Where to begin...

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 weeks, I have had sex before but she has not. She told me that she wanted to... but that I had to make it special etc, so I took her out to a romantic sushi dinner (she had never had sushi before), and everything was going great. We got back to my house, and I had setup myuesthouse for the occation. I bought sented candles and had them lit around the room, got a cd ready to play, and got special non-latex condoms because she has a latex allergie.

Then problem number one happened. The power died... might not seem like a big deal but I live in colorado, and last night was subzero temperatures, and we where in a guest house. It was fucking FREEZING.

So we started making out, everything was going awsome, we where laying togethor nude, I fingered her some to get her ready, then I decided to put on the condom.

As soon as I get it on I start loosing my erection... or have to make a conscious effort to keep it at least.

We play around a little more and then move to the bed. We have some troble laying down on the bed because its soooo cold and we had to get sheets out. At this point she tells me we dont have much time left...

From there its an acward struggle... I keep trying to get hard, but its too cold/the condom is too constricting, the polyurethane condom isn't really lubed (that didn't help, no lube anywhere) plus I'm fretting about the time... so eventually we just gave up.

I felt like a failure, and it was the most embarressing thing that has EVER happened to me. Up untill now everything has been perfect for her... she kept telling me it was ok and that we would next weekend etc, but that doesn't change how I feel.

What are your thoughts? I have no problem retaining erection without a condom, but as soon as I get that thing on it feels like it strangles my dick.

Meh, shit happens?

I mean the power went out. Shitty. But nothing you could really do about it.

Laugh at it and make it right next time?

Get a bigger one?

Either way, it doesn't matter shit, it's not even embarressing, it was fucking cold, so it's a natural reaction.

[This message has been edited by Aseren (edited 01-28-2007).]

That's the most embarassing thing thats ever happened to you? I envy you.

Don't take it to heart. You just have a funny story for the future.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Don't take it to heart. You just have a funny story for the future.

Yepp. tell your future kid that was how he or she was conceived.

tell her it happened because you wanted to make it even more special..then take her out to a hotel next time and bring ky jelly.

try those warm to the touch lubes... and maybe if you guys have access to a fire place it wont happen . be happy you had candles to see.

That sucks man, I find the best way though to maintain boner is fap a little before u put the condom on til ur rly hard again, then condom, then fap, then insert.

Dont worry about it buddy. The same thing happened to me. We only had about 30 minutes, been fooling around for a long ass time, finally got the condom on and lost the boner. Almost impossible to get back. Embarrassing as hell but whatever, youll be alright.

That has happened to me, was because i was stressed out and tired.

I find if she goes down on my before puting the condom on it is fine.

I have to say condoms are shittest thing, they take so much out of it. If she is not willing to go on the pill do not have unprotected sex because you will never want to use those bloody things again!!

After you take her virginity break up with her immediately. I was in the same situation as you.. until I took my girlfriends v. Now shes all clingy and more emotional and says I love you an excessive amount. So yeah.. let us know how it does you fucking ED victim.

how can sushi be romantic?