So anyway there's this girl who won't leave me alone. She calls me every few days, and is apparantly oblivious/in denial to the fact that I'm not interested in her (at all). I don't want to hurt her feelings too badly, considering I work w/ her. Apparantly ignoring phone calls doesn't work, so what do most of you do in these situations?

honestly

look her in the eyes

tell her that you dont like her

shes a nice gurl but you dont like her

and that you dont want to do anything with her

FUCK THIS SHIT JUST SAY FUCK OFF U CRAZY BITCH

Start talking about how great your girlfriend is.Subtle like.

For all you know, this girls just likes you as a person and wants to be your friend!

So, if you said to her "I'm not interested in you like that" and she turned round and said "wtf are you talking about, I wanna be your friend!" you'd look like a bit of an idiot.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

So, if you said to her "I'm not interested in you like that" and she turned round and said "wtf are you talking about, I wanna be your friend!" you'd look like a bit of an idiot.

Yeah, but there's a good chance she's going to say this anyway to keep some dignity. I've had them do that to me before.

Be a good friend to her by being sincere on what you feel about her.

Tell her that there's a lot of things that you still need to do and a relationship will not in any way make it better.

If she just wants to be your friend, then be nice to her and accept her invitation. You and her might have the same interests, hobbies etc. that both of you will enjoy.

Damn man, the exact same thing happened to me, just talk to her and try to be friendly, but always give signs that you don't like her like that. My chick was so crazy and in denial that she actually ended up asking me out and when I said no she was like 'What? you seem like you liked me so much', obviously I was like 'WTF, no?' and now I act like nothing ever happened .

(by the way, like you I would never answer phone calls, msn messages, nothing... crazy bitches)

quote:Originally posted by The_Seventh_Artist:

Be a good friend to her by being sincere on what you feel about her.

Tell her that there's a lot of things that you still need to do and a relationship will not in any way make it better.

If she just wants to be your friend, then be nice to her and accept her invitation. You and her might have the same interests, hobbies etc. that both of you will enjoy.

Yeah, but I think this is one of those situations where she STILL wouldn't listen and she would keep calling. I mean, I don't even like her as a friend too much. She's kind of annoying. I have tried to act (sort of) like a dick, but that's not cool since I really am not but just change other people's perception of me. I'll probably just continue doing what I'm doing but thanks for the suggestions...