Just out of curiosity, how long from the first date should you start kissing and making out with a girl? I just recently started dating this girl and I was just curious...

Kiss her before the first date even starts. That way she knows you mean business.

[This message has been edited by mindh4X0rz (edited 01-26-2007).]

WIthin 24 hours of meeting the girl who became my wife we had not only kissed but had freaky-deaky-monkey-sex and decided to marry and have kids...

Don't think there are any 'rules' on this.

If you dont fuck on the first date, dump her.

Like jack said, no rules. I slept with my boyfriend the first time we went out and we're still blissfully in love.

You know, for once I would like to take longer with this kinda stuff. My first girl I jumped right in because I was 1. a late bloomer and eager to get some notches on my belt and 2. damn seductive.

My 2nd girl I was sort of in a rush to do things physically because she just kicked so much ass and I had to leave the country pretty soon, I really wanted to get close to her before I had to leave.

My god I'm self centered, I managed to start talking about me. Anyway, just start off with shit like holding hands, arm around shoulder, progress to small kisses on forehead, cheek, that kinda shit, then lips. There's no rush, just let shit happen naturally.

kinda depends on how fast you and the girl wants to move. like rabbitweed said start off a little slow then gradually progress to the other stuff. good luck to you mate

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

freaky-deaky-monkey-sex

the best advice anyone can give you is, don't listen to anyone about advice. do what you want to do, follow your instincts.

My boyfriend and I met in class, exchanged numbers and talked that night for hours.

The next day he ran up to me, grabbed my waist, and laid one on me.

We walked out of the room holding hands and haven't (metaphorically) let go since. That was a year and a half ago.



So, sometimes, moving "fast" isn't so bad. It all really depends on how well you two connect. You'll be fine, just try your best to relax. "Go with the flow."

Good luck!

[This message has been edited by Too Much Ibuprofen (edited 01-27-2007).]