I know this has been asked in the past, but it came up in a conversation last night and I couldn't remember what people had said.

I've heard a lot of girls say that height is an important consideration when deciding if a guy is attractive. I'm 5'6" and I do well enough that no one believes me if I tell the stories myself. Am I just lucky or have I been fed nonsense?

The only way it affects my relationship is that my girlfriend cannot wear high heels much.

They like tall guys, in general.

Being short isn't a real handicap, but many people seem to think so.

For me, pretty much if you're short you have to be really, really cool. But it still makes me uncomfortable to be taller than anyone.

Use a hatchet on the bitch's legs, and you'll be fine.

Being worried about your height is just stupid. It's like being worried about your penis, you can't change it so why stress.

You already know the answer to this question. Well, that or you have had a lobotomy. Either way, this thread is stupid and so are you.

short fuckers are only annoying when they act like dicks to try to compensate for the fact that they dont meet the height restrictions for the cyclone.

yes it is somewhat important

I've heard more than a girl say that they would find awkward to be with a shorter guy.

if you have game height does not mean anything. i have a friend that 5'4" and he gets dime pieces. you just gotta know how to talk to girls and just be yourself and confidence girls love confidence.

It doesn't really matter to me. Personally i don't mind if a guy's my height (i'm 5' 5") but sometimes it's nice to date someone a lot taller than me (current boyfriend= 6' 1"), but truthfully I like sex better with guys closer to my height.... sometimes it gets awkward with guys taller than me.

I'm 6'5" I have nothing to worry about.

It's important to me because I need a man who makes me feel feminine. But if you're not having any problems, then who cares?

I'm a 16 year old guy, 5'10", so I'm taller than most girls still, and average height for my age. Also, I really like shorter girls around 5 feet, and I am fairly tall for my complexion.

^^Height and complexion are related how? lol

I find it only mildly important. Really, it's not that fun not being able to reach upwards to hug the guy. (Which can go for both really tall guys or shorter guys)

But then again, height doesn't matter if the guy has a great personality.

Women have told me it matters to them.

Eh, I'm 6'4, and of heavy build, yet I just got my first girlfriend a couple months ago (I was 19 at the time, by the way... Yeah yeah, flame away at the fact), so I being manly has nothing to do about it, atleast around here. I can tear apart most everyone around where I live, or atleast those who are dating the 'hot chicks', which I don't care for in the first place anyways (Snobby things.) But anyways, hieght has nothing to do with it. It's all about the looks (Most women are very shallow about this kind of thing... I guess I lucked out with my babe...)

Only really matters at the extremes.

Matters, a lot. Considering I'm fairly tall myself.

It does matter to me. I like a guy to be at least taller than me.. and that is not difficult, considering I am 5'2.

5'6 is the cut off as long as you're otherwise cute it doesn't matter

make up for it by having great muscles

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

^^Height and complexion are related how? lol

Hehe, I doubt you get many Hispanics in Canada. Basically I am saying that since I am Cherokee Indian and white people assume I am Mexican, and I happen to be taller than a lot of Mexican guys because of my very close European genes.

My boyfriend is 6'. I think that's around the perfect height.

I've dated men at 6'5", way too tall, and men at 5'8", way too short.

Short men should definitely turn on the Napoleon complex and make up for it with a dominating personality.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

Hehe, I doubt you get many Hispanics in Canada. Basically I am saying that since I am Cherokee Indian and white people assume I am Mexican, and I happen to be taller than a lot of Mexican guys because of my very close European genes.

Oh I see. I didn't know that about you, and I assumed you were taking about acne because of that other thread.

I learned this in sociology today. Being taller than your girlfriend is just another 'gender role' set up by society, to portray maculinity. If you(and the girl you're dating) can break the barriers of the 'norms' of society, it won't effect the relationship. If she's uncomfortable with it, chances are she's influenced by society's views a bit too much.

For me , I'd rather date someone who's more immune to what society wants.

quote:Originally posted by truorion:

I learned this in sociology today. Being taller than your girlfriend is just another 'gender role' set up by society, to portray maculinity. If you(and the girl you're dating) can break the barriers of the 'norms' of society, it won't effect the relationship. If she's uncomfortable with it, chances are she's influenced by society's views a bit too much.

For me , I'd rather date someone who's more immune to what society wants.

Most societal influences are still largely based around evolutionary principles.

By that retarded logic that rules out every shred of evolutionary science ever devised, it also stands to reason that not wanting to date ugly and obese people is simply a product of society's views, so you, being a dumbass "noncomformist" should want to date them, too. Of course, what you fail to realize is that we have societal pressures for a very useful reason, that is, to make those that are more likely to be genetically weak less likely to reproduce. Of course, given the state of Western society, this is largely ignored, but at least in terms of sexual attraction it has been left largely unhampered.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

Most societal influences are still largely based around evolutionary principles.

By that retarded logic that rules out every shred of evolutionary science ever devised, it also stands to reason that not wanting to date ugly and obese people is simply a product of society's views, so you, being a dumbass "noncomformist" should want to date them, too. Of course, what you fail to realize is that we have societal pressures for a very useful reason, that is, to make those that are more likely to be genetically weak less likely to reproduce. Of course, given the state of Western society, this is largely ignored, but at least in terms of sexual attraction it has been left largely unhampered.

First of all, I realize why we have sexual selection. I'm not saying to choose the ugliest, most unhealthy person as a mate. You've over assumed what my actual point was. As humans, we were also given the 'evolutionary' ability to reason, and choose. Not choosing a girlfriend because she's a couple inches taller than you, will not cause the human race to slide down a slope of 'weak gene mixing' actually, being short has it's evolutionary perks too. Take a look into it, being shorter(and having a stockier build) is actually selected FOR in cold climates, and against in others. This is because less surface area=less energy spent keeping warm. In warmer climates, its the opposite.

Also, we're both biological and cultural beings. This means we're not merely apes, choosing a mate soley based on their 'strong traits', while discarding others for 'weaker' traits. We can choose a person because they've got a great personality, similar values, goals, etc. I agree, 10's date 10's , 1's date 1's. But you could be the best looking guy on earth, and still be genetically weak (in your geographical location, and based on your envioronment).

As an example, we'll name the best looking guy in the world "Bob". Bob's got everything a (stereotype) woman wants. He's tall, strong, aggressive, the works. Except "Bob" carries a bad trait. It's not on the surface, but "Bob" has sickle cell anemoia. Bob lives in Canada, so the (selected for) trait of not being susceptable to malaria doesn't really help Bob.

Maybe, if Bob lived in Asia, near rice patties(where misqitoes(sp? I'm too tired to check) fester, and malaria is common) Bob would do great. This is due to the fact malaria cannot influence a person with the sickle-cell trait. But, Bob chooses a mate, and has offspring. Bob passes his genetic mutation of sickle cell onto his child, which, unluckily, carries the trait. Bob's mate also was a carrier of the trait, and due to random chance, their offspring is also born with this disease. Bob, even though he's a great looker, is not contributing much to a 'stronger' offspring.

So, choosing a mate, based purely on looks- is not always the way to go. Especially, as we are becomming less biological creatures, and becomming moreso cultural.

Don't get me wrong, selection is there for a reason. But don't not date a person, because you feel 'awkward' that she's a bit taller. She could pass the 'tall' gene onto the offspring, still contributing to a (more selected for, in your reasoning) gene pool.



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quote:Originally posted by truorion:

So, choosing a mate, based purely on looks- is not always the way to go. Especially, as we are becomming less biological creatures, and becomming moreso cultural.

Don't get me wrong, selection is there for a reason. But don't not date a person, because you feel 'awkward' that she's a bit taller. She could pass the 'tall' gene onto the offspring, still contributing to a (more selected for, in your reasoning) gene pool.

No, I just see it as hypocritical that you would want to disregard things such as height but not want to disregard things such as actual beauty in the form of facial symmetry, bodytype, etc.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

No, I just see it as hypocritical that you would want to disregard things such as height but not want to disregard things such as actual beauty in the form of facial symmetry, bodytype, etc.

Well, to me, that's another complete topic. To be sexually aroused, I have to have physical attraction to a person. But, at the same time, I would still date a girl who I found very interesting, intelligent, and strong willed(a few of my personal turn-ons), even if she wasn't a 8,9, or 10 in my book. I admit that even I still am controlled by SOME of socities 'norms' on what is beautiful. But, often enough, my friends won't find women attractive that are absolutely gorgeous to me. To each his own, on the physical attraction scale. The stereotypical big breasted, nice ass, pretty hair.. doesn't quite do it for me. I look for character on a girl's face, something that draws me in. That doesn't mean I don't see some pornstars and think "damn, she's hot", but looks won't be the first(and only) thing that directs me in a relationship.

Maybe it's ugly-duck syndrome for me. Maybe I've just been raised to look deeper than physical traits. I will admit, I'm not completely free from the shackles of society. Hopefully, one day.. one day.

Ps. Please don't assume I'm saying that you are(shackled), because I totally see your point. But, I am just trying to make the point that we can free ourselves, if we try hard enough, and look deep enough.

quote:Originally posted by truorion:

I learned this in sociology today. Being taller than your girlfriend is just another 'gender role' set up by society, to portray maculinity. If you(and the girl you're dating) can break the barriers of the 'norms' of society, it won't effect the relationship. If she's uncomfortable with it, chances are she's influenced by society's views a bit too much.

For me , I'd rather date someone who's more immune to what society wants.

I agree with you to an extent but personally having a male partner that is taller or the same height as you to be much more comfortable physically. I do like my boyfriends to be masculine to a degree although, no denying that.

I'm also fairly tall for a female as it is. At 6 foot I have, in the past, have had times where I've really hated being tall and been really selfconcious. I am much more comfortable with myself now and I enjoy being the tall one most of the time.

quote:Originally posted by truorion:

To be sexually aroused, I have to have physical attraction to a person.

In my case, even as a guy, I find height key to physical attraction. When I meet a girl taller than me I can see a beautiful face and mind, yet still not find her physically attractive. I don't care about if people would snicker if I dated a girl taller than me, the fact still is that I just don't find them attractive.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

In my case, even as a guy, I find height key to physical attraction. When I meet a girl taller than me I can see a beautiful face and mind, yet still not find her physically attractive. I don't care about if people would snicker if I dated a girl taller than me, the fact still is that I just don't find them attractive.



And I totally understand you for that. Some people just find it 'awkward' leaning in 10 inches for a kiss. Or holding hands with the arms superextended just so they can walk down the street together. Not everyone though, and that's the only point I was trying to make. Sometimes, love conquers all.

height matters. And I quote:

Some chick I used to work with: quote:I could never date a guy shorter than me. He would never really be treated like a man.

And this was coming from a girl who is 6'2"



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quote:Originally posted by SeventhSon:

height matters. And I quote:

Some chick I used to work with: And this was coming from a girl who is 6'2"



But that's only one person, one opinion. The response could be different to anyone. Height may matter to some, whilst to others- not so much. It all depends on the person.

Midgets arent made for porn. That being said, Lincoln prolly had a cock like a donkey. Hey dont get me wrong,i love me my's midgets but Fat chicks have bigger slots too, its kinda effing simple. Proportions are the key, here.

From what I gather, you just gotta be taller than said girl. Although, you may get bonus points if you're a midget.

Would 6'6 bordering on 6'7 be too tall?

Is there a point where too much height is a turn off?

quote:Originally posted by Stiffmajj The Giant:

Would 6'6 bordering on 6'7 be too tall?

Is there a point where too much height is a turn off?

Yeah, once you break that 6'5 barrier it's sort of freakish. My friend got asked all the time by strangers and little kids about his height and he was only 6'4. But who cares, you can kick anyone's ass in the room and that's gotta make bitches wet in your presence.

Well I'm the least likely person to kick someones ass, it's really not part of my personality.

I'm a gentle giant of sorts if you will.

but if someone starts on me I won't pussy out.

quote:Originally posted by SlapinFoFun:

Yeah, once you break that 6'5 barrier it's sort of freakish. My friend got asked all the time by strangers and little kids about his height and he was only 6'4. But who cares, you can kick anyone's ass in the room and that's gotta make bitches wet in your presence.



Since when can ridicliously tall people kick anyones ass? Especially if their tall and lanky?

I'm about 5'6-5'7, and I can get girls. I've hooked up with plenty of tall girls too. Once even a girl who was four years older then me, and a good 5-6 inches taller.

quote:Originally posted by TehWTF:

5'6 is the cut off as long as you're otherwise cute it doesn't matter

make up for it by having great muscles

*is 5'6*

*Kisses manly muskles*

"Whew!"

lol but hey...we all have things about us that make us feel insecure. As far as height is concerned I think as long as you make it to be no big deal it wont be.

Being a 5'2 guy really sucks =/

i'm about 5'5, yeh, my genes are fucked up every other male in my family are 5'8++

and i'm 17, grr, i'm screwed... i've been with a few girls, but yeh it matters on how you talk, i'm bitter now, kuz love has screwed me over so much, so i have no luck?

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

It's important to me because I need a man who makes me feel feminine. But if you're not having any problems, then who cares?

I assure you, standing next to me you're incredibly feminine (not that you're not normally). "He's like a miniature version of wolverine" - The Chief A.K.A. Nick

Height doesn't matter as long as you're secure about it.

People care about the stupidest most insignificant crap.

I mean I can imagine it physically being an issue with a 7' girl and a 5' guy, but realstically "oh noes my boyfriend is 2 inches shorter than me WHAT A PATHETIC LOSER WHAT KIND OF A MAN CAN'T NOT BE SHORT" *suicides*

LET ME SET THIS STRAIGHT: Women are biologically attracted to taller men. Or at the very least men the same height or taller than the women. Most women find men 6'0 tall to be the perfect height. Men 6'0 and taller biologically stand out to women. Some women say "they would rather date a tall stupid guy than a short smart guy". Women are human and still have the instinct to seek alpha males (the providers).

Being shorter doesn't necessarily halt your ability to get women. Being shorter and muscular greatly improves your odds of mateing with women. Being shorter will hold you back some, you need to make up in personality what you lack in height. Some women may not care what height you are.



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This is an age old lie which has been perpetuated and sponsored by the NBA.

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