okay, I am totally in love with this girl, and know she loves me back, but here is the issue:

I recently found out she is into satanism, and doesn't intend to give it up, I dismissed this as a teenage fan, and kinda wanted to end it right there, but decided I could prolly stick it out.

Well then I found out she cuts herself, like a lot. Every time she gets called a bitch, 3 times on the arm. Every time her dad yells at her, once on the leg. And for the 3 people who over time asked her to marry them, she carved their name into herself. I also found out she cuts every finger tip (don't remember the reason).

Is it worth staying with her? I mean damn, I love her to pieces, but SHIT.

She's a cutter. Doesn't have anything to do with "Satanism." She needs help.

You, as her beloved, are obligated to get her that help.

Fucking teenagers. Your all retards. Go ask your parents for advice you pre-pubescant fuckwit. Let the real adults take control of the situation, this is quite serious and you will definately fuck it up.

How long have you known this girl?

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

She's a cutter. Doesn't have anything to do with "Satanism." She needs help.

You, as her beloved, are obligated to get her that help.

No, the words "Satan worshiping party" left her mouth

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

No, the words "Satan worshiping party" left her mouth

Why not go with her to the "Satan Worshipping Party?"

And then you bust out your samurai sword and cut all those faggos?

quote:Originally posted by Garrett:

Fucking teenagers. Your all retards. Go ask your parents for advice you pre-pubescant fuckwit. Let the real adults take control of the situation, this is quite serious and you will definately fuck it up.

Fuck you. My parents are worthless pieces of shit that if they can't solve the problem in a fucked up way pawn it off on the other one.

Like when they found out I smoke, my dad got me a pack of smokes.

When my mom found out I was drinking, she just said I better not kill myself on it.

They KNOW the people I hang out with just give me weed, smokes, booze, and sometimes blow, and they STILL let me hang out with them. I have NO curfew, and my mom has actually said she wishes she didn't have kids.

I came to her with a problem once and she just fucking said she was having a bad day and didn't give a FUCK about my issues.

Dude, I fucking just gave you the solution.

SAMURAI SWORD.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Why not go with her to the "Satan Worshipping Party?"

And then you bust out your samurai sword and cut all those faggos?

I wasn't invited for one thing.

Also, I have no sword (I don't like carrying blades over 8 inches)

Also, my knifes keep getting stolen and Target doesn't carry them anymore so I can't steal them anymore

How the fuck can you get your blade stolen? It should be on you at all times.

And if you keep a strong pimp hand on your bitch, you'll insist on attending anyway.

Shit nigger, if you're in P-town I'll roll up on that place with you, we'll crack some Satan-worshipping skulls.

[This message has been edited by The_Rabbi (edited 01-23-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

How the fuck can you get your blade stolen? It should be on you at all times.

And if you keep a strong pimp hand on your bitch, you'll insist on attending anyway.

Shit nigger, if you're in P-town I'll roll up on that place with you, we'll crack some Satan-worshipping skulls.



You know, your right. I'm going even if she doesn't like it.

I'm in Red Wing, Minnesota BTW.

And my blade isn't ALWAYS on me. I sometimes remove it because I'm changing pants, or I don't want to get pulled over by cops.

Plus, some of the people I end up hanging out with will rob you right out your pockets when you're sleeping

[This message has been edited by helladamnleet (edited 01-23-2007).]

You can tell an awful lot about a person's character by the company he keeps.

Don't keep shitty company.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

You can tell an awful lot about a person's character by the company he keeps.

Don't keep shitty company.

Are you saying dump her, or stop sleeping at trap houses?

The latter. If you think the bitch is worth it, put the time into her. You'll have to deprogram her fucked-up head though. This can be accomplished with lots of hard fucking, provided you can make her cum and have her pass out Tard Happy.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

The latter. If you think the bitch is worth it, put the time into her. You'll have to deprogram her fucked-up head though. This can be accomplished with lots of hard fucking, provided you can make her cum and have her pass out Tard Happy.

I kinda figured over time I can deprogram her. I mean shit, how hard can it be?

She also basicly told be that her acting out the way she does is based on the fact it pisses her dad off.

Cutting is an easy fix, and satanism is a simple matter of showing her that doesn't have to do it.

Please tell me if this is correct

Cutting is not an easy fix, there are deep-rooted psychological motivations behind it.

How old are you? A mature girl doesn't do shit to get back at daddy.

She's punishing herself.

Satanism isn't neccasarilly (sp) a bad thing. But shes mentaly messed up, so just break up with her

My view and advice....

Your situation looks a little crooked, keep the weed and stay off the coke. Don't hang with people that will fuck you over, or if you do then don't give them the chance.

With the girl just give her lots of love (the lovey-dovey kind, not the bang her retarded kind) and if anyone is giver her any shit, ... well you'll know what to do.

Fuck that shit. Seriously.

Who edited that man's post?

Dude, i must confess. I always dreamed of having a fucked up girl like this...What can i say, i like to help.

Why don't you just keep her hands busy, so that she won't cut herself, heh? LOL. Kidding.

Anyway, if you really like her, you should help her...I don't know, take her to the church or something. LOL. Seriously dude, she needs you...HELP HER.

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:



Cutting is an easy fix, and satanism is a simple matter of showing her that doesn't have to do it.

Please tell me if this is correct



Cutting is definitely not an easy fix. I've been a self injurer for about 4 - 5 years now, and I've had many people try to help me. It took me a really long time to stop wanting to do it, and I still slip up sometimes. All I can say is, good luck. Try to help her.

She is just stupid. Isnt in satanism the worshipper considered the ultimate God of oneself? THe birthday being the most important day in the year? Thereby by cutting herself she is hurting her god, and she is not indulding herself, not living life to its fullest. And ofcourse, the fourth uhm, "commandment" of satanism IF i remember correctly is being self delusional, creating lies around one self because they cannot accept the way the real life goes is on of the major sins of satanism hm? Yeah... Unless its a serious mental problem, people dont cut themselves unless they want attention.

I had a gf very much the same for a year and a half.

Get ready for a lot of crying and calls at 3 in the morning about how upset she is about whatever.

But if you really love her it'll be worth it...

Exactly. Pick a girl who looks the way a girl should look & then change everthing about her until it is exactly the way you want.

As a guy you know how much you appreciate it when a girl treats you that way.

As someone's kid? You know how nice it is when your parents try to change you & tell you what to do & where to go. Become her new dad & her, your little girl.

She'll love that, I'm sure, "Who's yer daddy, li'l girl!?"

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

Exactly. Pick a girl who looks the way a girl should look & then change everthing about her until it is exactly the way you want.

As a guy you know how much you appreciate it when a girl treats you that way.

As someone's kid? You know how nice it is when your parents try to change you & tell you what to do & where to go. Become her new dad & her, your little girl.

She'll love that, I'm sure, "Who's yer daddy, li'l girl!?"

But moonie, sometimes people do need guidance and help. Cutting isn't healthy.

Changing folks? I wish someone could find & quote some Professional or even Advice Columnist who recommends usurping a Therapist's job & becoming one for one's boy/girlfriend?

Are there courses for that at college or what? Titled 'Become your Girlfriend's Therapist'? If there are? I must have missed them...

[This message has been edited by moonmeister (edited 01-23-2007).]

if she really loves you she wouldnt cut herself. She cuts herself because you aint shit in her life. If you really love her then save her, it shouldnt matter if she believes in satanism or catholicism, all that is bullshit anyways.

I dont believe your story anwayys. but if you are telling the truth then be there for her and support her. You will regret it later if you dont.

http://tinyurl.com/ob3nc

Look into Satanism, nothing to worry about. As for the cutting, well.. You can date her, just get her to see someone. I pointed a friend of mine to the direction of a church psychiatrist and now she realises just how stupid she was.'

Just read "Satan worishiping party", if I were you I'd tell her she's not a Satanist, and shouldn't give us a bad name by doing such things.

[This message has been edited by PossesedSmurf (edited 01-27-2007).]

I'm going to tell you what you should have already known. Break up with her.

STAY AWAY FROM HER!

- Gandhi

Didn't you two break up before?

fucking stab her.

just sit down and talk to her about it. Tell her you care about her, and doing shit like that ain't healthy. Be straight up. This whole situation reeks of immature teenage angst. She cuts herself to get back at daddy (is he overprotective in any way?), and she's a satanist. I'm not an expert on the subject, but is anyone ever an actual satanist? or do they just do it to feel badass and 'underground'?

how old are you anyway?

That's really creepy. You shouldn't go near people like that.

incase any of you were wondering, I got her to give up satanism, and umm, mind just drew a blank. opps.

quote:Originally posted by Garrett:

Fucking teenagers. Your all retards. Go ask your parents for advice you pre-pubescant fuckwit. Let the real adults take control of the situation, this is quite serious and you will definately fuck it up.

Fuck you asshole. we're young, not retarded.

Satanism she will prolly grow out of, most people grow out of faiths. Cutting is a bad problem, I'v been dealing with it for 4 years now. Try to help her, but it wont do much, just help her slow down on it at least.

It's fucking retards like your girlfriend that give Satanism a bad name.

Ok, heres what you have so far...

The Smurf guy wants you to stay with her, bu Gandhi wants you to ditch her.

Dude go with the fucking smurf, from my mushroom related experiences I know that smurfs are cool and surprisingly intelligent.

dude just cut her, like deeper that she does herself. or not, probly wont work but it could. now about the satanism is it leVey satanism? cause if it is tell her its a crock of shit and even LeVey said so.if not still tell her its a crock of shit.

Dude, this is self injury. That is a serious psychological problem. Her psycho babble is merely an attempt to cover up self loathing. You should encourage her to seek professional help and fast.

Is this girl named stef...and live in victoira, australia

She's an attention seeker.

She's not worth it

Get into blood play.

As it's been mentioned already, tell her she's got it all wrong and that it's not satanism. afaik stanism is not about believing in God or in Satan, it's about believeing in yourself and your abilities.

Act like you don't know, go out with her, then act all surprised when you find out and say thats not right you crazy bitch and dump her. It is the hard but quickest most sufficient way for her to learn.

- ♫.i.b.y.v.n.t.h.♫

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

Fuck you. My parents are worthless pieces of shit that if they can't solve the problem in a fucked up way pawn it off on the other one.

Like when they found out I smoke, my dad got me a pack of smokes.

When my mom found out I was drinking, she just said I better not kill myself on it.

They KNOW the people I hang out with just give me weed, smokes, booze, and sometimes blow, and they STILL let me hang out with them. I have NO curfew, and my mom has actually said she wishes she didn't have kids.

I came to her with a problem once and she just fucking said she was having a bad day and didn't give a FUCK about my issues.

To be honest you just sound like a stupid, overly immature child.

So what? You're going to sit there and have ago that they're not stopping you from doing drugs and whatnot? You fucking stop yourself. How can you sit there all "all my friends give me drugs! I don't really want them! But my parents don't stop me so I'll carry on fucking up my life until they start doing everything for me!!" Do you want them to start wiping your ass for you again too?

Learn to do things for yourself.

And fucking talk to this girl. I'm really doubting she's a genuine Satanist or you even really know what Satanism is, she's either an attention seeking whore or she's mentally disturbed. Find out which and sort it out.

If she's totally mentally fucked you need to get her help. Idiot.

welcome to the club all girls are mentally insane and unstable little whores fuck them all

You should kill her before she does it herself.

Tell that bitch i want to marry her my name is Nebuchadnezzar.

[This message has been edited by Renegade Lawyer (edited 02-05-2007).]

...Does she even know what REAL Satanism is? It has nothing to do with worshipping goddamn Satan.

Fucking teenagers these days I swear.