For some reason I cant get into anal sex.I have tried it twice and I dont get off from it,but I have so many people tell me how good it feels but all I feel is PAIN. Any Tips?

Are you a girl?

I am, and I don't like anal sex. I'm not against it, and I let my ex try it a few times. But even if I'm super relaxed/turned on, it still hurts and doesn't feel good at all. Like a giant poo trying to get back in your bum.

Is there any physical reason that a girl would get pleasurable stimulation from anal sex? I know that for men it stimulates the prostate gland, so it makes sense for them to like it. But yeah, is there any actual reason for a girl to like anal sex?

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Are you a girl?

I am, and I don't like anal sex. I'm not against it, and I let my ex try it a few times. But even if I'm super relaxed/turned on, it still hurts and doesn't feel good at all. Like a giant poo trying to get back in your bum.

Is there any physical reason that a girl would get pleasurable stimulation from anal sex? I know that for men it stimulates the prostate gland, so it makes sense for them to like it. But yeah, is there any actual reason for a girl to like anal sex?Yes i am a girl and all of my female friends brag about how great anal is.Well at least now i dont feel left out.Now i know there is someone else who cant get into it either.

Quick question, somewhat related at least (might sound stupid though)...

Is there a reason why anal sex is supposed to feel good for a girl? Or for anyone for that matter? Is there some kind of pleasure point inside the anal area that is stimulated by anal sex? And do men and women both have it?

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Quick question, somewhat related at least (might sound stupid though)...

Is there a reason why anal sex is supposed to feel good for a girl? Or for anyone for that matter? Is there some kind of pleasure point inside the anal area that is stimulated by anal sex? And do men and women both have it?

As a gay male, I suppose I'll field this one.

When men have anal sex, the prostate gland is stimulated and creates a pleasurable feeling. As women don't have prostates, they don't naturally get pleasure from anal, though I suppose some women must get pleasure from it anyway, otherwise they wouldn't do it.

no no no, you're definitely not the only one. people say that it can be just as pleasurable because you're still stimulating the nerves just from a different angle, but i'm pretty sure that's bs. a lot of the time girls pretend to be really into anal because it's considered kinky and hot and whatever. who knows, maybe there are a few out there who are loose enough to actually enjoy it, but that comes with a whole other set of problems.

you know the reason we have all those sensory nerves in our vaginas? SO WE CAN USE THEM WHERE THEY ARE, BOYS!

anal schmanal.

Im a guy, and anal doesn't feel any better then normal sex to me. I myself fail to see the real draw to do it. most the girls I have talked to said it hurt, which makes it even less appealing. Generally sex wise, if it doesn't feel good, don't do it!

quote:Originally posted by jonkk:

Im a guy, and anal doesn't feel any better then normal sex to me. I myself fail to see the real draw to do it. most the girls I have talked to said it hurt, which makes it even less appealing. Generally sex wise, if it doesn't feel good, don't do it!

^ what a prissy bitch.

If it hurts the woman, the better.

It's better to give than recieve

I fuck my GF in the ass quiet alot and she moans ALOT

Some girls like it, some don't.

But I'll be honest my GF's ass is still quiet tight, so thats probably why; oh and also the fact I'm fondling her clit while I'm doing it.

"I fuck my GF in the ass quiet alot and she moans ALOT "

Yeah in pain !Wish I had a gf

quote:Wish I had a gf [/B]

Hire one

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

But yeah, is there any actual reason for a girl to like anal sex?



Physically, no. Psychologically, yes.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



Physically, no. Psychologically, yes.

Thats totally not true. The barrier between inner butthole and inner vag is really thin. Like, a few layers of skin. So when you're pumping away in the butt, you're still activating the same nerves in the vag.

He's right because I remember reading on totse that you could get a girl pregnant through anal sex, because the spunk seeps through into the vagina.

Thank fuck my girls on the pill.

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[This message has been edited by slim-ov-derby (edited 01-30-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by slim-ov-derby:

He's right because I remember reading on totse that you could get a girl pregnant through anal sex, because the spunk seeps through into the vagina.

Thank fuck my girls on the pill.

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That's ridiculous. The only way it could happen would be if sperm dribbles down from her ass into her vagina. There is no way to get anything into the vagina across the rectal walls. If anything went anywhere, it would go into the bloodstream, but a sperm cell wouldn't even pass into there.

I thought it sounded stupid, I was just posting what I saw before because being honest I didn't know if it was true or not.

quote:Originally posted by slim-ov-derby:

He's right because I remember reading on totse that you could get a girl pregnant through anal sex, because the spunk seeps through into the vagina.

Thank fuck my girls on the pill.

EDIT: typo's





I think you've been fucked over by the idiot tree

quote:Originally posted by Shodan's Own:

vag



lol

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Quick question, somewhat related at least (might sound stupid though)...

Is there a reason why anal sex is supposed to feel good for a girl? Or for anyone for that matter? Is there some kind of pleasure point inside the anal area that is stimulated by anal sex? And do men and women both have it?

Okay...this is an old and over done subject...but just let me ask everyone...

Haven't you ever had a really great shit? (Like...for instance...you have to go real bad and can't until you get to the bathroom so you have to strain to hold it in.)



If it's not pleasureable for the girl, then it is being done wrong.

Strange enough i've never felt turned on or saucy when I've taken a shit. But I understand where your coming from because my GF seems to love it when I butt fuck her.

Has anyone had their dick shat on when they butt fuck?

I hate it when that happens.

quote:Originally posted by slim-ov-derby:

Has anyone had their dick shat on when they butt fuck?

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quote:Originally posted by slim-ov-derby:

Strange enough i've never felt turned on or saucy when I've taken a shit. But I understand where your coming from because my GF seems to love it when I butt fuck her.

I'm in that group as well. Must be something wrong with me...

Again, if the woman isn't in pain, the ain't be no gain!

quote:Originally posted by slim-ov-derby:

Strange enough i've never felt turned on or saucy when I've taken a shit. But I understand where your coming from because my GF seems to love it when I butt fuck her.

I'm not saying that's a turn-on, slim. But it's just a crude example of the sensory nerves there silly. I couldn't think of a more delicate way to put it.