I look ok dress ok and have lump some of amount of confidence. But my problem is starting and continuing a conversation with a girl I like. I can talk for other guys. Also if I don't like the girl I can go about talking to her.

What I'm trying to say here.

What have you said to start a conversation and do you go about building up on that conversation. Any help from the experience are and girls.......

1st does she know you like her?

Are you close in anyway?

Need more details.

serenade her with "Romeo and Juliet" by Dire Straits

quote:Originally posted by slim-ov-derby:

1st does she know you like her?

Are you close in anyway?

Need more details.

She doesn't know that I like her. But I have attempt to make her smile. She's calm and great looking. I have sociology class with her. I don't think she knows I like her. But I glance at her a lot.

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Talk to guys the same way you talk to guys. Don't make a big deal about it.

I used to look at this girl all the time, a lot of which I would catch her looking back at me. I could have sworn she new that I liked her despite the fact that I was a bit mean to her sometimes.

Whenever I talked to her though she insisted that I hated her, I think it's about time I walk up to her and tell her I actually just wanted to play with her boobies; but am just too hopeless with social situations.



Point being don't assume anything, don't make the mistake of thinking she'll come up to you and confront you on it. Chances are if she's hot(Like my girl was) she's never had to put any effort into getting a date. So it's all up to you.

Don't fuck around like I did.

Sociology class is the best time you can get to talk to her, maybe ask her what she's doing after school/at the weekend. And then tell her what you plan on doin, blahdy blah, it's just to start showing an interest in the girl that starts them thinking.

You could make her laugh by cracking a joke about the teacher or something else.

Just be 100% yourself, and do not be over mushy with her. Play it cool, and be nice, but not to nice. Because if you don't act like a normal bloke(apparently were selfish pigs and arragant) then they will just view you as a friend. Obviously don't be an asshole but just be how you normally would, and I must repeat do not just try to be extra nice or mushy just because of this girl.

Todays girls standards are not mushy shit.

Also become mates with her mates. They usually crack on before your actual crush does that you fancy them. And if her mates ask if you would date her or w/e just casually say yes. They will talk to her and then she'll probs talk to you more and you can do the same back.

"Buttsecks?"

same situation here...

find out if you have any mutual friends, and find a way for your friend to introduce you. worked for me, now i just have to somehow ask her out...thinking i'll probably invite her to a party.

There are so many variables, there's no answer. It's all experience and confidence.

Go out there, make some mistakes, learn what works and what doesn't for yourself.

There's no magic potion.

just make small talk about music and extra curricular activities and what not, make her feel comfortable after a few days of talking ask her if she wants to hang out maybe catch a movie or something else to that nature...I don't know what you crazy kids do now-a-days

"I like you"? Well, maybe not in those words. But being forward is probably your best bet.

Pretend that you don't like her and talk to her like you would a neutral party. To initiate conversation is easy, just discuss your surroundings. For example; if you have a class together ask her opinion about the homework you were assigned or something dumb like that. Use something neutral to start a conversations and then just try to keep it going from there.

quote:Originally posted by Silverfuck:

Pretend that you don't like her and talk to her like you would a neutral party. To initiate conversation is easy, just discuss your surroundings. For example; if you have a class together ask her opinion about the homework you were assigned or something dumb like that. Use something neutral to start a conversations and then just try to keep it going from there.

That got Pondering....Hhhhm

Hmm well knowing what to say and what not to say is a hard thing to know because women are fucking confusing as all hell. What might work on one woman may get you slapped by another. I know a guy that walks into a bar and will walk up to any woman and simply ask if they wanna go back to his place and fuck and about 70% of the time it works. The other 30% he gets slapped or kicked in the nuts. But tend to agree with the logic of being yourself but not being a pansie either. If she likes you she likes you but if not then move on. They say (and some female friends have agreed) that a woman knows if she is going to kiss you or do anything with you from the moment she meets you. Now me when I walk up to a woman I tell her like it is. I am straight forward with them and it works about 80% of the time. Nothing is gauranteed to work 100% of the time. Good Luck

what i do

1st, clear my mind and realize, my life is going to be the same if i talk to her or not,

2nd I analize her, find some commom ground, then i pick a persona (easy way to deal with rejection, she didnt reject you but the persona)

3rd i start the conversation, with "wat it do baby" or "nice shoes....wanna fuck" just kidding but it works in odd situations

ask her about herself, easiest way to build convo, express that intrested with out saying it, and girls love talking about themselfes, and actually listen, may be painful or even boring, use what she say to keep the convo rolling

I'm gonna need some extra balls are new ones. Even she reject me I want sorta wanna know how feels to get rejected. It's like learning how to ride a skateboard. You gonna fall the first time are so. I should laugh if she turns me down. I gonna do Like boom Hower-King of the Hills ask a hundred girls until one them give in. It doesn't cost anything to talk to girls. Maybe you pride. I wish I know her Myspace account. Are is that going to far. I'm not obsess with her just like to make a move once in a while.

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Right on.

You have a phobia.

The only way to cure it is to face it.

Just be confident, get in a great mind set, and go for it. She'll either dig you, or not. Either way, does it really matter?

The worlds best pickup line is "Hi".

well, my boyfriend used to put on hand sanitizer before every class we had together because he thought it smelled nice. maybe subconsciously it worked on me, hmmm? so i suggest hand sanitizer and a lecture on always washing your hands after you pee.

...god, man, i don't know, just strike up a conversation! "what'd you think of the math," "so how was your weekend," etc. etc. etc.

we don't even know if you have anything in common with her or if you've even spoken to her before.

TELL HER U GOT A BIG FAT DICK AND UR READY 2 FUCK

start a convo with her girlfriends when she's in their group....chat them up, make nice with them...thats the first step. if her girlfriends like you, she's more likely to like you...also theyll speak well of you during girl talk.... but that will also open a convo where she may choose to interject herself, without you directly engaging her....thats prime....even if she doesnt....just direct the convo to some point of inconsequental/trivial controversy with her friend(s) and non chalantly ask her opinion on the subject....thus drawing her into the convo....then slowly just direct your speech towards her until you two end up in a one on one convo, versus group dynamic....and if you can't take it from there....you might be gay.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

well, my boyfriend used to put on hand sanitizer before every class we had together because he thought it smelled nice. maybe subconsciously it worked on me, hmmm?

maybe he put on hand sanitizer because he didnt want you to know he was finger-banging some other slut during lunch...

quote:Originally posted by chickenpoop:

maybe he put on hand sanitizer because he didnt want you to know he was finger-banging some other slut during lunch...

well aren't you just precious!

bitter much?

"Hi. How have you been?" for starters.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

well, my boyfriend used to put on hand sanitizer before every class we had together because he thought it smelled nice. maybe subconsciously it worked on me, hmmm? so i suggest hand sanitizer and a lecture on always washing your hands after you pee.

...god, man, i don't know, just strike up a conversation! "what'd you think of the math," "so how was your weekend," etc. etc. etc.

we don't even know if you have anything in common with her or if you've even spoken to her before.

That's one way of looking at it.

Question: DO girls dig art are animation? and what not. I'm good at them maybe I can impress her are her friends.