i hate this term, the way it's used in these forums implies that one should not try anything or do anything with a girl your bro likes, this is bullshit, that is what women do, and i hate it

a while back one chick wouldn't fuck me simply bcuz her friend was in love(not really, just seriously enfatuated)with me, but she made out with me and left me hard, so i went home and fapped bcuz she was a bitch(or not)

i think this term means that dudes shouldn't take it to heart when their friends fuck the girls they like, what do you think? girls why do you'll do that shit as well?

It means that my friends better not get with my ex-girlfriends, especially if the relationship was meaningful.

That's what it means to me, anyway. Some people seem to think it means, "putting your friends before your girls," which is retarded.

The term bros before hoes has a couple meanings for me and my bro. One would be obviously don't fuck around or even think of fucking around with their girlfriend. Don't just start ditching your friend for your girlfriend, your friend was there first remeber who the fucks been there for you for so damn long. Thats about it really. As far as ex girlfriends go I don't see anything wrong with it as long as your friends not trying to get back with them and is cool with it.

And as far as not going for a girl because your friend likes her thats dumb, I mean if he is trying to hook up with her let him try and then later go after it. If its dumb where the guy wants her but will never get her and doesn't even try then sucks for him its all good for you to try. And yes ive had that same shit happen with a girl once sucked ass and made no sense.

Now one thing that I DON'T think bros before hoes means is just saying fuck you to your girlfriend and doing what you want just because your friends want you to. I mean obviously if the girl doesn't want you hanging out with your friends just because then fuck that bros before hoes. But say your girlfriend doesn't want you going to hang out with them at the titty bar getting drunk and high or what ever then its not BROS before hoes because you know you'd be pissed if your girl was going to look at naked guys while all fucked up.

But say your girlfriend doesn't want you going to hang out with them at the titty bar getting drunk and high or what ever then its not BROS before hoes because you know you'd be pissed if your girl was going to look at naked guys while all fucked up.[/B][/QUOTE]

that's why you take your girl with you to the titty bar, no complaints from her and you both have fun

BROS B4 HOES?

That sounds very gay.*shudders*

I don't use the term, but it describes the (Insert correct term that has slipped my mind) that a good friend should come before a "hoe".

Bro story in a bar:

Friend acidentally spills beer on some biker, you both wind up unconcious in an ally. No hard feelings.

Hoe story:

Ho start running her mouth, and you wind up unconcious in an ally. What a bitch!

I could have come up with a better comparison, but I just got up.

quote:Originally posted by ram_from_meche:

But say your girlfriend doesn't want you going to hang out with them at the titty bar getting drunk and high or what ever then its not BROS before hoes because you know you'd be pissed if your girl was going to look at naked guys while all fucked up.

that's why you take your girl with you to the titty bar, no complaints from her and you both have fun[/B][/QUOTE]

That was just an example but what if your girl doesn't like the titty bar or isn't old enough? Like me im 19 my girls going to be 17. But I was just using that as an example how there are sometimes where you can take your girlfriends side and its not breaking the bros before hoes.

I hate that phrase. It's not like you can make an ultimate rule like that that will apply to every situation. My boyfriend's best friend texted him that, after on my birthday, they stole his phone from him so we couldn't get together (on my freaking birthday!) and then got all pissy that he wanted to spend time with me...

tbh I believe its friends before girls who you are attracted to and simply wish to fuck. Friends are more important than pretty girls who you dont hold meaningful conversations with. but if you do hold good conversations with the girls afformentioned then the bros before hos thing falls apart. Sadly it will be the trodden on friends who help there friends up when its all ended and there wrists are bloody.

I would rather say "friends before sex"

because I wouldn't have sex with someone unless they where my friend, and if the sex started to get in the way of our friendship, then the sex would be ended.

so, in a way, I guess I agree with the bros before hos saying.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

I hate that phrase. It's not like you can make an ultimate rule like that that will apply to every situation. My boyfriend's best friend texted him that, after on my birthday, they stole his phone from him so we couldn't get together (on my freaking birthday!) and then got all pissy that he wanted to spend time with me...

See now thats a GREAT example of why there are exceptions to BROS before hoes. Because obviously your boyfriend was a dumb ass and should have put you first. I mean if its a girls birthday you can for once go by HOES before bros. Unless your friends are complete fuck offs not worthy of friendship they will understand that you are going to spend that day with her.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

Unless your friends are complete fuck offs not worthy of friendship they will understand that you are going to spend that day with her.

QFT.

It made me so mad. My boyfriend never ignores my calls, and if he misses one he'll call me right back. So I was worried because I was calling him and he wasn't answering. It turns out his friends were reading my texts (sent about 3) and listening to my messages (left 2) and making fun of him, and making me look like a psycho bitch.

It was gay.

"Bros before hoes" sounds like something an obese frat guy would say so he doesn't have to drink alone on Saturday night.

YEa I remember didn't you make a thread about that once sickboy? If I remember it was more of a "your boyfriends a pussy bitch that should stick up for himself" thing then a bros before hoes situation, since your boyfriend didn't put his friends first before you he just more so was a pussy and didn't stick up for himself

bros b4 hoes man

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

YEa I remember didn't you make a thread about that once sickboy? If I remember it was more of a "your boyfriends a pussy bitch that should stick up for himself" thing then a bros before hoes situation, since your boyfriend didn't put his friends first before you he just more so was a pussy and didn't stick up for himself

lol, y u fail?

quote:Originally posted by ram_from_meche:

a while back one chick wouldn't fuck me simply bcuz her friend was in love(not really, just seriously enfatuated)with me, but she made out with me and left me hard, so i went home and fapped bcuz she was a bitch(or not)

If she made out with you but won't fuck you, then I'm pretty sure she doesn't give a fuck about her friend liking you. If she's going to stay away from you for her friend's sake, then she really shouldn't be kissing you either. She obviously has no regard whatsoever for her friends feelings.

From my experience, most chicks do not follow any "rule". They will fuck each other over in a second if it serves their purpose.

Have you noticed how a lot of girls cycle through "best friends" on a regular basis and never stick to the same group of friends for a long time? (Not all, but most...)

Then again, they usually become friends again after a few months of separation.

And my take on the "bro's before hoes" rule is that it means that you're supposed to leave a girl alone if a friend really likes them, or even moreso if the girl is an ex-girlfriend of a friend.

As soon as you meet a girl who a friend really likes or went out they should immediately become off limits. I don't see how that's so difficult? Just look at them like a sister or a cousin or something...

BROS B4 HOS, MAN! (http://tinyurl.com/yq687x)

Fuck all that bros before hoes shit.

Its all about M.O.B.

Money Over Bitches

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

YEa I remember didn't you make a thread about that once sickboy? If I remember it was more of a "your boyfriends a pussy bitch that should stick up for himself" thing then a bros before hoes situation, since your boyfriend didn't put his friends first before you he just more so was a pussy and didn't stick up for himself

No, not really. The plan was for him to hang out with his friends for a few hours (because they had come from out of town, without any notice, I might add), but they took his phone from him. As soon as he got it back, I recieved like 10 texts from him saying "PLEASE COME GET ME!!!", lol.

Bro's ALWAYS come before ho's. Unless of course you know your gonna get laid, then the ho comes first. Often the dudes that don't put their bros before their girlfriend are pussy whipped like hell. They can't come to a small get together with drinks, even though he could bring her, because he "has to hang out with his gf" or some other stupid shit like that.

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[This message has been edited by MilkAndInnards (edited 02-03-2007).]

What's wrong with that? Especially if he likes hanging out with his girlfriend more...

The way I see it is this:

If you never had any brothers growing up, you'll see your best buddies as bros. Act with them the way you would with your blood brother.

Excersise restraint.

You respect where your bros have been first, and in rare circumstances where there's a real connection with a girl, you can persue it, but with his blessing.

Bros before hoes is basically a safety net on friendship. Like my best mate is much better looking than me, and I know I never have to see him as competition. If you have to worry about all your hotter mates stealing your girl, what type of friendship is that?

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

No, not really. The plan was for him to hang out with his friends for a few hours (because they had come from out of town, without any notice, I might add), but they took his phone from him. As soon as he got it back, I recieved like 10 texts from him saying "PLEASE COME GET ME!!!", lol.

Which basically proves my point he was just a dumb PUSSY. Now I don't know about the other guys from totse but if my friends took my phone on my girlfriends birthday id be fucking pissed and get my phone back. I mean especially the fact that you were cool with him going out he should have pressed harder to get his phone back, if my friends did that id probably hit one of em or something because its not cool. Your boyfriend was a pussy.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

What's wrong with that? Especially if he likes hanging out with his girlfriend more...

Then, he needs better friends.

Anybody that agrees to that term is just showing that they have big time jealously issues.

quote:Originally posted by thizz all day:

Anybody that agrees to that term is just showing that they have big time jealously issues.

How is it jealousy issues? I mean ive seen at times where I started to stray off from the bros before hoes and was leaving my friend for my girl more then I should. Its about making sure you remeber that yea your girlfriend may be hot, have nice tits, give great head/sex, be fun to be around and care about you but who has been there and will stay with you no matter what you do or say?

I don't think you guys get it...

bros before HOES is a term stating that you value your friendship over just getting some fucking pussy. It means not ditching your friends just to get laid. It basically means not being a fucking douchebag and having some solidarity and not just chasing around every dumbshit skirt that passes your way.

Rizzo said it right.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

Its about making sure you remeber that yea your girlfriend may be hot, have nice tits, give great head/sex, be fun to be around and care about you but who has been there and will stay with you no matter what you do or say?

Well said.

Also, think about this: whos stuck by you longer?

When shit starts to go sour between you and the missus, she'll start looking for a new boyfriend to replace you with. Friends after relationships rarely happens, and if it does, it's rarely good.

Longest fight I've ever had with a mate was like 30 minutes. He punched me in the gut, I punched him in the cheek. We got grumpy. Then minutes later all was good.

The time I spent in my relationship had amazing highs, and terrible lows. Never ever eeeever a middle ground. So I can safely say I've experienced the goods of love, yet I still stand by bros before hoes.

The way I see it: any one willing to lose a mate because of a girl has shit mates. Disposable ones.

I'll say it once and I'll say it again: Friends are for life, girls aren't.

You know you've found the right girl because she wont interfere in your friendships.

http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/026268.html

That takes it to another level. I've never heard from the kid again.

Also, recently my other friend got this whore of a girlfriend and he refuses to answer my calls. She fucks other dudes and he's cool with it, but he spends all his free time with her. Sometimes he can't even reach her for a few days. I'm not going to be there when she dumps his ass either.

On a similar note, I've decided to give the boot to all my friends becase of similar occurences. Bros Before Hos has no meaning for me. Nobody really pays attention to that shit, and it has kind-of a snowball effect of spite and revenge.

What it is.

=CK=

Bros before hoes is some gay shit, the only ones preaching this bullshit are the ones that are going to blow off your plans with them to go with some five dollar crack whore

"bros before hoes" means nothing.

all you dudes that say bros before hos means that you should not put any girl before your bros are fucking fags, you should try making love to your bros, you won't right? that's what i thought, so in this case i would choose hos before bros

quote:Originally posted by ram_from_meche:

all you dudes that say bros before hos means that you should not put any girl before your bros are fucking fags, you should try making love to your bros, you won't right? that's what i thought, so in this case i would choose hos before bros

You don't make love to hos.

What it is.

=CK=