Ok. So basically everyone can tell I "fancy" her, but in reality I love her to peices. People keep asking her stupid ass questions like "Are you two fucking?" or stupid shit like that - Because we look, act and are close..

So then she knew it all along, But I always refused to tell her. I could never bring myself to tell that popular girl, who everyone fancies that I like her... alot. Why risk it?

It pushes me to the floor and then beats me to peices everytime she says one of 2 names... (Her boyfriend, and... well... Some other guy who isnt far off a boyfriend) It gets to the point where it could bring me to tears.

But despite knowing my feelings, we're both very good friends. I surpress how I feel as I dont want to lose the best friend I have ever had. But it still hurts me when I hear those other names.

Im being consumed by jealousy, I can go from perfectly happy to totally angry. Im suffering from mood swings from it and everything. Yet when I feel anger, I just look into her eyes and its gone. Im happy...

When she rings up crying due to something thats happened (Nearly always due to "those other names") it kills me. I dont want to comfort her over the phone, I just have the urge to hug her and never let go.

I run to her everyword. If she says "Jump" then I just say "How high?".

If I need to understand something or explain something to someone. I pretend im explaing it to her in my head - Obsessive? Yes. I need a life I suppose...

Then just now she comes on MSN and (after a very jokey phone conversation - Like normal...) asks me this...

quote:(19:08:03) *: got a question ye i kno u llike me n i wna kno wah mkes me so attractive ??

(19:13:31) Moddy: Personality; Maybe its the way I can talk to you about ANYTHING, Or the way you can cheer me up when I'm down (And all I need todo is ring you up) Or even your sense of humour. Im not sure... You're just a really nice girl.

(19:13:56)*: aww bless

I wanna know... What have I just done? Maybe I just fed into an attention request...

Also, I cant lose this friendship... but overall I think it mightbe having a negative effect on me. I just need a bit of help.

Thanks in advance guys,

Might I recommend issuing a third grade literacy test to any prospective romantic interests?

EDIT: Spelling. Just for you.

[This message has been edited by SilentMind (edited 01-27-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Might I reccomend issuing a third grade literacy test to any prospective romantic interests?

Might I recommend keeping on topic? Also, May I recommend you learn how to spell "recommend" before you judge others literacy skills?



Edit: Added something.

[This message has been edited by Modzilla (edited 01-27-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

Might I recommend keeping on topic.





ON TOPIC, you gave her a bunch of generic compliments that really dont mean much.

EDIT: Girls say those sorts of things all the time to guys they have no interest in.

[This message has been edited by SilentMind (edited 01-27-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:



ON TOPIC, you gave her a bunch of generic compliments that really dont mean much.

EDIT: Girls say those sorts of things all the time to guys they have no interest in.



Im more worried about the fact she knew my feelings anyway, And the fact that this is having a detrimental effect on my mental health. (Anger, Jealousy, Mood swings...)

Asshole, don't SAY anything to her to tell her how you feel about her. DO stuff TO her. By that I don't mean FOR her, like buying gifts and shit.

So far you haven't really screwed it bad.

[This message has been edited by Mahatma Gandhi (edited 01-27-2007).]

Crystal meth is your friend.

she already knew, she isnt ganna blow the friendship.

quote:Originally posted by Mahatma Gandhi:

Asshole, don't SAY anything to her to tell her how you feel about her. DO stuff TO her. By that I don't mean FOR her, like buying gifts and shit.

So far you haven't really screwed it bad.



Asshole? Fuck you, Atleast I can aim my cock properly.

Other then that, Thankyou for your advice my kind (But clumsy :P) friend. =]

[This message has been edited by Modzilla (edited 01-27-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

Asshole? Fuck you, Atleast I can aim my cock properly.

Other then that, Thankyou for your advice my kind (But clumsy :P) friend. =]



LMFAO



Anywho, Modzilla, it's really okay. Like somebody said, all you did was give her a bunch of generic-sounding compliments. She's flattered, I'm sure, and by answering the question at all you did admit to liking her in such a way, but all in all, you could play it off like you were just in a "complimentary" mood.

I suggest you really do come out with it and just tell her. It's causing you way too much anxiety. If you're really as good of friends as you say you are, then you two could work something together.

This sounds kind of like a test of your relationship.

P.S. She has terrible online english. Srsly.

Yea, you are an asshole for being a wussbag. If you continue this way, you will find yourself pointing your dick only at your fist for the rest of your life.

Keep me updated, fuckface.

quote:Originally posted by Mahatma Gandhi:

Yea, you are an asshole for being a wussbag. If you continue this way, you will find yourself pointing your dick only at your fist for the rest of your life.

Keep me updated, fuckface.

<3 <3 I fucking love you, You heartless bastard. <3 <3

Too Much Ibuprofen: Thanks, Yeah I suppose they where generic sounding although they did come from the heart.. and take me a while to think of!

I probably will come out to her at some point.

Thanks again!

Like I told you before, look into her eyes and maintain the gaze a little longer than usual. DON'T LOOK AWAY. There are many more thing involved here but can't explain it all in this post.

And I think you need an attitude change too. I read your gay rays post too. If you don't, even if you get the girl the theme song of your life with her will be "Scotty Doesn't Know".

I'll help you a little here. Watch "Meet Joe Black" - the scene where the Brad Pitt and Claire Forlani meet at the coffee shop for the first time. Take a note how he carries himself.

Im gonna be honest. You dont like her as a friend, you treat her liek a friend to stay close to her in the hope fo fucking her. Fucking her is all your interested in, this is the sad truth, human love...fuck that its always a chemical romance or in friendships case one of convenience which is mutually beneficial. You want to fuck her. Act mean imitate these boy friends. Treat em mean keep em keen.

Example being...

a friend whos going out with one of my female friends. This girl is crazy about him because he does nasty things such as telling her 2 months into a relationship that hes dumping her. they sit there together in ten minutes of silence, then she cries for ten minutes more. Then he tells her he was joking. And guess what, shes even crazier for him, forgives him straight away. Take note and heed well... I dont like it but sadly girls minds work liek that.

quote:Originally posted by Mahatma Gandhi:

Like I told you before, look into her eyes and maintain the gaze a little longer than usual. DON'T LOOK AWAY. There are many more thing involved here but can't explain it all in this post.

And I think you need an attitude change too. I read your gay rays post too. If you don't, even if you get the girl the theme song of your life with her will be "Scotty Doesn't Know".

I'll help you a little here. Watch "Meet Joe Black" - the scene where the Brad Pitt and Claire Forlani meet at the coffee shop for the first time. Take a note how he carries himself.



My attitude?

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

My attitude?

Yea, your attitue. You are a nice guy wussbag. And you sound desperate too. "How high"? LMFAO!

Mind elaborating what all you have been doing FOR her?

quote:Originally posted by Mahatma Gandhi:

Yea, your attitue. You are a nice guy wussbag. And you sound desperate too. "How high"? LMFAO!

Mind elaborating what all you have been doing FOR her?

Numerous times I've gone upto her house because shes been crying.. (Its a mile walk.)

I've sat on the phone to her for hours on end listening to mind-numbingly boring babble about the "other names".

I took her to London (Specifically Buckingham Palace) when she felt down one saturday. (Totally spur of the moment, But its only half an hour on a train...)

If she needs anything doing I offer a hand... anything at all.

Generally I'll be their to pick the peices up after everytime something goes wrong.

Mainly lots of small stuff really. Nothing to big, Just lots and lots of small stuff.

I've read her email for her and told her what was in there when she couldnt access it.

I just got her phone settings sent to her from the O2 website.

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Dude, you should be doing all those for your girlfriend, not someone you wanna make her your girlfriend. Always remember that.

Check this out: http://www.laddertheory.com/ladderconstruction.htm

I know your intentions were all good and sweet, but things don't work that way if you are looking to be beyond just being friends.

You, most probably, could have fallen into the 'nice guy friend' trap. Like a safety net under her while she goes tightrope walking. She needs you but for a different reason. If it is true, you are gonna have a hard time getting outta it.

You didn't tell her anything other than that you enjoy her company. A person can read into it.

She's already proved the ladder theory wrong by going for a good friend in the past.

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

She's already proved the ladder theory wrong by going for a good friend in the past.

You will never know which ladder a person is on.

The easiest way to get to this girl, is to get a girlfriend that's atleast as hot as she is.

No.. not in your case.

[This message has been edited by Aseren (edited 01-27-2007).]

Ladder theory is nonsense.

This thread sucks, you suck too. Grow some testicles and pull the trigger. Think of it this way, you can maybe ruin your friendship with this girl by asking her out, or you can keep on torturing yourself. You may fail, but you always have a chance of success.

Also you do need to tell the girl to stop typing with her ass. I've seen mongoloids with better spelling and grammar.

Mon·gol·oid

Pronunciation[mong-guh-loid, mon-]



–adjective

5.(usually lowercase) Pathology. (no longer in technical use) a person affected with Down syndrome.

Let us all give thanks to www.dictionary.com. (http://www.dictionary.com.)

Not sure why you like her. She's devoted to not one but two boyfriends who treat her like shit, she doesn't seem to really care about you, and she spells worse than a third grader. (I'd be ashamed to type like that after a few bottles of vodka, let alone sober.)

But love works in mysterious ways, and all. My advice... #1: don't be so mindlessly devoted. Girls don't want servants as boyfriends. Care about her, help her, sure, but remember to be your own person. She likes (or would like) you, not some sort of slavish mirror. Make her see you as an equal, like in #2: don't be so timid. Give her the opportunity to see you as something more than a fallback guy, a servant to help her feel better. Next time she complains about her boyfriends, gently suggest that she might not want to consider them boyfriends any more. Tell her how you feel - not like "uh, yeah, so I really kinda like you, but its okay if you don't like me back", but more like "I like you a lot. I think we'd be good together ".

Or something. I'm not exactly a social genius, but I've managed to find the love of my life so I might not be completely off the mark.

[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 01-27-2007).]

I believe the farret is trying to say dont be an emotional tampon. If the other guys treat her like crap, you treat her like crap too. Shit you dont have anything to lose but your pride.

What am I saying, your asking totse for serious advice, you have no pride.

Since you posted, I'm going to completely honest...you make me sick.

Look at you, doing all this shit to a girl who likes two people better than you, then whines to you about those people, who you do all sorts of nice shit for.

Wake up, idiot. She's a manipulative whore who's using you to get compliments, listen to her problems, and do stuff for her, while she fucks other guys. And you're acting pathetic and subservient.

Really, I'm only telling you this because 1. it's painful to read 2. I was like that. So don't think I'm just being a troll.

Here's what you do. Block her from MSN, don't contact her on the phone, whatever. If she manages to contact you, and asks you why you've been avoiding her, say something nonchalantly callous, then end it.

Claim your dignity back now, or you may never get it back.

PS: God I hope you're young and a virgin.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Ladder theory is nonsense.

I know it's a joke, but it actually explains a lot. It fits right in with the Pecking Order theory and is basically an extension of that. And I've NEVER, honestly, seen a relationship that deviates from it and where its rules don't apply.

I was in the same position and I told her. Things couldn't be better.

Hate to break it to ya, i can totally relate to you, but I honestly don't think she's into you and the things you said dont' really translate into anything near "love" she's just feeling crummy and knows that you like her and can always count on you bringing her up by seeing someone so desperate about her it makes her feel good. thats my limited assumption. good luck.

but i really would try to get her to not type so stupidly.

OP, is your name jon by any chance?

i couldn't bring myself to be interested in someone that types that way. how smart is she?

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

got a question ye i kno u llike me n i wna kno wah mkes me so attractive ??

ROFLCOPTER.

I feel no sympathy for you, this is what happens when you set your sights on braindead bimbos who don't know a good thing when it's right in front of them.

If she had any sense at all she'd hook up with you and get you to teach her the english language.

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

Ok. So basically everyone can tell I "fancy" her, but in reality I love her to peices. People keep asking her stupid ass questions like "Are you two fucking?" or stupid shit like that - Because we look, act and are close..

So then she knew it all along, But I always refused to tell her. I could never bring myself to tell that popular girl, who everyone fancies that I like her... alot. Why risk it?

It pushes me to the floor and then beats me to peices everytime she says one of 2 names... (Her boyfriend, and... well... Some other guy who isnt far off a boyfriend) It gets to the point where it could bring me to tears.

But despite knowing my feelings, we're both very good friends. I surpress how I feel as I dont want to lose the best friend I have ever had. But it still hurts me when I hear those other names.

Im being consumed by jealousy, I can go from perfectly happy to totally angry. Im suffering from mood swings from it and everything. Yet when I feel anger, I just look into her eyes and its gone. Im happy...

When she rings up crying due to something thats happened (Nearly always due to "those other names") it kills me. I dont want to comfort her over the phone, I just have the urge to hug her and never let go.

I run to her everyword. If she says "Jump" then I just say "How high?".

If I need to understand something or explain something to someone. I pretend im explaing it to her in my head - Obsessive? Yes. I need a life I suppose...Yeah, I'm not going to talk about whether or not you "spilled the beans" on your feelings or any of that shit.

However, ^ this shit ^ needs to stop. You're being a goddamn pussy, and you're never going to be with her. Accept it and move on. Whether that means continuing to be her friend while completely ignoring any feelings you have for her (compressing them into a ball of self-hatred always works) or cutting your ties completely, you need to make a fucking decision. You can't be this little pussy puppy following her every command. It's demeaning, and it's not going to earn you any points because, like I said you will never fucking be with her. The longer it takes you to realize this, the harder it'll be when you finally accept it. I'm sorry to keep saying it over and over again, but it's the truth. And the truth hurts. But not as much as it's going to hurt when this all comes crashing down around you.

I'm not saying all this to be mean. I'm saying this to try and help you avoid the same mistakes I made. What you are now, was me two years ago. For four fucking years I was in love with my best friend. Everyone knew it, but it was never spoken. Everything you are doing and saying, describes my actions to a T. Change your location from merry old England to the suburbs of DC and our stories are identical. It took me four years of my life to realize we were never going to happen. Four years of being fucking everything I thought she wanted. Four years of constantly being the nice guy she could always come to. Four years of lying to myself that I could be with her.

And when I finally woke up from my own lies, I was crushed. Everything I had been for the last four years was for nothing. I had ignored everything and every other girl for four years because I was so in love with the one I'd never have.

It's two years later, and I still fucking hurt from that. I still hate myself for what I did, what I was, and how I let myself get trapped in that life. Do you know how much it sucks to *actually* hate yourself? Take it from someone who was there not too long ago- it's not fucking worth it. If you value your self-esteem even the most minute amount, you will get yourself out of this as quickly as possible.

However, I know you're not going to listen to me. Hell, I wouldn't have listened to me back then. But at least think about it.

But whatever, this has brought up too much shit for me, so bye.

sux2b me lulz

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

sux2b me lulz

I hope you listen to the advice given here man. It's gonna be hard for a while..

But as said above, get your dignity back. Don't do this to yourself.

Your best friend is a girl, first mistake right there.

quote:Originally posted by Aseren:

I hope you listen to the advice given here man. It's gonna be hard for a while...

I have, But what that bitch has just done has been the final fucking straw.

"Guess what I've done" - I knew then it would be something todo with one of those wankers who use her then abuse her to put it politely. One of them that have lied to her. Cheated on her. And more...

Then I end up guessing like I give a fuck... Well I don't. Do I really give a fuck that she made one of the useless bastards "cum over the phone without touching.."? No, No I fucking dont.

Why tell me this? She makes it sound really important "Oh, I can only tell you - I only trust you... But I need to get it off of my chest...". Who gives a fuck? She should get over herself - NOBODY CARES THAT YOU BASICALLY HAD PHONE SEX WITH SOME GUY THAT ISNT EVEN YOUR BOYFRIEND.

What, does she take pride in the fact she can hurt me? Does she enjoy doing it? Because she says she knows I like her... then she spends all her time talking about other guys - THAT TREAT HER LIKE SHIT. So I end up feeling like im a useless pile of worthles shit.

Now I feel so fucking angry and useless/down now, Im even ignoring her. NOW... But in a few hours I'll be back to my usual gormless, helpless self. Well thats not gonna happen any fucking longer.

Too think, My friends warned me about this. "You're just her puppet" And how I dismissed them as jealous that I was losing time for them. Well fuck that.

She begs me to go to places, then she acts like Im not even fucking there. Im just a fucking back-up, "Oh, Ive got nothing todo on Saturday - So I might ring you if you wanna go out?", The first bit somes it up...

Im just a "pick-me-up" for when shes down. And I've been too fucking blind to see it. Yet I fucking love her, I cant put up with this shit any longer.

Do I tell her? Do I tell her I dont give a fuck about the others? Last time we even had a small argument she cried and cried "I've never cried over losing a friend... and I didnt even lose you and I cried.." - How the fuck can I counter that? I don't want to lose her, but shes pushing me away.

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

Ok. So basically everyone can tell I "fancy" her, but in reality I love her to peices. People keep asking her stupid ass questions like "Are you two fucking?" or stupid shit like that - Because we look, act and are close..

So then she knew it all along, But I always refused to tell her. I could never bring myself to tell that popular girl, who everyone fancies that I like her... alot. Why risk it?

It pushes me to the floor and then beats me to peices everytime she says one of 2 names... (Her boyfriend, and... well... Some other guy who isnt far off a boyfriend) It gets to the point where it could bring me to tears.

But despite knowing my feelings, we're both very good friends. I surpress how I feel as I dont want to lose the best friend I have ever had. But it still hurts me when I hear those other names.

Im being consumed by jealousy, I can go from perfectly happy to totally angry. Im suffering from mood swings from it and everything. Yet when I feel anger, I just look into her eyes and its gone. Im happy...

When she rings up crying due to something thats happened (Nearly always due to "those other names") it kills me. I dont want to comfort her over the phone, I just have the urge to hug her and never let go.

I run to her everyword. If she says "Jump" then I just say "How high?".

If I need to understand something or explain something to someone. I pretend im explaing it to her in my head - Obsessive? Yes. I need a life I suppose...

Then just now she comes on MSN and (after a very jokey phone conversation - Like normal...) asks me this...

I wanna know... What have I just done? Maybe I just fed into an attention request...

Also, I cant lose this friendship... but overall I think it mightbe having a negative effect on me. I just need a bit of help.

Thanks in advance guys,

dude, she doesnt give a fuck about you cuz she thinks you're a pussy. Why is that you ask? because you act like a pussy and do everything she says...

quote:Originally posted by youth in asia:

dude, she doesnt give a fuck about you cuz she thinks you're a pussy. Why is that you ask? because you act like a pussy and do everything she says...

Are you always 1 beat behind?

If she's making you feel bad, then she should know about it.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

If she's making you feel bad, then she should know about it.

I suppose, As I really doubt she means to hurt me...

She does want to hurt you, or at the least she disregards your feelings. I understand you, like I said it's gonna be hard for a while at first. But once you get used to not talking to her after a week or so, you'll notice that life is much better with your dignity intact and not having to constantly worry about what the manipulative bitch is gonna do next.

All the classic little signs are here, inviting you and then ignore you? Damn dude, I would have left the second she ignored me. I semi-respect your ability to put up with it all, but it's getting out of hand, and besides, you are never gonna get with her.

Now that you have this knowledge..

ask yourself what you're doing this for? do you like being abused? If not, cut the bitch out. You might not see it but you deserve better, once you realize that she'll mean nothing to you.

[This message has been edited by Aseren (edited 01-28-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

I suppose, As I really doubt she means to hurt me...

She doesn't care enough about you for her to even think about that. Stop defending her.

I think most of us here have been there which is why it pisses us off so much Don't worry, it's a lesson alot of people have to learn, but learn it now.

I have been in the exact same situation. My best mate girlfriend...

Because she was not single we became really close friends, then they broke up and we were flirting alot, but then got back with my best mate. (this is over about 2years...)

Now we are amazing friends, but i know her too well to be in a relationship with her, being tied to her would piss me a lot, but on the other hand i want to hold her and kiss her(it is a confusing emotion when you know you wouldnt make a great couple).

It is sometimes completly unbareable being drunk with her, but she sees the friendship in a diferent way(as women do) so i would never push anything.

What is even more annoying is if i want to show how i feel by body language and shit she doesnt realise it because we have always been really flirty.

I accepted the fact we will probably never have sex and well get on with my life, i am reminded of it now and then but i dont see her often(as i moved away for uni).

So basically, get on with your life and forget about it or make it VERY(actually say it!) obvious that you want something between you two. If you think about it too much it'll be too late and you will be stuck at the 'best friend' stage when you are completly in love with her.

(sorry about the length)

How will she know that she's hurting you if you don't tell her about it?

Nobody reads minds. Well, nobody reads minds that well.

Tell her to fuck off and that you're tired of being treated like shit. No one deserves to be treated that way, and she's a cunt for behaving like she has.

Then, take your phone off the hook, and disappear for a while.

Apologies to Billy Joel.

Man, I don't think that even Bunny.Meatball would have taken this much shit from a bitch like her. You say that "what that bitch has just done has been the final fucking straw" but then you try and defend her again?

Get this through your head:

SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU AT ALL. Not one bit. She likes being complimented, and she likes knowing that she has power over you, but THERE IS NOT A SINGLE THING ABOUT YOU THAT SHE LIKES.

She just gets a kick out of messing with you.

What you need to do is quite simple: Imagine her 20 years down the road. Having gotten pregnant to some random guy that treats her like shit, living in a trailer park with 6 snot-nosed kids, fat and giving blowjobs to strangers so she can by drugs.

Now imagine yourself 20 years from now, hanging out with her in her trailer, watching her as she blows some random guy and comforting her after her latest boyfriend beats her.

Now ask yourself, is that where you want to end up? So from now on, every time you see or speak to her, just imagine you're talking to her future self, the fat crack-whore who still doesn't like you, and treat her as such. She'll get the picture, and you'll feel much better about yourself.

But remember- don't just read this and say "Oh that's a good idea". Actually close your eyes and imagine it, as realistically as you can. If you don't do that, I guess it's pretty obvious that you don't really want to get over her.

Good Luck.

quote:Originally posted by Mahatma Gandhi:

Yea, you are an asshole for being a wussbag. If you continue this way, you will find yourself pointing your dick only at your fist for the rest of your life.

Keep me updated, fuckface.

Gandhi! You lied to me! I trusted you!

TELL HER!

i didn't tell my female best friend once,and i fucking regret it.we were like"yeah it would be weird if we hooked up" but i could see in her face that she was just covering up crap,as was i.

and now we arent even friends,dont even say hi when we pass each other in the street.so who cares! go for it man.

Reading this thread here,

http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/026927.html

I would say this might be the reason she hasn't shown interest in you.

Notice how girls usually are really good friends with people who are gay? Girls feel like their men they can really talk to.

Problem is you're being "wussy". Female friends of mine, I'll do stuff for, but I always expect something in return, or I'll get them to do something for me.

That way, if my feelings do grow for them, the door is at least an inch ajar rather than slammed in my face.

Whoever said about her living in a trailer park in 20years being addicted to drugs and shit... You've shown your own fucking bitterness. As you couldnt be further from the truth...

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

Whoever said about her living in a trailer park in 20years being addicted to drugs and shit... You've shown your own fucking bitterness. As you couldnt be further from the truth...

This is obviously a hopeless case, guys. Just let the thread die and stop giving him attention.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Originally posted by Modzilla:

Whoever said about her living in a trailer park in 20years being addicted to drugs and shit... You've shown your own fucking bitterness. As you couldnt be further from the truth...

This is obviously a hopeless case, guys. Just let the thread die and stop giving him attention.

Fuck you. If you read my other posts you could see I generally agree with the advice. Its just some moron has used this thread to push his own bitterness, Just because he was probably rejected by a friend once...

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

Fuck you. If you read my other posts you could see I generally agree with the advice. Its just some moron has used this thread to push his own bitterness, Just because he was probably rejected by a friend once...



dude your kicking a dead horse now man,

quote:Originally posted by NiGhT PrOwLeR:



dude your kicking a dead horse now man,

who cares. At least dead horses don't mind

Why not just tell her how you feel?

I know this is difficult, I struggled to do this numerous times, went crazy over a girl and did nothing, just to see them stop waiting for me and go with someone else.

Finally this last time I thought "enough is enough" and decided to go for it. I told my interest what I felt, let it out of the bag, and what do you know... we're now married and hopefully happy ever after...

quote:Originally posted by busyhands:

Why not just tell her how you feel?

I know this is difficult, I struggled to do this numerous times, went crazy over a girl and did nothing, just to see them stop waiting for me and go with someone else.

Finally this last time I thought "enough is enough" and decided to go for it. I told my interest what I felt, let it out of the bag, and what do you know... we're now married and hopefully happy ever after...

Yeah, I plan on telling her soon. How though? Now thats another problem... :/