My friend has told this guy she's really in to that she's not a virgin, and she is.

What's the best way to approach the sex?

I'm not a virgin, but from a guy's perspective, what's a big indicator as to whether or not a girl's a virgin?

*excluding hymen breakage. Her's is broken.

From what I've heard, there is almost no way to tell if she is a virgin physically. You can, though tell if she is through how she is in bed. But I'm fairly uneducated on the matter, so someone else confirm this.

I know that there's technically really no way.

But what are some dead give aways? Like... mistakes and such. I'd ask my boyfriend, but we lost it to each other and he'd have no useful opinions.

you can't REALLY tell

but some virgins are really really tight

guys can atleast tell if uv only had sex around 0-3 times

but some girls u cant really tell so...

^^Thank you for the imput, but I'm looking for information from guys and mistakes virgins make.

This is what Cosmo is for. -.- If she makes "mistakes" he won't think she's a virgin. He'll just think she sucks in bed.

Why would she lie about that anyway?

Because she's a dumb attention whore.

Seriously, I'm not sure. She's kind of dumb. :/

quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

My friend has told this guy she's really in to that she's not a virgin, and she is.

What's the best way to approach the sex?

I'm not a virgin, but from a guy's perspective, what's a big indicator as to whether or not a girl's a virgin?

*excluding hymen breakage. Her's is broken.

aaaannndd by friend you mean yourself

make sure to not let him know that your vagina feels like its beeing ripped to shreds.

No, not me. I can see how people would think that, but I am very much not a virgin.

But thank you for your input.

quote:Originally posted by kayla-tastikk:

Because she's a dumb attention whore.

Seriously, I'm not sure. She's kind of dumb. :/

What a great friend you seem to be.

tell her not to cry out in pain. my first time was pretty much 'ow, ow, ow, ow, please go slower'

i would suggest that she lets him take the lead completely.

but this is a girl's suggestion, not sure if guys would agree.

quote:Originally posted by totsewhore:

you can't REALLY tell

but some virgins are really really tight

guys can atleast tell if uv only had sex around 0-3 times

but some girls u cant really tell so...

From my understanding, pussies don't permanently stretch from sex. Only from child birth.

A girl will be tight at the start of sex, and usually loosens up while you're in her.

Well basically tell her NOT to scream in pain and deal with the pain. When me and my girlfriend started having sex we had to go REALLY slow especially the first time it took us a couple miniutes before I could start putting in and out before it started to not hurt. The fact that shes going to be in pain(unless hes really really small) is going to be a hinter. I mean she can start practicing with dildo/cucumber to get it less painfull but your friend just sounds dumb. Why not just tell her to not be a dumb ass and tell him shes a virgin? MOst guys like the fact that a girls a virgin and that hes going to be taking hers.

So, lemme get this straight: She (you?) wants to lose her virginity to some guy whom she doesn't even trust enough to let him know that she's still a virgin? I'm not huge on the whole "virginity" thing, but I think that if you're gonna lose it, at least lose it to somebody you genuinely care for and trust.

Also, STOP TELLING PEOPLE STUPID, POINTLESS LIES!!

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

From my understanding, pussies don't permanently stretch from sex. Only from child birth.

A girl will be tight at the start of sex, and usually loosens up while you're in her.

bullshit, i had a chick that i would bang every week and eventually she was pretty loose, even after she went to college and hadn't had it for a long time(i think)she was still loose coming back, once we didn't have sex for about half a year and finally she was somewhat tight again when having sex for the first time again in six months

for OP, a guy really can't tell physically whether or not she is a virgin, it's too late to fake it once she's in bed so i think you are asking how she should act around him before actually doing it

it's really hard to fake something like this, but mistakes would be simple shit, like asking stupid questions about sex(i.e. But how is that big thing going to go inside of my little thing?), or not understaning a guy's double meaning phrase about sex(i.e. Yeah I like to eat out.)

Just tell your friend to watch a lot of porn before hand, and act like the fucking little whore that she is. Suck his cock nice and dirty, then fuck him like a pornstar. Then have him fuck her up the ass.

He won't care three-ways from Sunday if she was a virgin, or anything else for that matter.

Thats just sad...

If a girl I was about to have sex with was a virgin, I'd want to know.

It's actually a perk. It's not something you have to hide.

unless you aren't a virgin, you really have no way to cover it up. it will be pretty obvious that she is unexperienced and the guy will either know, or just thinks she sucks in bed. you have to have had sex to know how to do things right.

if she at least wants to make sure it will 'get in there' without issue or too much pain, tell her to get a dildo/vibrator. at least she won't have to deal with the 'ow' factor when she actually does lose it.

well i am a guy and not a virgin but i get asked if i am because im shitty in bed, so i think it will be hard to tell.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Thats just sad...

If a girl I was about to have sex with was a virgin, I'd want to know.

It's actually a perk. It's not something you have to hide.

Normally I'd agree with you, but not today. Virgins are something that in principle I try to steer clear of because they're clingy as fuck, and seem to be fond of thinking every relationship is true love and must last 5 years.

I'd rather have a realist. That and someone good in the sack.

virgins are unrelaxed/tensed, because (obviously) they never experienced it before.

Then there's always the hymen and blood spraying all over the place, PEW PEW!!

Tell her to grow the fuck up before she starts having sex.

quote:Originally posted by Rykoshet:

Normally I'd agree with you, but not today. Virgins are something that in principle I try to steer clear of because they're clingy as fuck, and seem to be fond of thinking every relationship is true love and must last 5 years.

I'd rather have a realist. That and someone good in the sack.

Well I wouldnt randomly hookup with a virgin I met at a bar. I wouldnt trust a girl that would do that, and I wouldnt want to deal with whatever drama goes with it.

But in a relationship, if its been a month or two, I think it's a rare treat.

quote:Originally posted by jai614:

virgins are unrelaxed/tensed, because (obviously) they never experienced it before.

Then there's always the hymen and blood spraying all over the place, PEW PEW!!

are you a virgin? last I remember the blood doen't spray everywhere, most girls don't even bleed much so she has nothing to worry about there and the guy will be so into his humping that he won't even look for that anyway

quote:Originally posted by ram_from_meche:

are you a virgin? last I remember the blood doen't spray everywhere, most girls don't even bleed much so she has nothing to worry about there and the guy will be so into his humping that he won't even look for that anyway

... dude, joke.