Its started ages ago, I had this girlfriend and she had some free tickets to a concert or whatever. Anyway I said I would go and then left town to go to my brothers birthday apologising profusely, upon returning next thursday we go late night shopping with her friend who notoriously hates me i dont know why because apparently i "don't treat her right" and her and her boyfriend where trying to get her to break up with me.

So we are in store number three thousand six hundred and two and I have not said a word to this friend, my girlfriend goes to try clothes on and my friends sit down the woman that runs the store attempts to get me to leave. Then she goes to my girlfriend and she tries to get me to sit down next to her friend needless to say I flip her off and tell her to fuck off and walk out.

She breaks up with me the next day then the day after that she has sex with the boyfriend of the friend after she gets drunk (witht he friends permission), I didnt know this and I was actually text messaging her at the time I was drunkenly roaming the streets with friends trying to recover.

Two weeks later after I have pretty much shut the world off (I actually came on here for advice but I didnt have an account then). She wants to get back together with me after pretty well fucking me around telling me she loves me and changing her mind kissing me and then changing her mind basically being a couple but not and her pulling away we get back together and she tells me why...

dude I didnt know how to react really! I was taken aback I needed to get it out, to tell someone. She expects me to act as if nothing happenned I took her back after all that, I took her back even thought i cant help but think of him and the friend that caused the fucking break up (I admit I was a dick and it snowballed). I cant help but think it was just so that they could get her drunk and fuck her.

Dude, I didnt sleep last night im trying to make me and her work but I dont know she doesn't seem like she is "there anymore" and I dont know what to do

EDIT: Capitalised I's and fixed a lttle bit of spelling

EDIT AGAIN: Fixed it a bit more



[This message has been edited by GorgoN (edited 01-30-2007).]

fuck it man,

dont put up with that shit. it would be so weird for you knowing that she fucked her friends bf with her permission.

its just not worth the endless racing mind.

unless of course you can get yourself to not care about it at all.

plenty of fish in the sea, just hang out with your friends and stuff. it'll be fine.

All my friends have girlfriends, they shunned me like I shunned them when I had her.

I would like to try, but I dont know what to do if I see him I wanted her to stop being friends with them but she isn't for that.

Maybe your right the paranoia might not be worth it,

I'm quite confused

I also thought I would draw the obligatory hillarious response but I didnt

[This message has been edited by GorgoN (edited 01-30-2007).]

There's something called commas and periods. Use them.

well there isnt much anyone else that doesnt know what is going on exactly can offer.

The one thing i will say is go with it for a little bit see how it works out, if you dont feel right in the relationship move on.

She says she regrets it but she also said that she didnt say no,

i dont know if im going to be able to last because its gettign to gme too much it is worse than actually being broken up

and the worst thing is, she refuses to give them up as friends i dont want to put up with the smug bastard. im in chaos

What should i do?

Don't let yourself get into that. I'm sorry.

She's a dumb bitch who let her "friends" run her life.

You don't need that, mate!

I'd say forget her...Move on. It'll be better in the long run.

quote:Dude, I didnt sleep last night im trying to make me and her work but I dont know she doesn't seem like she is "there anymore" and I dont know what to do

Talk to her about that, exactly that, tell her how you're feeling etc.

We went on our first date together, she told me that she missed me more as a friend. Then of course paranoia overwhelmed me I asked her if she only went back out with me because of guilt and whether she really wanted to be with me to which she gave me a yes. After the movie I told her it was eating me inside because it is, but I dont want to let it beat me.

its so hard to let go and I dont want too I really dont, I don't want to lose her

I made myself physically sick at the thought of them together, I vomited up KFC but I can't help it. I'm going to tell her that I am uncomfortable with her hanging around with them

I dont want this...

PS. when I try to tell her serious things its like she looks right through me and ignores it



[This message has been edited by GorgoN (edited 01-30-2007).]

Mate, fling her. Have some self respect, because she has none for you.

I know i'm a fool, thats already cemented in fact.

but we are going to talk tommorrow we are going to get it out and hopefully work through it, I hope that I can put my mind at ease and get on with it

[This message has been edited by GorgoN (edited 01-30-2007).]