What is the best condom for my first time (her second time, but that was over a year ago)?

and Lube or Non-lube? I mean, she usually gets pretty wet even when I finger her so...

One that fits. And sure, why not lube.

Well, i wouldn't know, since i didn't used a condom on my first time...Then again, we were both virgins.

I personally think that condoms kind of vulgarize sex, you know. They kind of take away some of the closeness and trust that sex is supposed to represent.

I'm not saying that you shouldn't use one though.

quote:Originally posted by The True Zorak:



I personally think that condoms kind of vulgarize sex, you know.

I agree, if you're making love to a girl you care about in a monogamous relationship. But if it's vulgar sex you're having, you best have a vulgar condom on.

quote:Originally posted by The Rabbi:

I agree, if you're making love to a girl you care about in a monogamous relationship. But if it's vulgar sex you're having, you best have a vulgar condom on.

Indeed.

Yeah, that's all fine and dandy you too, except I doubt he wants to knock his girl up.

The best condoms are found through testing. Buy a few different types, and spend a weekend figuring out which one feels the best. Make sure to buy more than one of each type so you can make sure that it feels as good the second, third, and fourth time.

Don't use one with Nonoxyl-9 spermicide on it. It's abrasive, causes UTIs, and causes an unpleasant numbing sensation.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Yeah, that's all fine and dandy you too, except I doubt he wants to knock his girl up.

That's what birth control pills are for.

Although I must confess, I never produce precum and can last just about as long as I want to, so I'm not the best example to follow when it comes to safe sex. Quick shooters would definitely want the protection.

Jack always recommends Avanti, as it's apparently like using nothing, but they're expensive.

I'd say get $30 together, and try different kinds. You're just gonna spend the $30 eventually on them, get them all now and find the ones you like.

Two important aspects - all condoms should be lubricated, and go from thicker condoms to thin ones. You may find out that thick ones make you go limp, or superthins split, etc.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

That's what birth control pills are for.

Although I must confess, I never produce precum and can last just about as long as I want to, so I'm not the best example to follow when it comes to safe sex. Quick shooters would definitely want the protection.

Because I'm certain you understand that precum doesn't need to come out of the hole for it to work and lasting as long as you want has nothing to do with the wonderful feeling of blowing your balls in a girl.

But then again, you seem like the kinda guy that would just leave it up to some stupid bitch to do the birth control part of a relationship. Considering how untrustworthy most women are, I wouldn't leave it up to them to remember anything any less important than that.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Because I'm certain you understand that precum doesn't need to come out of the hole for it to work and lasting as long as you want has nothing to do with the wonderful feeling of blowing your balls in a girl.

Ah, but it does. Because I personally am in control of that wonderful feeling and don't do it without a rubber on.

Call me ignorant, but I fail to see how precum is going to impregnate a bitch if it never even reaches the tip of the urethra. I'm seriously bone dry until I cum.

quote:But then again, you seem like the kinda guy that would just leave it up to some stupid bitch to do the birth control part of a relationship. Considering how untrustworthy most women are, I wouldn't leave it up to them to remember anything any less important than that.

True, if you're fucking around with shady bitches(and they're all shady bitches until they prove otherwise.) When I was fucking bareback and with her on birth control, it was with my wife and we were both monogamous. And she wasn't a dumb whore, she took the stupid pill every day.

The girls I fuck now, I wrap my jimmy every time.

TROJAN 4 LYF

Get the ones that numb your dick, they make you last longer in bed so you dont seem like a noob .

For my first time I used Durex Extra Safes.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

That's what birth control pills are for.

Yeah, but we are only 15 and we don't plan on having sex every time, maybe once or twice a month. So it's not that big of a deal.

Birth control pills are a good option, regardless of if you're having sex a few times a day or a few times a month.

Off topic slightly, but does anyone else HATE the condom smell? We had to use one a few days ago since I lost my b.c. pills, and gah, that rubbery smell... killed the mood kinda. I think I'm insane though, so it's probably just me...

Edit: If you're gonna use lube, DON'T GET THE WARMING STUFF!!!!!! Bad experience, the thread is probably still around somewhere...



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NOT LIFESTYLES.

let me repeat that.

NOT LIFESTYLES.

thank you very much.

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:

Yeah, but we are only 15 and we don't plan on having sex every time, maybe once or twice a month. So it's not that big of a deal.

Once or twice a month? Good luck with that...lol.

I just thought I should add, don't get studded or ribbed condoms. They hurt me.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Once or twice a month? Good luck with that...lol.

Well, actual intercourse 1-2 times monthly, in addition to the usual fingering/handjob, etc.

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:

What is the best condom for my first time (her second time, but that was over a year ago)?

Trojan ultra thin with spermacide.

Extra sensation AND extra protection.

You can't go wrong.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

That's what birth control pills are for.

Although I must confess, I never produce precum and can last just about as long as I want to, so I'm not the best example to follow when it comes to safe sex. Quick shooters would definitely want the protection.

well actually all guys precum. so you probably do precum you just can never tell because i doubt that any guy can tell

quote:Originally posted by Too Much Ibuprofen:

Trojan ultra thin with spermacide.

Extra sensation AND extra protection.

You can't go wrong.

Except for the fact that Nonoxyl-9 is a bad chemical to put anywhere near your genitals.

quote:Originally posted by geckotail:

well actually all guys precum. so you probably do precum you just can never tell because i doubt that any guy can tell

Oh trust me, most guys, myself included, can tell when we precum.

Those Durex Extra Safe thingies if you're not sure about where she's been, or Fetherlite if you don't care

quote:Originally posted by D Krunk:

Except for the fact that Nonoxyl-9 is a bad chemical to put anywhere near your genitals.

Personally, I've never experienced any adverse effects.

quote:Originally posted by Too Much Ibuprofen:

Personally, I've never experienced any adverse effects.

No numbing or unpleasant tingling? How about the woman? It's really nasty stuff. You're lucky, I guess.

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So, spermacide may make my dick/my girl's vag tingle?

Since it's my first time and since she was stoned as fuck her first time so this is her first "special" time, I'd rather make it feel as good as possible, and that means not noticing the condom during sex.

So it looks like an ultra-thin is the way to go, right?

BTW, I'm pretty sure that she's clean of STI's cuz she's only had sex once before with another virgin so assuming he was clean...

And of course, being a virgin I am clean.

So my main issue is pregnancy. I s'pose she could go on the pill if we start having it regularily...

Anyways, back on topic:

Ultra-thins = better feeling?

and should I go lube or non-lube?

I would say go with lubed condoms. Makes life a bit easier.

Also, I don't think you have to worry about her feeling the condom, it's never made a difference to me...

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:

So, spermacide may make my dick/my girl's vag tingle?



Tingle/numb/burn. It's not a pleasant feeling.

quote:Originally posted by D Krunk:

No numbing or unpleasant tingling? How about the woman? It's really nasty stuff. You're lucky, I guess.



I AM the woman. Neither of us experienced anything remotely uncomfortable.

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:



So it looks like an ultra-thin is the way to go, right?

Anyways, back on topic:

Ultra-thins = better feeling?

and should I go lube or non-lube?

Absolutely.

And definately use lube. There's nothing worse than rubber-friction and a vagina that feels like it's been rug burned.

quote:Originally posted by Too Much Ibuprofen:

I AM the woman. Neither of us experienced anything remotely uncomfortable.

You're a lucky one, then. Its chemical makeup is comparable to bleach.

In 7th grade our biology class practiced putting condoms on bannanas. I cant imagine how akward it would have been to buy 20+ bannanas and condoms at the same time.

I love you pooter. thank you for that.

quote:Originally posted by D Krunk:

You're a lucky one, then. Its chemical makeup is comparable to bleach.

BLEACH??

...

fuck

Uhh... bleach is sodium hypochlorite, an inorganic salt. Nonoxyl-9 is nonylphenol polyglycol ether, chemically they couldn't be much different.

Not saying either is great to rub into your happy areas.

EDIT: Jaesus that was nerdy.

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quote:Originally posted by Swany:

Uhh... bleach is sodium hypochlorite, an inorganic salt. Nonoxyl-9 is nonylphenol polyglycol ether, chemically they couldn't be much different.

Not saying either is great to rub into your happy areas.

EDIT: Jaesus that was nerdy.



I worded that poorly. I meant to express that both are caustic and that if you use condoms with nonoxynol-9 you might as well be pouring bleach in (both have especially potent effects on mucous membranes e.g.: inside a vagina).

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quote:Originally posted by geckotail:

well actually all guys precum. so you probably do precum you just can never tell because i doubt that any guy can tell

Seriously, I don't.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Seriously, I don't.

LIES.