What do you do when you ask a girl for her number are out on a date and she rejects you horribly. I am but to take a chance and ask fine looking girl out are something. She has turn guys better looking then I am down. Hell I want to give it a try. The is a 75% percent chance of getting shut down. What should I do are what should I say If she shut down?

" A Coward Turns Away, but a Brave Man's Choice is Danger"-Unknown

75% chance aye...mmm..well that still leaves 25%.

if there's a chance. and im pretty damn sure there would be. go for it. so what if you get shut down, she's one chick. there's plenty more fish in the sea my friend.

i barely got what you said.. can you rephrase?

[This message has been edited by ruckus (edited 01-29-2007).]

Don't get angry. Just say dammit and walkaway.

But you should really be focusing on how to maximise your chanches, and to do this you should try to separate yourself from the crowd of guys she normally turns down.

When you ask her out don't compliment her, don't say "You're the most beautiful girl in the world" or some shit like that. Maybe you should try to make it sound less official, ask her like you'd ask a friend to hang out. And make it something fun and different (Plan in advance) Go-karting or something.

But what do I know?

If your the emotional type have a bottle of chivas regal ready for ya if you succeed invite her over for drinks.

Just be cool about it. Say "okay, I understand we're just friends" or something. That way, when she tells her friends she rejected some guy, she'll be able to say "but he was cool about it", hence giving you a reputation much better than the one you would get from freaking out or whatever. And who knows, maybe one of those friends will end up sucking your dick someday.

She is very influence by her friends and they don't like me. Ahh hell i'm save my self the embaressment and call it a quit.

quote:Originally posted by ruckus:

i barely got what you said.. can you rephrase?



I get the impression his first language isn't english.

But its still readable. Hell, at least hes spelt everything properly.

quote:Originally posted by static_void:

Just be cool about it. Say "okay, I understand we're just friends" or something. That way, when she tells her friends she rejected some guy, she'll be able to say "but he was cool about it", hence giving you a reputation much better than the one you would get from freaking out or whatever. And who knows, maybe one of those friends will end up sucking your dick someday.

This is exactly what you should do if you get rejected.

However, you need to do like Forgotten said and maximize your chances. Those two posts are good advice. Follow them.

Dude I dont know if pheremones are real...espescially "manufactured" ones in magazines and shit.. but i do know that desparation is a very stinky cologne... meaning confidence is everything! why do girls come at you 10x more than normal when you already have a gf? Because you dont care if you talk to them or not.. they can sense that (pheremones or WTF ever) and their subconscious says "Hey its a guy thats not totally fucking desparate!! ..potential for good genetic material!" Once you let them think theyre doing u a favor by saying yes, youre fucked!I know its harder in practice, but just say this... you know I was thinking the other day that Ive known you...how long? (wait for her answer to get her involved) and all this time I dont think weve ever just hung out outside of "school, work, wherever you see her" .. I was thinking of (insert your date plans here) on Thursday ... you should come along! dont leave it open ended, like "hey are you busy on saturday?" "will you go out with me sometime?" because that leaves them an easy out to say know... if you leave it in a way that makes them explain themselves to turn you down, theyre more likely to consider it. by saying youre going somewhere and they should come along, they at least have to make up some kind of excuse to say no... much harder than just... "no." hope it helps dude