About your lady-friend kissing girls?

Tonight I was playing beer pong, and in order to distract the guys, my friend and I made out. It was stupid, and alcohol induced, but I asked my boyfriend ahead of time to make sure he was okay with it.

He said he had absolutely no problem, but then he got jealous when this guy offered to pay for my pizza.

I'm curious... what's the difference between letting a guy flirt with your girl, and her kissing a friend (who is a girl)? How do you guys feel about that?

im not only ok with it, i encourage it as long as i at least get a detailed story about it. i used to go out with this chick who was "bi", meaning she was one of those attention whoring idiots who did that kind of stuff for attention. when we started going out she asked me if she could hook up with other guys, i said no, then she asked if she could hook up with other girls, i said please do.

Since this topic has been done to death I'd prefer to know how a girl would feel if the situation was reversed. If your boyfriend started making out with another guy in order to distract the female opposition.

I would only worry about the girl if both of them were bi or lesbian; otherwise, there's no chance of my position/relationship being usurped/destroyed.

He refuses to kiss boys. I'd encourage it though, I guess. Or at the very least, I wouldn't give a shit.

I would be fine with a guy buying my girl pizza. I would take most of said pizza but still .

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

Since this topic has been done to death I'd prefer to know how a girl would feel if the situation was reversed. If your boyfriend started making out with another guy in order to distract the female opposition.

Been there.

-deus-

Any other girl I have been with, I wouldn't give a shit.

The girl I'm with now...Well...It would annoy the fuck out of me.

The way I see it, her lips should only be touching mine and vice-versa.

I love my missus to death and the thought of her doing anything with anyone gets me riled up to the point of wanting to punch at people and things that aren't real (really gotta get back on the meds).

Any other girl though, I'd have no problem as long as I get to do it too!

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

He refuses to kiss boys. I'd encourage it though, I guess. Or at the very least, I wouldn't give a shit.

Awesome!

Only gf I ever had was straight and had always known she was. So she saw kissing girls as harmless. At one stage I questioned my sexuallity. So she saw me kissing guys as a reason to break up. That and, I quote "You're mine, mine and only mine. I don't share, period". Fucking jealous bitch! I always let her kiss girls, I just had ONE request: take pix.

Ugh, God no. I don't like girls that act like dirty degenerate sluts.

Wait, that's not entirely true. I don't like girls that act like dirty degenerate sluts with people who aren't me.

I wish I had a girl like you!

If she was tied up at work & couldn't get time off & I got a couple of weeks off? I'd grab another girl & go to Maui or Acapulco or sumpin'!

I mean...you wouldn't see anything wrong with that? I'd be all, like, "Babe, me & the girlfriend are gone! You'll be alright with the kids for a couple o' weeks, eh?"

There is a difference between letting a guy flirt with your girlfriend, and him buying her pizza.

That is all. And IMO, girl on girl action isn't that great. OOOHHH GIRLS MAKING OUT!!! YAY!

Girls kissing does nothing for me. As far as Im concerned, lesbians are still ghay.

With my significant other, I would consider her kissing another girl the same as kissing another guy.

I don't see what's so great about girls kissing girls, but when you're playing against dumb frat boys...

Anyway, whatever. Moony, that's a bit farther than what I meant.

whether you're a guy or girl in a relationship and had any respect for the other person (alcohol induced or not) you wouldn't. and guys that incourage their girls to "make out" with other girls is stupid, way to care for your girl. grow up.

quote:Ugh, God no. I don't like girls that act like dirty degenerate sluts.

Wait, that's not entirely true. I don't like girls that act like dirty degenerate sluts with people who aren't me.

Hehe, i sometimes feel that way.

My ladyfriend is Bi, so anyone is fair game for her. As far as I'm concerned though, as long as they're clean she can do as she pleases. If there's any substance to our relationship then I'll be the one she comes home to.

If she wants to experiment with someone else that's no threat to her attraction towards me, and if she finds that she shares a stronger bond (all things considered) with someone else than she does with myself, then our relationship lacks the aforementioned substance.

I cant fucking stand that.

This club I used to go to, bitches used to pull that all the time, to get free drinks. Two hot goth girls making out, fuck yeah!



It's sad that it works with some people.

What, you think that if two girls are kissing and you buy them a drink, they'll let you join in?

truly sad.

It's also sad that the girls do that.

Ooh, go you, you can draw a large amount of attention to yourself and people will be nice to you because they hope you're a whore and that you'll fuck them?

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

I cant fucking stand that.

This club I used to go to, bitches used to pull that all the time, to get free drinks. Two hot goth girls making out, fuck yeah!



It's sad that it works with some people.

What, you think that if two girls are kissing and you buy them a drink, they'll let you join in?

truly sad.

It's also sad that the girls do that.

Ooh, go you, you can draw a large amount of attention to yourself and people will be nice to you because they hope you're a whore and that you'll fuck them?



If you can use your sexuality to your advantage, why the hell not? I'd do it if I was a girl.



[This message has been edited by neato bandito (edited 02-03-2007).]

It hasn't bothered me in the past. I do like to know that the girl she's kissing isn't...unclean.

At the moment, I don't like the idea of sharing.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

At the moment, I don't like the idea of sharing.

Perhaps because you actually like this girl?

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Perhaps because you actually like this girl?

Quite true, I care.

There's also the matter of the distance currently involved. Since I'm turning people down, I have to hope that she's willing to do the same.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

It hasn't bothered me in the past. I do like to know that the girl she's kissing isn't...unclean.

At the moment, I don't like the idea of sharing.

So? Are you subscribing to the social norm? The thinking that a really pretty girl with Three Diseases who showered an hour ago is OK? Whereas a plain woman who also showered an hour ago & has no diseases is dirty?

"She's pretty! She must be clean!"

It is nice to pretend being attractive means 'clean', isn't it?

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

So? Are you subscribing to the social norm? The thinking that a really pretty girl with Three Diseases who showered an hour ago is OK? Whereas a plain woman who also showered an hour ago & has no diseases is dirty?

"She's pretty! She must be clean!"

It is nice to pretend being attractive means 'clean', isn't it?

No.

Well it really depends like say if the girl I'm dating kissed my best friend(shes a girl) then I would have no problem with it. If its just some random chick then yes I would care. I hate slutty/whorish girls they make me sick

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

No.

Then you are hinting that you have some secret way of telling who is diseased & who isn't? Where you can tell by just looking?

Please share!

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

Please share!

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

At the moment, I don't like the idea of sharing.