. All the mean time, any time you see her walking past, make sure to smile and say hi.

DO NOT THINK YOU ARE RETARDED. YOU ARE ONLY RETARDED IF YOU THINK THAT OK?

Best of luck man.

Please, give us an update on how things go.

You beat me... Eh, my rant is still better advice.

mabas if you dont mind me asking....

What was her name?

TThe one that got away?

None, yet! These guys are just getting to me... Every fifth thread is 'How do I get her to love me?' or 'I love this girl, but...'. No one fucking well cares. Figure it out yourself... ... ...

This topic is starting to get to me. I keep cursing. It's so tacky.

Just whip it out in front of her.

How old are you??? If your not big into talking then just take her to the movies or something that doesn't require talking. I'm not a big talker myself, and movies are always a great first date.

Hint: Always open doors and pay for her. Girls love a gentleman.

quote:Originally posted by CptnCrackHound:

Just whip it out in front of her.

lol good advice.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by don_stracci Firstly, get rid of this stupid notion that you are retarded stupid or inferior.

I am a total hypocrite for saying that I feel like that all the time/. however thanks to Solidus, I have learned the error of my ways. Thanks Solidus.

My advice? Dont hurry things. If this girl likes you, then take your time, you dont want to pressurise her and scare her off.

Start to talk to her be it after class, or whenever, ask her her hobbies, etc. Once you build up a bit of a rapport, then aks her if she would like to go for a coffee sometime. All the mean time, any time you see her walking past, make sure to smile and say hi.

DO NOT THINK YOU ARE RETARDED. YOU ARE ONLY RETARDED IF YOU THINK THAT OK?

Best of luck man.

Please, give us an update on how things go.[QUOTE]

thanks alot for the advice man. this will help me next time i c her and it should turn out good. i know its bad and gay to call myself inferior but its just some stuff thats been said and done to me that makes me think this way which i will be changing. im going to start doing more social crap and that will help. im going to stop stressing out about her and when i started doing that ive been feeling fine.

thanks again.