For me it would be drunk...

So uh... Just lost your cherry to that gay fellow down the way, eh?

Oh, right, I've had more sex with sober. Both parties, that is.

Sober. I haven't had much though, spread over 3 or 4 girls maybe 15-20 times.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

So uh... Just lost your cherry to that gay fellow down the way, eh?

Oh, right, I've had more sex with sober. Both parties, that is.



REAL COOL GUS... lol. This name was intended to be "bengay" (even though there is a drung "beengay"). I made a silly typo a few years back, and then made a different account... BUT THAT ONE WAS BANNED (because I voiced my opinion about animal abuse and people didn't like it). But asside from that. YEAH.

Sober for sure. Although my boyfriend and I are usually high when we have sex. After we're done we take naked bong tokes.

sober, when im drunk i cant be bothered

quote:Originally posted by Beengay:



REAL COOL GUS[...]

I know, wasn't it?

overall, mostly sober, lately drunk.

i miss being in a relationship and having passionate sex though, i'd take that anyday over the shit i've been getting lately.

sober, or high.

Drunk.

Never went to bed with an ugly girl...Woke up with a few though.

Sober. I've never had sex drunk.

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

Drunk.

Never went to bed with an ugly girl...Woke up with a few though.

a-HA!

Always sober.

Sober.

I drink in moderation only.

Moderation is an imaginary place that exists wherever i go.

I have never had sex drunk...maybe a bit tipsy, but not drunk. The problem is that when I drink, it's harder to orgasm, (or I can't orgasm at all) and that seems to upset men who don't understand why.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I have never had sex drunk...maybe a bit tipsy, but not drunk. The problem is that when I drink, it's harder to orgasm, (or I can't orgasm at all) and that seems to upset men who don't understand why.

I cant even get it up if I've had a lot to drink....

my sexlife know's phases. First part obviously most drunk. After that a few years more sober. Past year, mostly stoned

I've had sex mildly drunk once on my birthday.

Other than that I've always been sober; whenever me and my girlfriend go out she's usually just changed medication and been told not to drink by her doctor.

I lost my virginity when drunk. Then I had pretty much only drunk sex for about two years (I have problems with keeping a girlfriend so I just tended to walk away and pull some drunk girl at a party). Then somehow I had sex sober and it was like *thrust thrust come* and it was rubbish (I thought I was a bit of a stallion but it turns out that it was purely alcohol giving me my 30 minute endurance). So since then I've been using the stop-start technique to lengthen my sober sex sessions. I also have a bottle of vodka in my room that I chug when the girl has gone to the loo or something, they never notice because we've inevitably been drinking anyway... plus I have a hipflask if I'm going over a girl's block... is that bad? It's university, it's expected of me to have drunk sex, right?

quote:Originally posted by frinkmakesyouthink:

I lost my virginity when drunk. Then I had pretty much only drunk sex for about two years (I have problems with keeping a girlfriend so I just tended to walk away and pull some drunk girl at a party). Then somehow I had sex sober and it was like *thrust thrust come* and it was rubbish (I thought I was a bit of a stallion but it turns out that it was purely alcohol giving me my 30 minute endurance). So since then I've been using the stop-start technique to lengthen my sober sex sessions. I also have a bottle of vodka in my room that I chug when the girl has gone to the loo or something, they never notice because we've inevitably been drinking anyway... plus I have a hipflask if I'm going over a girl's block... is that bad? It's university, it's expected of me to have drunk sex, right?



basically the same for me. except i dont carry a flask. lol. but i have alot more high sex then drunk or sober. but drunk sex is definately where its at

Oh my, that's sad.

Do you have problems having sex if you're not fucked up? If you do, you should stop what you're doing. That's a bad habit to get into and could possibly bring up issues in the future regarding serious intimacy.

What I'm trying to say is, every sexual encounter you have in important. Maybe not directly emotional, but it does condition you to frame sex in a certain way. The atmosphere, your state of mind, the girl. All these things are building up your reality of sex so don't fuck it up.

If you're self-conscious, get over it! Don't keep using alcohol as your safety net. There's a saying that no place worth going has a short cut. When you cut corners, you cheat yourself.

I'm not saying that drunk sex is bad. On the contrary I've had some hott sex wasted, but to be your primary state of mind during sex is not right and you need to self-reflect a bit.

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

Drunk.

Never went to bed with an ugly girl...Woke up with a few though.

Unless you're this guy.. normal mental standards do not apply to psycho..

drunk, by far.

If you were to throw pages of a calander at me, the answers would be different depending on the months and years.

Most of, no... damn near all of the casual sex I have had has been while drunk. With me, it can be iffy. Ive seen times Ive drank a poisonous amount of vodka and had awesome sex, and Ive seen times Ive drank 4 pints and barely been able to get hard, never mind keep an erection for long enough to actually consider the whole thing sex.

When in a relationship, the majority of sex is sober (or stoned) and I guess the fact that there is a relationship involved is why I generally associate sober sex as being fucking awesome and drunk sex being... pfft.

quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

Unless you're this guy.. normal mental standards do not apply to psycho..

Especially when you're still drunk when you wake up and decide another round is in order before you sober up..Then it hurts even more.

Sober, by far. Drunk sex=rough and pleasureless.

quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

issues in the future regarding serious intimacy.

you do realise, quite some of us have those anyways

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quote:Originally posted by dark-easterbunny:

you do realise, quite some of us have those anyways



That's a given.

I've tried since the age of 16 (four years ago) when I lost my virginity to escape from the reality of sex. I don't look at the girl in the morning when I politely suggest that I have things to do (ie fuck off) and tend to hide my face under my arm, pretending to be afraid of the bright light. It stems from having a mad infatuation with the girl I lost my virginity to and her just telling me that it was only sex and nothing else. I saw her that night, spoke to her in the morning, and then she said that she had things to do - I went home and never saw her again, but every time I have sex I remember her. And then sometimes she pops up in my dreams but I never really remember them well enough to know what happens. It was four years ago and I still dream about it, so I guess it affected me pretty significantly.