Edit - The questions in the bolded paragraph are the ones I really want answers to.

Why is it that I need to look at harder and harder porn to get off? I mean, it's happened relatively gradually, but it still bothers me.

I've been masterbating since I was like 3, and from 3 - 16 I'd say my average was atleast twice a day sometimes getting up to 10 times a day. I was a horny little fucker, lol. I obviously wasn't looking at porn when I was little, other than the few times I snuck looks at my dad's Playboys, which really turned me on.

So, my masterbation career started without porn. When I got to about 10 or so, I'd stay up late to watch sex shows, and those would really turn me on too.

When I got old enough to be interested in porn on the internet, just pictures would do, and anything close up like penetration shots kind of grossed me out.

But now that I live on my own, I have access to all the porn I could want, and it's gotten to the point where I need it to get off. I mean, I probably could masterbate without it, it's just so much harder to come. I'm getting bored of porn, and I'm not willing to go any harder, so to speak.

Why is porn like this? Why can't it be like food? I like apple pie, and I don't need it to taste better and better ever time I eat it, it always taste good, you know? What's different about porn?

The only possible solution I've been able to come up with is to just take a break from porn and maybe it will seem fresher after a while. But I don't have a huge porn habit to begin with, maybe a few minutes a few times a week and thats it.

Cheers in advance for the replies...

[This message has been edited by Sick_Boy (edited 01-25-2007).]

Yeah, that happened to me, too. Got to the point where only some really sick shit would get me off. Then I got fed up with being disgusted with myself and just tried thinking about how sensuous the female body is.

Porn/masturbation is a hard habit to break(or at least control), especially in today's society.

I remember when before we had the internet that the pictures of girls in lingerie magazines would make me so hard.

I don't think I'm ever going to turn to something like midget scat just because I now look at hardcore. Because I still can cum just by something like this. (http://img404.imageshack.us/my.php?image=care121pg.jpg)

And I'm going to do it now.

[This message has been edited by Forgotten (edited 01-25-2007).]

Finished.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

I remember when before we had the internet that the pictures of girls in lingerie magazines would make me so hard.

I don't think I'm ever going to turn to something like midget scat just because I now look at hardcore. Because I still can cum just by something like this. (http://img404.imageshack.us/my.php?image=care121pg.jpg)

And I'm going to do it now.



For some reason, shit like that just doesn't turn me on. At all.

quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

For some reason, shit like that just doesn't turn me on. At all.

Really? (http://img263.imageshack.us/my.php?image=kari063gg.jpg)

I don't know why porn is like that, but the industry would make far less money if it was any different. My only advice is to explore more things or take a break as you said.

-Dark

Same, I used to masturbate to still images - now still images don't do it, tharr needs to be physical fucking going on in my porn, preferably rough sex..

Maybe I should try taking a break from masturbating, though, that will...be..so..hard.. =/

Just go a week without watching porn. when you get back to it it will be hot again.

i started with my imagination to still pics and then to videos and pics never worked again, but imagination can still do the trick. ive always jerked it to blowjob/cumshot porn only though, no desire for anything harder or different in all the years ive been watching it

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Just go a week without watching porn. when you get back to it it will be hot again.

I often go for a week at a time without looking at porn...

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

Really? (http://img263.imageshack.us/my.php?image=kari063gg.jpg)

She looks 13, and aside from the breasts probably could pass for 13.

[This message has been edited by D Krunk (edited 01-25-2007).]

I used to be able to get hard with the slightest thought of a clothed breast, now I have to be watching hardcore porn with a particular type of camera angle etc.

For fuck sake I can barely get hard while getting head without thinking about porn.

I stil shoot a load offf without porn, im just creative enough to do so.

Why can't all "female problems" be like this?

I never use the pornage? Course, I never done did no such thing TenX a day!?

I gots me my imagination & with aid d'bud have no problemo to do what must be done...

I prefer masturbating without porn. It's much easier and shit with porn, but It's like I focus more on the porn and less on my dick and it isn't as enjoyable. I don't know, I masturbate 4-7 times a week, and only use porn like once a week.

I quit watching porn because of what Sicky said.

I remember being content with lesbian oral when I was like 13 or w/e. Then it got boring, moved to harder stuff, anal/DP/rough, then BDSM and such... after a while, the "unnatural element" inherent in porn sickened me and I wound up enjoying piss/homemade(real amauter) and shit because IT WAS NATURAL & REAL!!!

Then I was like, fuck this shit... I'm changing my thoughts towards sexuality and it's bordering on idiocy. So I quit watching it!

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

I remember when before we had the internet that the pictures of girls in lingerie magazines would make me so hard.

I don't think I'm ever going to turn to something like midget scat just because I now look at hardcore. Because I still can cum just by something like this. (http://img404.imageshack.us/my.php?image=care121pg.jpg)

And I'm going to do it now.



Hey, dont knock midget scat! lol

I know what you mean. Although my watching seems to have plateaued and regressed a bit. A sort of Zen to natural beauty. Hooray for fetishes that women do love. Besides that I doenjoy a bit of natural redheads. Finding large quantities of stuff I havent seen yet (and isnt hairy as a sasquatch...) is rather difficult to find. I suppse Jack would be pleased.

fuck i gotta get out to alberta...

i mean... in response to your question, its kinda like that. there are somethings that i do now when fapping that a year ago i wouldnt have concidered. though really if u wanna cut back, just find something to occupy urself with. i like Doom3. besides, i thought u had a BF... crazy girl.

and doing that sinse you were 10? fuck... i was grossed out by pussy till i was 13 and im a dude. goddam girl...

on another note, wuts so harfull about clickin that mouse? if it feels good do it

You DO realize that the OP is a boy right?

quote:Originally posted by nipple_master:

You DO realize that the OP is a boy right?

haha... try again

quote:Originally posted by nipple_master:

You DO realize that the OP is a boy right?

You haven't been here long.

It's just a tolerance Sicky, give it a break and it'll come back pretty fast.

[This message has been edited by stab (edited 01-25-2007).]

No.

quote:Originally posted by mic-fiend:

and doing that sinse you were 10? fuck... i was grossed out by pussy till i was 13 and im a dude. goddam girl...



3, actually...lol

I used to feel like a sexual deviant, but more than one girl here has mentioned that she's been masterbating since she was a little girl, so I feel better now.

quote:Originally posted by nipple_master:

You DO realize that the OP is a boy right?

backfire pwn

Yeah, you can get burnt out on porn pretty easily, particularly if you visit the same sites all the time. Try buying then eating apple pie from the same place, in the same way 3-4 times a day for a few months and see how you like it then.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

3, actually...lol

I used to feel like a sexual deviant, but more than one girl here has mentioned that she's been masterbating since she was a little girl, so I feel better now.

k, just to clarify... u mean full out twiddling? or just bein aware that playing downstairs can make quite the water show? cause ive had girl freinds (not the dating kind... u know) who told me abot things like that; my best freind got a crayon up hers from her cuz when she was 4 haha

Yeah, like I would make myself orgasm. That's such a creepy thought, a 3 year old kid having an orgasm. Whatever, I didn't know what I was doing, I just knew that it felt good.

Edit - Zonko, you're exactly right. I knew something wasn't quite right with my analogy...

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quote:Originally posted by ethical_digger:

I stil shoot a load offf without porn, im just creative enough to do so.

Same

Imagination is great

Once something becomes overfamiliar, it's hard to find it erotic. That's why many married people find themselves turning to kinkier fetishes...or just having no sex life.

Exotic becomes erotic. Find a new niche.

-deus-

quote:Originally posted by deus-redux:

Once something becomes overfamiliar, it's hard to find it erotic. That's why many married people find themselves turning to kinkier fetishes...or just having no sex life.

Exotic becomes erotic. Find a new niche.

-deus-

He's right.

My solution is to go a really long time without watching porn and masturbating. It works.

That's not a bad idea. I only see my boyfriend on the weekends now, so I think it would make things alot hotter if I deprive myself sexually during the week, lol.

Okay guys, it's been one day and counting of Sicky's no masturbation plan...I don't know if I can last till friday, but I will try.

Good luck babe... Just gotta say, this thread is hot!

I think I have a porn addiction. Imagination and pictures are useless. I NEED videos to jerk off now. Not any video will do though, it has to be something special. So I can spend up to 90 minuets just searching for a video that I deem sexy enough to cum to. Sometimes I'll find a video that looks good, start jerking off, and when I get close to cumming suddenly decide that it's not good enough.

The Internet has warped my mind. When I first got it pictures where all I needed. Then just a shitty little video off Kazzaa could last me weeks. After a while I started downloading a bunch of stuff. Then it had to involve anal sex, and so on.

Now I'm at the point where masturbation is a chore, and it makes my penis ache. Nothing seems to turn me on any more.

Gostse is often a turning point.

I thought Sick Boy was a girl?

quote:Originally posted by ZeroMalarki:

I thought Sick Boy was a girl?

I am.

^ Don't you ever sleep?

You just made me appreciate the fact that I don't watch porn all the more.

WHat about some new sex toys??? and look at different porn not just what you would normaly watch different stuff

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

I am.

What makes you so sure?

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

I remember when before we had the internet that the pictures of girls in lingerie magazines would make me so hard.

I remember those days...

Dopamine.

The nuerotransmitter in your brain responsible for reward, pleasure, lust, floods the synapses at the time of orgasm. Once in the synapses it binds to dopamine receptors to become active and give your central nervous system all of those ecstatic little jolts of "hazzah!" The problem with this, as opposed to eating food which is used up by the body in different ways with a few minor exceptions (think chocolate, and how much better candy tasted as a child), is that a tolerance will develop and develop quickly.

Within the spectrum of human emotion desire is a beast that cannot be fed, and this is the neurological reasoning behind it.

In application to your day-to-day life outside of chemicals in your brain the advice given is pretty apt: slow down, or stop entirely. Dopamine is the same neurotransmitter involved in the effects of Cocaine, and we're all familiar with how one line will eventually not be enough, and then a gram won't be enough, then an eight ball won't be enough, then you have to smoke crack, etc. etc. etc. It's the same basic principle, based on the same basic trigger; they're just triggered by different things.

So, explain to me traffic why some people seem to have a tendancy not to spin out of control and other people do? Is it a difference in the release of chemicals...as in quantity? Or might it be something else?

I think it's a much more complex question than can be answered within the confines of this forum. I was definitely over-simplifying, and not trying to imply that dopamine was the sole cause of excessive masturbation; but, rather, that the reason masturbation has needed help being hot as time goes on is a direct result of the tolerance.

Why do some people develop coke problems and others don't? Why can some drink responsibly while others take it upon themselves to try to destroy their livers in the most extravagant display of embarassment possible?

The biological background I offered most definitely only tells a part of the story, but I think it's an important part, and one of the only ones that I can offer with the limited knowledge of the poster's personal life as these neurotransmitters apply universally. Why is the poster getting off manually 10 times a day while others can't bring themselves to touch themselves? Perhaps, like an alcoholic, she inherited this tendency from her family. Perhaps, though not as freaky, her parents weren't strict uptight christians and she accidentally walked in on her mom having a good ol' time with a vibrator and noticed that she was the happiest she's ever looked. Maybe she had a really plush toy to cuddle with whilst going through a nudity phase in infancy which really made an impact.

These are just speculations, but as far as tendencies go they are governed, albeit loosely, by these chemicals within our central nervous system; they provide the reward/punishment system to motivate us and keep us in check. After that all of the catalysts can be wildly different.

quote:Originally posted by I_Like_Traffic_Lights:

that the reason masturbation has needed help being hot as time goes on is a direct result of the tolerance.



That makes me wonder...say a young child discovers it feels good and does it just because of that. When does the need for something more present itself?

You see...I was so old when I began masturbating...that I cannot understand how it goes from stictly a sensory experience to one that needs outside imagery. It puzzles me...I guess...because I can go either way with it...but am not particularly drawn to pornography...but...like some...remembered experiences possibly....but mostly....I am drawn into the sensory and exploration of my own body....for the most part.

But then...I was often a bit "scientific" with things. (Still mulling this one over.)

It's kind of hard to explain.



[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 01-25-2007).]

http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum17/HTML/012573.html

I posted a thread about this a few months ago.

Porn is... boring. I can honestly say that I don't watch porn. It's not like I'm fucking morally against it or anything, I just don't find it sexually that exciting.

Oh wow, two people fornicating. Yup, that's what a vagina looks like all right.

http://picasaweb.google.com/cpl.kai/SG/

For that matter, though, I do enjoy checking out the SG photoshoots, but when I look at it, I don't mentally view it as watching porn, because of the mindset of it of wanting to get off. I explained this in the thread a few months ago. Maybe some of you horny teenagers will appreciate the shots though.

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

^ Don't you ever sleep?

I can't fucking fall asleep these days. It's gay, I'm soooo tired all day but then at night I can't fall asleep. I didn't go to bed until 8 this morning.

I_Like_Traffic_Lights, thanks for your explaination.

I rarely watch porn. I'd much rather use my imagination.

quote:Originally posted by nipple_master:

You DO realize that the OP is a boy right?

LOLZ N00b

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I rarely watch porn. I'd much rather use my imagination.

Keep fighting the good fight.

quote:Originally posted by Kai:

Keep fighting the good fight.



Don't you mean keep rubbing the good rub?

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



Don't you mean keep rubbing the good rub?

There are no "good" or "bad" rubs. Just rubs... ^)^

I can relate to your problem. But I go through stages of wanting to look at porn. I can go for months on end with not looking, and then sometimes it'll be most days and yeah, it gets boring really fast. Pics don't do it for me anymore either.

Ugh, I couldn't even make it like 2 days without masturbating. I didn't mean to though. I was just looking at www.omgfreetv.com (http://www.omgfreetv.com) and was surprised to see that there were adult channels, so I wanted to check them out to see if they were any good...One thing lead to another...lol

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Ugh, I couldn't even make it like 2 days without masturbating. I didn't mean to though. I was just looking at www.omgfreetv.com (http://www.omgfreetv.com) and was surprised to see that there were adult channels, so I wanted to check them out to see if they were any good...One thing lead to another...lol

You are addicted to porn & masturbation. What a woman...

You are an example for all of Womankind.

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

You are addicted to porn & masturbation. What a woman...

You are an example for all of Womankind.

And you're an example of horny teenage virgins everywhere.

quote:Originally posted by Kai:

And you're an example of horny teenage virgins everywhere.

And you are an example of a pretentious idiot on Totse who doesn't catch onto sarcasm.

Thanks for playing, asshole.

Sick-boy you move into the number 2 spot of awesome chicks, second only to Lost Cause.

quote:Originally posted by Black Flag:

Sick-boy you move into the number 2 spot of awesome chicks, second only to Lost Cause.

I've never been promoted before!



lol

I'm having a problem kinda similar. Before it would take no more than 10 mins to get off, now it takes like an hour.

Out of no where. One day 10 mins, the next an hour and it's been the same.

And my clit hurts when it takes so long but I feel like it could happen anytime but like 30 mins later...

Sigh it's making me really moody.

I'm going on 4 days with no masturbation

It makes it really easy to not masturbate if you have absolutely no opportunities.

Damn it sucks having a roommate with no concrete schedule. I haven't seen any porn for three weeks. And jacking off in the shower absolutely sucks.

The bottom line is that most porn is shallow and expresses nothing but the physical act of sex. Which is why it gets boring so quickly. It isn't as boring when there's an effort to depict anything a little more complicated.

quote:Originally posted by D Krunk:

She looks 13, and aside from the breasts probably could pass for 13.



No she doesn't look 13, and no her tits don't look 13, and if you don't have the imagination to jackoff and cum to that picture you are a bitch.

As to the original OP, you are a fucking moron. Stupid beyond literate articulation. Masturbating since you were 3? God...when are you going to kill yourself?

Are you actually going to make me find a way to get you to stop posting this utter bullshit?

quote:Originally posted by Kai:

And you're an example of horny teenage virgins everywhere.

And this guy should be the spokesman for not feeling guilty for putting objects up your ass.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

As to the original OP, you are a fucking moron. Stupid beyond literate articulation. Masturbating since you were 3? God...when are you going to kill yourself?



CarbonB, why in the hell would I make that up? Just because it's not normal, doesn't mean it's not possible. I struggled for years, thinking I was a sexual deviant because of this fact, and while I now know that's not the case, it was a serious issue for me growing up. It's not something I'm proud of, but it's definitely not something I'm ashamed of anymore.

Edit -

"According to Alfred Kinsey's research in the 1950s, children are capable of experiencing orgasm from the age of five months. Kinsey observed that among three-year-olds, girls more often masturbated than boys."

Taken from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_sexuality#Masturbation_and_orgasm

So, are you going to call Alfred Kinsey "stupid beyond beyong literate articulation" too? You're the stupid one in this thread, my friend.

[This message has been edited by Sick_Boy (edited 01-26-2007).]

You think because a 3 year old touches their dick or pussy they are aware of what we are aware?

Do you think when you were 3 and you played with your pussy that you were trying to be sexual? From that I could take it to the extent that 3 year old's tease paedophiles by touching their pussies. Therefore it is okay for sickos to molest young girls, because they bring it onto themselves.

Are you so naive and ignorant to try and say that what you were doing at 3 was masturbation? Seeking sexual pleasure? Lol...

I need no examples of how much of a fucking dipshit you are, there has been plenty of posts on here of your complete lack of sense.

Kinsey is a fucking douche. Observing children touching themselves? Does that sound like science to you? Sounds like an upcoming cover story.

One of the things I like about being a dude is that the longer you go without fapping, the less it takes to get you hard. So if you've been wanking on a regular basis and have gotten to the point that bukakkis and gangbangs are the only things that get you hard, all you've got to do is stop fapping. In 5-10 days, you'll be popping wood for no reason at all.

You're fucking ridiculous.

Masturbation: 1. the stimulation or manipulation of one's own genitals, esp. to orgasm; sexual self-gratification.

When I was 3, I would stimulate myself in order to achieve orgasm. Which is the exact fucking definition of masturbation. Just because I wasn't aware that it was a sexual act, does not change the fact that I was masturbating.

And even if you protest to Kinsey's methods of study, that doesn't change the fact that children can and do masturbate.

^Tell that to gadzooks.

What?

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Masturbation: 1. the stimulation or manipulation of one's own genitals, esp. to orgasm; sexual self-gratification.



I will put it in bold since once again, you are a fucking moron. You gave a definition, and then say just because you weren't doing it for sexual reasons it is still masturbation?

Seems like the definition seems to include that by masturbating you are trying to achieve gratification through sexual means. Children do not understand the concept of sex. Which is why sleeping with children is illegal.

The comment about gadzooks was to Elephantitis. Now can you care to leave your bullshit that you think makes you unique out of your idiotic questions?

Oh my god, I can't believe you're trying to argue with scientific fact. You don't have to be aware that you're doing something to be able to do it. Of course a 3 year old has no concept of what sexuality is. I didn't know that what I was doing was sexual, but that doesn't change the fact that it was, in fact, sexual. An orgasm is an orgasm, which is inherently sexual whether the child is aware or not.

I will say this again, children can and do masturbate. I do the exact same thing to orgasm as I did when I was three, and if it's called masturbation now, then it is not wrong to say I was masturbating when I was three.

[This message has been edited by Sick_Boy (edited 01-27-2007).]

Yes it is. You are trying to say that a 3 year old touching their pussy is sexual. The reason it isn't sexual is because the child doesn't know what sexual mean, and doesn't have any awareness to what they are doing.

Is eating a piece of fruit sexual? No, it isn't. However can it become sexual? Yes it can. Being aware of the fact of your sexuality is what allows you to make something sexual. Just because you orgasm, that does not necessarily mean you are being sexual.

Masturbation, sexual self-gratification. That does not pass through a 3 year old's mind as they play with this tingly thing inbetween their legs.

Do you understand why what you are saying is different then what I am saying? At 3 years old you weren't masturbating, you were touching your pussy. On top of that, how the fuck do you even remember that?

Want some scientific proof about the ability to remember occurances in childhood? Masturbating between the ages of 3 and 16? Give me a fucking break. You are a moron. That is stamped with a fucking period bitch. Just shut the fuck up with your dumbass fucking questions.

Three year olds can use grammar, and yet they have no idea what the concept means.

It is an accepted scientific fact that children masturbate, and it's your own problem if you don't believe this.

I'm not wasting anymore time on you.

Edit - I can't believe I didn't think of this, but when I was little I used to masturbate to my dad's Playboys, which proves that it was sexual, even if I didn't know what the word meant.

[This message has been edited by Sick_Boy (edited 01-27-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

Yeah, that happened to me, too. Got to the point where only some really sick shit would get me off. Then I got fed up with being disgusted with myself and just tried thinking about how sensuous the female body is.

Porn/masturbation is a hard habit to break(or at least control), especially in today's society.

Same here, but I also cut back on it too and that helped.

Lets clear this up once and for all... children do indeed masturbate.

http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/pa/pa_bmasturb_hhg.htm

Btw, Sick_boy, since you are on practically 24/7, do you wanna talk over AIM or MSN? Im sick of doing homework.

[This message has been edited by fullthrottle (edited 01-27-2007).]

Over years I have gone from old WWII pin-ups to hardcore porn. Though I think my age has something to do with it, sex causes a chemical to be released in ones mind. The more it is produced the more the mind builds a resistance. However, unlike certain drugs, sex is a very natural thing and the chemical exhaustion is reduced through natural sex drive and the chemicals associated with that.

I'd recommend having sexual contact with another human.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Three year olds can use grammar, and yet they have no idea what the concept means.

It is an accepted scientific fact that children masturbate, and it's your own problem if you don't believe this.

I'm not wasting anymore time on you.

Edit - I can't believe I didn't think of this, but when I was little I used to masturbate to my dad's Playboys, which proves that it was sexual, even if I didn't know what the word meant.



You are the one that is making it to be sexual. Touching yourself is only sexual because people define it as such. Things are only taboo because people define them as such. Saying that a child uses grammar (Which a 3 year old fucking doesn't use grammar) and doesn't know the concept isn't the same thing. I can say a child knows how to crawl, but doesn't understand the physical needs to be able to crawl.

You are making it out to be as if you were sexual at 3 years old. This is complete bullshit. You touching your pussy at 3 does not make you a sexual person. You claiming to masturbate to fucking playboy's at 3 does not make you sexual.

I now know why you are a fucking idiot. What father leaves a playboy out for a fucking dipshit like yourself to look at? Then to come on here and make it seem like at 3 year's old you were masturbating to be sexual.

Lol, what a fucking dumbass. Done with me? Society will be done with you soon enough. The minute you stop sucking dick is the minute your ass gets thrown to the curb. Since the only thing you seem to be good at since age 3 was being "sexual".

CarbonB, keep typing, someday you'll post something intelligent.

Why do you believe that an adjective's applicability is relative to whether the subject understands it or not?

You are misinformed. Read the thread, learn what we are talking about, and then comment.

The applicability of an adjective? Who are you trying to impress? Don't get caught up with the mouth full you are trying to put out there.

Never did I question whether or not you can describe a 3 year old touching themselves as masturbation. However when you trying to bring in the side of sexual relation to it, you sound like a retard.

A 3 year old being sexual? A 3 year old looking at playboy's to get off?

Why don't you tell me when you first thought about getting off to a picture of a naked woman? Was it at 3? When was the first time you were sexually enlightened? Was it at 3? Can a 3 year old understand these concepts?

That is what I am getting at. From 3 - 16 you've been masturbating? Why stop at 16? I touched my dick when I was in my mother's woom, I've been masturbating my entire exsistence. That must make me the most sexual person alive.............

carbon, remove shaft from anus, then post.

if you stimulate your own genitals, it's masturbation

crazy shit happens, dont be an ass to the people it happens to, and dont give em such a hard time about the credibility of their story. we're on the internet, so there's no way she's gonna convince you of it, and you shouldn't demand that she does

you've stated that you think her story is BS, repeatedly

we get the point

now, if you wanna bitch about the semantics of the action make ur own thread

but on the topic of porn, yeah it desensitizes you pretty damn fast. When I first started I got off on just erotic fiction. Eventually though I got into hardcore porn anal stimulation and it got to the point where i couldnt get off without both, so i quit jacking off at all for a few months. when i got back into it i was a fucking minute man, it was sad, but i got back to healthy medium in a short time.

I don't go entirely without porn, but I don't do it nearly as much as I used to, shrug, it works for me just fine.

[This message has been edited by Sanguinius (edited 01-28-2007).]

You're at U of A right? You should go check out that Porn Nation thing in ETLC, if it hasn't happened already. Apparently it's about porn addiction.

try sex. lots ad lots of sex to replace masturbation.



i can still get off with imagination. someone hot stripping down and fucking. but video is still king. pictures are not working near as well as hey used to.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:



The only possible solution I've been able to come up with is to just take a break from porn and maybe it will seem fresher after a while. But I don't have a huge porn habit to begin with, maybe a few minutes a few times a week and thats it.

.



That works, I just went a couple of months with out a PC, and all though I had stick mags and hired out a couple of DVD's during that time, when I got back to something new on the internet it was like it was my first time ever having a wank.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

CarbonB, why in the hell would I make that up? Just because it's not normal, doesn't mean it's not possible. I struggled for years, thinking I was a sexual deviant because of this fact, and while I now know that's not the case, it was a serious issue for me growing up. It's not something I'm proud of, but it's definitely not something I'm ashamed of anymore.

Edit -

"According to Alfred Kinsey's research in the 1950s, children are capable of experiencing orgasm from the age of five months. Kinsey observed that among three-year-olds, girls more often masturbated than boys."

Taken from: http:/ /en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_sexuality#Masturbation_and_orgasm (http: //en.wikip edia.org/w iki/Child_ sexuality# Masturbati on_and_org asm)

So, are you going to call Alfred Kinsey "stupid beyond beyong literate articulation" too? You're the stupid one in this thread, my friend.



Alfred Kinsey was a sick man who was in to self mutilation while masturbating, and his studies on children, even infants, involved sexually arousing them to the point that they would become upset...body shaking, crying, etc.

Yes, I said infants. I wouldn't be taking Alfred Kinsey too seriously, if I was you. He was nothing more than a pedophile with a degree.

P.S. I'm not saying it's not possible for you to have had orgasm's at a young age, I'm just saying that Kinsey is not exactly a reliable source for that kind of information.

It's just a wikipedia article, but...

quote:Kinsey's most prominent current detractor is Judith A. Reisman. Reisman alleges that Kinsey and his staff sexually abused children to produce some of the data in the Kinsey Reports. Kinsey Institute director John Bancroft claims that the subject of child/adult sexual interaction was deliberately chosen by Kinsey's opponents to discredit him because of the emotions surrounding it: "In recent years, when there has been anxiety bordering on hysteria about child sexual abuse, often resulting in circumstances where the accused is regarded as guilty until proved innocent, what better way to discredit someone?" The Kinsey Institute maintains that Kinsey never had any sexual interaction with children, nor did he employ others to do so, and that he always interviewed children in the presence of their parents.

This thread owns face. Your people killed Jesus.

quote:Originally posted by Sanguinius:

carbon, remove shaft from anus, then post.

if you stimulate your own genitals, it's masturbation

crazy shit happens, dont be an ass to the people it happens to, and dont give em such a hard time about the credibility of their story. we're on the internet, so there's no way she's gonna convince you of it, and you shouldn't demand that she does

you've stated that you think her story is BS, repeatedly

we get the point

now, if you wanna bitch about the semantics of the action make ur own thread

but on the topic of porn, yeah it desensitizes you pretty damn fast. When I first started I got off on just erotic fiction. Eventually though I got into hardcore porn anal stimulation and it got to the point where i couldnt get off without both, so i quit jacking off at all for a few months. when i got back into it i was a fucking minute man, it was sad, but i got back to healthy medium in a short time.

I don't go entirely without porn, but I don't do it nearly as much as I used to, shrug, it works for me just fine.



You edited this post and it still reads like a fucking retard wrote it. Me remove a dick from my anus? I wonder what you would have to remove from your ass to write a decent post.

Don't tell me what the fuck to do, or what the fuck to say bitch. You are a faggot, write like an uneducated bitch, and have no fucking idea why I do what I do. So sit down you cunt.

As people pointed out, Kinsey is not a reliable source to base your findings of you masturbating at 3. Also, I just used masturbation to describe it, however associating what a child does as sexual is wrong on so many levels.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Edit - The questions in the bolded paragraph are the ones I really want answers to.

Why is it that I need to look at harder and harder porn to get off? I mean, it's happened relatively gradually, but it still bothers me.

I've been masterbating since I was like 3, and from 3 - 16 I'd say my average was atleast twice a day sometimes getting up to 10 times a day. I was a horny little fucker, lol. I obviously wasn't looking at porn when I was little, other than the few times I snuck looks at my dad's Playboys, which really turned me on.

So, my masterbation career started without porn. When I got to about 10 or so, I'd stay up late to watch sex shows, and those would really turn me on too.

When I got old enough to be interested in porn on the internet, just pictures would do, and anything close up like penetration shots kind of grossed me out.

But now that I live on my own, I have access to all the porn I could want, and it's gotten to the point where I need it to get off. I mean, I probably could masterbate without it, it's just so much harder to come. I'm getting bored of porn, and I'm not willing to go any harder, so to speak.

Why is porn like this? Why can't it be like food? I like apple pie, and I don't need it to taste better and better ever time I eat it, it always taste good, you know? What's different about porn?

The only possible solution I've been able to come up with is to just take a break from porn and maybe it will seem fresher after a while. But I don't have a huge porn habit to begin with, maybe a few minutes a few times a week and thats it.

Cheers in advance for the replies...



I think this is the same as drugs. With some people, just smoking pot is enough, but to others they need stronger and stronger substances to satisfy them.

You get immune or bored of things after a while.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

No she doesn't look 13, and no her tits don't look 13, and if you don't have the imagination to jackoff and cum to that picture you are a bitch.

As to the original OP, you are a fucking moron. Stupid beyond literate articulation. Masturbating since you were 3? God...when are you going to kill yourself?

Are you actually going to make me find a way to get you to stop posting this utter bullshit?

It's not bullshit. Young children and even toddlers masturbate without even realizing it is sexual. It feels good, so they do it. Just like rubbing behind the ears, or running your fingers over your arms for several minutes.

I've been masturbating at about the same age as her, and the thoughts that ran through my head at first weren't sexual, but were of beautiful things like rainbow colored sunsets and flying.

Of course, once I discovered a motorcycle magazine with naked women it wasn't enough. I had to draw my own porn if I couldn't find any.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

No she doesn't look 13, and no her tits don't look 13

Did I say they did? Or did you miss the part where I said that her tits give away that she isn't 13? Did you skip that part as soon as you saw in my first three words an opportunity to be a prick? Maybe you read "She looks 13 . . . the breasts probably could pass for 13." Selective attention?

Thanks for backing me up guys.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:



Never did I question whether or not you can describe a 3 year old touching themselves as masturbation.

Then why did you come into my thread calling me "stupid beyond literate articulation" just for saying that I masturbated from age three, before anything about the sexuality of it had been mentioned?

Just a little hint for the future: If you want there to be any chance of people taking you seriously, stop with the flinging of petty insults.

I've tried to give you a chance, but I'm done with that now. So if you think I'm so stupid, then why don't you just never click on one of my threads again, and both our problems will be solved.

quote:Originally posted by D Krunk:

Originally posted by CarbonB:

No she doesn't look 13, and no her tits don't look 13

Did I say they did? Or did you miss the part where I said that her tits give away that she isn't 13? Did you skip that part as soon as you saw in my first three words an opportunity to be a prick? Maybe you read "She looks 13 . . . the breasts probably could pass for 13." Selective attention?

What the fuck are you talking about? You said she looked 13, I expanded on why you are a fucking moron for even saying she looks 13. You're a dumbass, shut the fuck up and don't address me in public you cunt.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Thanks for backing me up guys.

Then why did you come into my thread calling me "stupid beyond literate articulation" just for saying that I masturbated from age three, before anything about the sexuality of it had been mentioned?

Just a little hint for the future: If you want there to be any chance of people taking you seriously, stop with the flinging of petty insults.

I've tried to give you a chance, but I'm done with that now. So if you think I'm so stupid, then why don't you just never click on one of my threads again, and both our problems will be solved.

Ignoring an idiot is an atrocity. Do you see what is happening with the United States? Jam packed full of fucking idiots like yourself, and fixing it is the best solution. Or driving you all to kill yourselves is my solution.

Why did I question you when you said you masturbated from age 3 - 16? Probably because there is no fucking way at 3 you would remember touching yourself. Of all memories in your entire life at age's 3 - 16 masturbation is what you remember. Then trying to make it seem as if it was for sexual reasons. As if you can label anything a 3 year old does as sexual.

Even worse you quote Kinsey. People already addressed why you shouldn't, and you still don't believe them. You just lack sense. I can't help it, you can't help it. Hopefully you'll die before 30 and we can all be happy.

Just because you don't remember your childhood, doesn't mean that others don't. I remember very cleary that I used to masturbate all the time, I wouldn't just make that up and claim to remember it. I can remember alot of things from when I was 3+, it's not like I only remember the masturbation.

Whether is was sexual or not, that is a matter of opinion, and it is my opinion that it was. I used to get excited if I saw people kissing on TV or movies, and would masturbate to the thought later, or as I mentioned before, to a Playboy. What about when I was 6, and my parents gave me a picture book about sex and explained it to me? Am I allowed to say that it was sexual after that point?

And this is the first I've heard about Kinsey's indiscrections, and I never said I didn't believe anybody. The point I was trying to get across was that children do masturbate, and I'm sorry if I chose a bad person to quote unknowingly.

Jesus.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

What the fuck are you talking about? You said she looked 13, I expanded on why you are a fucking moron for even saying she looks 13. You're a dumbass, shut the fuck up and don't address me in public you cunt.

You said "and no her tits don't look 13," presumably based on a misconception that I had, in fact, said her tits looked 13. I bolded that part of the quote to emphasize that you must have misread. Why else would you have said "and no, her tits don't look 13" unless you thought (wished?) I had asserted that they did? I said the exact opposite! So why say it? What was the point? I agreed that her tits did not look like those of a 13 year old. You "expand[ing] on why [I'm] a fucking moron for even saying she looks 13" doesn't seem valid, because it was clear that I agreed that her tits don't look 13. How does your claim that "no, they don't" expand on why I'm a fucking moron?

All those ad hominem attacks sure aren't helping anything - you still jumped to unprovoked personal insults based on your willful misreading of my post.

[This message has been edited by D Krunk (edited 01-29-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

And this guy should be the spokesman for not feeling guilty for putting objects up your ass.

LOL.

CarbonB is THE KING of flamers

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Ignoring an idiot is an atrocity. Do you see what is happening with the United States? Jam packed full of fucking idiots like yourself, and fixing it is the best solution. Or driving you all to kill yourselves is my solution.

shes a fucking canadian

Who needs porn when you have a GF.

I like homemade pie hommade chicken home........POrn

Stops me from think about the reality I'm living just for one cum shot.



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