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 #1 
Old 2007-01-26, 04:42
PossesedSmurf PossesedSmurf is offline
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Default I Did Something Very Uncalled For.

I was sitting with my best friend of a few years in class. She passes me a note "What have you been up to?" In which i replied "You know, we've always kinda liked eachother, even if it is a very taboo subject, I think we should go out. I'm sure you'll need time to think, so just put this paper in yoru binder and answer me after the exam break". That was today at school, and we dont get back from the exam break until the monday. I'm nervous, and curious to see how this will work out.



Edit: I'll be sure to update.

[This message has been edited by PossesedSmurf (edited 01-26-2007).]
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Old 2007-01-26, 05:02
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Expect the worst. That way when it blows up in your face you can just say 'meh', while if it actually works you can still be surprised.
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Old 2007-01-26, 05:05
Too Much Ibuprofen Too Much Ibuprofen is offline
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How is that uncalled for?

Granted it WAS immature, but I don't see how it was inappropriate.
 #4 
Old 2007-01-26, 05:32
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Best of luck mate.

-F☺rd
 #5 
Old 2007-01-26, 05:52
Rocko Rocko is offline
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Immature? That's the most mature thing I think I've ever read about somebody from Totse doing.

Cutting through the bullshit FTW!
 #6 
Old 2007-01-26, 05:57
NiGhT PrOwLeR NiGhT PrOwLeR is offline
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This is only gonna end up badly..
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Old 2007-01-26, 05:58
ScaryDangerous ScaryDangerous is offline
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you got guts, i applaud.
 #8 
Old 2007-01-26, 06:07
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Hope it works out.
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Old 2007-01-26, 06:11
oc6 oc6 is offline
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Why didn't you give her your number and tell her to call you sometime? (or...does she have it already?)
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Old 2007-01-26, 06:14
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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Why didn't you give her your number and tell her to call you sometime? (or...does she have it already?)

youre fucked. you NEVER write to a girl like that in note form that you like her. I once told a girl you're hot" in her year book, she thought I was a perv, never spoke to me again, but like, we were going out, so i was like wtf.
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Old 2007-01-26, 06:17
oc6 oc6 is offline
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I think it was a move worth making.

The girl you were dating was a bit weird wasn't she...
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Old 2007-01-26, 06:19
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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I think it was a move worth making.

The girl you were dating was a bit weird wasn't she...

the "weirdest" it ever got was her drawing smiley faces on my arm in english class. but no, she wasnt "weird" at all.
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Old 2007-01-26, 06:21
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quote:Originally posted by Rocko:

Immature? That's the most mature thing I think I've ever read about somebody from Totse doing.

Cutting through the bullshit FTW!

Alas the world is not always mature.
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Old 2007-01-26, 06:22
oc6 oc6 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by LiquidSniper:

the "weirdest" it ever got was her drawing smiley faces on my arm in english class. but no, she wasnt "weird" at all.



I think her never speaking to you again because you wrote you thought she was hot in her yearbook is a bit wierd.
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Old 2007-01-27, 02:04
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quote:Originally posted by LiquidSniper:

youre fucked. you NEVER write to a girl like that in note form that you like her. I once told a girl you're hot" in her year book, she thought I was a perv, never spoke to me again, but like, we were going out, so i was like wtf.

What?! What kind of school do you go too, where calling a girl hot, especially one you are going out with makes you a perv?

But, I also applaud how you did it, that shit sounds funny. If I was the girl, I'd be loving you for your sense of humour.



Here's a story: I use to go to the library a while ago, and I'd always see this girl there, who I'd see around at school. Eventually we started talking, and since you aren't suppose to talk in the study hall, we'd always write each other notes. Then one day I wrote "I've decided I wanted to take you out for some food sometimes. Now I know this might come on as a little strong, so I want you to take your time with your decision! Just make sure you answer you answer sometime between now and next month. You know where to find me, at the same table, in the same chair." And after she finished reading it she looked up at me, and I just gave her the 'nod', and she burst out laughing.

We ended up going out a little while later.
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Old 2007-01-27, 02:12
PossesedSmurf PossesedSmurf is offline
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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I think it was a move worth making.

The girl you were dating was a bit weird wasn't she...

Yes, she was nuts, that's why I took a break from girls after dating her.

And to whoever asked, we both have eachothers numbers, infact we both have eachother speed-dial. We dont talk as much as we did before, but we used to talk for a few hours at a time about twice a week. I could call her, but it's a big decisionn, one she probably hasn't thought about yet really. I'm giving her time to think, hence the note, I didn't want to put her on the spot.
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Old 2007-01-27, 02:58
PossesedSmurf PossesedSmurf is offline
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"Do you have an answer?"

"Yeah, I do"

"And it is..."

"It's a no, because it'd be too wierd"

"Heh, alright"
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Old 2007-01-27, 03:16
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quote:Originally posted by PossesedSmurf:

"Do you have an answer?"

"Yeah, I do"

"And it is..."

"It's a no, because it'd be too wierd"

"Heh, alright"

Add a "Fuck This Shit" and its the story of my life.
 #19 
Old 2007-01-27, 03:28
Cpt.Winters Cpt.Winters is offline
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haha bye bye friendship
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Old 2007-01-27, 03:30
PossesedSmurf PossesedSmurf is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Cpt.Winters:

haha bye bye friendship

*The day before the note*

Her: "The reason i haven't been talking to you much lately is because I'm scared if we become good friends again i'll like you, like before"

This was my attempt to show her that it wasn't bad, and salvage a dwindling friendship. Whether or not i asked her out, we wouldn't be friends in another month or so anyway.
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Old 2007-01-27, 05:26
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quote:Originally posted by LiquidSniper:

the "weirdest" it ever got was her drawing smiley faces on my arm in english class. but no, she wasnt "weird" at all.

*looks at the smiley face on the crook of my elbow from 3rd period English*

Uh oh.

EDIT: I thought this about one of my friends for a while, but I realized she was an attention whore who is a stingy bitch 1/2 the time and a clingy whore the other 1/2.

[This message has been edited by Feds In Town (edited 01-27-2007).]
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Old 2007-01-27, 05:38
Fascismo Fascismo is offline
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Rejected.
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Old 2007-01-27, 06:09
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WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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Ask less and fuck more.
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Old 2007-01-27, 07:28
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quote:Originally posted by PossesedSmurf:

*The day before the note*

Her: "The reason i haven't been talking to you much lately is because I'm scared if we become good friends again i'll like you, like before"

This was my attempt to show her that it wasn't bad, and salvage a dwindling friendship. Whether or not i asked her out, we wouldn't be friends in another month or so anyway.

man your an idiot. She didnt talk to you because there is obviously a little tension if she said she didnt want to get close again. do you not understand the subtlties in life? actually that wasnt subtle at all, she just flat out said, I dont want anything to happen, and then you, Mr.Genius over here "Hey I want something more between us"... wow, your smart.
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Old 2007-01-27, 07:53
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quote:Originally posted by PossesedSmurf:

*The day before the note*

Her: "The reason i haven't been talking to you much lately is because I'm scared if we become good friends again i'll like you, like before"

This was my attempt to show her that it wasn't bad, and salvage a dwindling friendship. Whether or not i asked her out, we wouldn't be friends in another month or so anyway.

Did your brain just process this now?
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Old 2007-01-27, 08:27
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Okay man, sometimes it's best to hold back. This was one of those times. Live, learn, and fap like crazy.
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Old 2007-01-27, 09:30
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Good job man. Hopefully this actually works.
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Old 2007-01-27, 17:56
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Best of luck, I'm looking forward to hearing what the result is.
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Old 2007-01-28, 05:52
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quote:Originally posted by PossesedSmurf:

"Do you have an answer?"

"Yeah, I do"

"And it is..."

"It's a no, because it'd be too wierd"

"Heh, alright"

is this what happened? it's not monday yet.
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Old 2007-01-28, 22:30
PossesedSmurf PossesedSmurf is offline
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quote:Originally posted by whocares123:

is this what happened? it's not monday yet.

That's exactly what happened, she answered early.
 
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