I'm not sure why its bothering me, I guess it shouldent. But it does.

My gf of 2 years is being involved in her freinds art project for university. Anyway the what shes doing is getting a close up picture of her pussy taken, with her legs spread. There will be horrible/feminist type words all over her legs and stomach ect ect. No face showing, just her cunt in plainside, spread open.

She told me this and I told her I didnt like it. I don't like the idea, it bothers me. She argues that no one will no its her, and its no big deal. But it bothers me. Clearly I can't control her disucsions as shes not my property, and I can't exactly be mad either.

But this bothers me and makes me upset. Don't know why, but it does. What should I do? We're both almost 20 as well, I have no idea what to say/do/feel/whatever.

Arg.

I would find it odd.

I'd be questioning the motivation and desire behind it.

Well she agreed to do it for her freind for school. I guess she see's no problem with it.

She's also done topless art modeling shit for her cousin. That botherd me as well.

This just pushes the line though, it really bothers me.

What sort of friend?

Male or female friend?

Female freind.

Theres no guys involved, as far as she's concerned its just an art project for her freinds university. She says no one will no its her and she doesnt no anyone in the class or anything.

I don't know, I just can't get mind around "girlfreinds cunt exposed to class/other people".

*shrug*

I dunno, just bothers the hell out of me. I dunno what to do. Or say.

I wouldn't want her doing it because it's a stupid ass idea. Explain to her that if she's so desperate to get her pussy all over the internet then she should do it in a way that's generally artsy. Not just some feminazi predictable bullshit.

You can label anything as art nowadays. But it just seems to be clichéd and empty shock tactics. Tell her you’re fine with her doing it, you just wish she had more class.

She's an exhibitionist. Sorry, dude... you got one of those. Keep her out of public sight when she starts drinking.

I'd be against her doing it not because it's her cunt, but because it sounds like a really shit piece of art. Holy chit you took a picture of yourself with whore written on you, how intellectually stimulating. Fucking art fags.

You are whipped up beyond belief. That's what you get for going out with a feminist.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

You are whipped up beyond belief. That's what you get for going out with a feminist.

Where the fuck did I say she was a feminist? Are you fucking stupid?

quote:Originally posted by DocShay:

Where the fuck did I say she was a feminist? Are you fucking stupid?

Oh yeah. I know alot non feminists who write feminists messages on themsleves for art projects. How foolish of me.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Oh yeah. I know alot non feminists who write feminists messages on themsleves for art projects. How foolish of me.

I guess you never read a damn thing I wrote. HER FREIND wants to write that on her for HER art project. My girlfreinds only a volunteer in it to help her out, doesnt mean shes a feminist.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

How foolish of me.

Ask her if you could talk to her friend about it?

If she knows that it deeply bothers you, then that's about as far as you can go. The ball is in her court.

I talked to her awhile ago, told her how much it botherd me and asked her not to do it.

She agreed not to but seemed upset, she told me she doesnt like being told what to do. So I told her i'm not telling her what to do, i'm just telling her how it will affect me and how it will make me feel. Shes still a little so-so about it all, but I don't think she'll do it.

quote:Originally posted by DocShay:

She agreed not to but seemed upset, she told me she doesnt like being told what to do. So I told her i'm not telling her what to do, i'm just telling her how it will affect me and how it will make me feel. Shes still a little so-so about it all, but I don't think she'll do it.

You see, because you can't tell her what to do, you have this problem.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

I wouldn't want her doing it because it's a stupid ass idea.

Agreed. I wouldn't care about the the picture itself, but that's a really fucking stupid idea for an art project.

Dude, who the hell cares. Its art, shock art, but there is a planned statement that the artist wants to convey to the audience.

Personally I would be totally ok with it and probably encourage it, I mean I have nothing to lose by letting her do it and just a big fight otherwise.

Why can't her friend use her own body as the pussy and stomach? All your girlfriend would need to do is take the pictures.

Makes more sense to me...

(I think your gf's friend is a lesbian or bisexual, if the latter, ask for a threesome!)

sure you don't own her or anything like that but if you've been going out for 2 years and she knows that you really don't want this and that its gonna really piss you off then she should WANT to back out for you. if she really cared about you and your relationship then wouldn't she want you to be happy and therefore pull out of the thing? basically whats more important, a friends art/porno shoot or your relationship?

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:

Why can't her friend use her own body as the pussy and stomach? All your girlfriend would need to do is take the pictures.

Because she secretly wants to munch onthe OP's girl's vag and uses all sorts of excuses to oggle her naked

I mean come on, she's a feminist too, it's too obvious

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

You see, because you can't tell her what to do, you have this problem.



It's nhot my position to tell her what she can or can't do, just like she can't tell me what to do either.

Write things like "Bitch please," "Make me a sandwich," and "A woman's place is in the kitchen," all over your cock, legs, etc. Take a picture, and get it blown up to a really huge size. Hang it in her room. Ask her if she likes it.

[This message has been edited by Uber (edited 01-28-2007).]