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 #1 
Old 2007-01-22, 02:50
casanova casanova is offline
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I don't think I did anything wrong but a bunch of people are pissed off at me.

I met a girl at a bar about a month ago, and we were both drunk. I made out with her for a little bit, she made out with a bunch of guys in the bar, so whatever, I figured it was just some drunken fun. It turned out she lived near me, so I got a ride home with her. We were in the backseat, and she pretty much hand-raped me. Like, she kept on whispering into my ear that she wasn't wearing any underwear, and pretty much just grabbed my hand and forced me to finger her...

whatever though, I went with it, I figured it was just some innocent fun.

Anyway, fast forward to last night. I'm in the bar with my friends and I run into her and her group of friends. They come and join us, and she's asking me if I think any of her friends are hott because she'd be willing to be my "wingman" and help me score with any of her friends. One of her friends takes a liking to me, so when everyone gets up to grab more beer, she starts making out with me.

The girl who offered to be my "winman" came back with a full pitcher of beer and poured it all over me, and ran out crying. The girl I was making out with apparently is bi-polar, she ended up OD'ing that night and was calling out my name the rest of the night while she in the psych. ward for trying to kill herself. She thinks we're now in a relationship, and I can't even remember her name.

Yeah, I acknowledge that the whole situation is a little bit fucked up, but am I really at fault here? This entire group of girls have completely stopped talking to me, other than telling me to fuck off and go to hell. I've told the story to people back at school, and they also seem to think I am in the wrong.
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Old 2007-01-22, 02:55
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I just would have chocked that whole situation up as odd and left it at that.

Who gives a fuck if you were wrong? Forgotten certainly doesn't.
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Old 2007-01-22, 02:56
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your not wrong, that could of happened to the guy next to you, or the guy next to him. its was just bad luck

my advice, if this was me, i'd be walking away as if it was a one off incident. just forget it ever happened. stick to people who appreciate you and won't make you feel bad
 #4 
Old 2007-01-22, 03:05
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The wingman offer was probably a joke. Chances are that she thought of you as 'marked'.

Her friend had/has issues.

You screwed up, but it was a screwed up situation.
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:10
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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quote:Originally posted by casanova:

The girl who offered to be my "winman" came back with a full pitcher of beer and poured it all over me

What a waste of beer!! WTF?

This made me cry a little bit.
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:19
casanova casanova is offline
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quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

What a waste of beer!! WTF?

This made me cry a little bit.



hah i thought the same thing...but then again it was only bud light (ew).
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:21
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Hmm, I'm glad I'm younger and have totse. I can recognize these stupid behaviors and not do them. Answer me this: Random making out = no good?
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:23
Apoxyus Apoxyus is offline
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quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

What a waste of beer!! WTF?

This made me cry a little bit.

Alcohol Abuse!
 #9 
Old 2007-01-22, 03:28
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quote:Originally posted by Uber:

Hmm, I'm glad I'm younger and have totse. I can recognize these stupid behaviors and not do them. Answer me this: Random making out = no good?

It's good once in a while, but not with bipolar chicks, and not around girls you've already gotten with.
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:32
Uber Uber is offline
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See, I've only had one serious girlfriend (I'm 17) and we've been together for 2 years and some months. So... I've really only made out with a few girls.. And can't go to a bar. I consider myself lucky.
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:32
Easy Rider Easy Rider is offline
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Roflmao. Who gives a fuck either way? Its not like you can fix the situation except for kicking all of there asses at the same time, but you aren't a master of the wang like me so thats out.
 #12 
Old 2007-01-22, 03:41
ethical_digger ethical_digger is offline
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Fucking Women.
 #13 
Old 2007-01-22, 03:46
Keriba Keriba is offline
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Umm... those chicks are screwed up. Not your fault at all.
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:51
Easy Rider Easy Rider is offline
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Kind of reminds me when I snuck into this bar, with my brother, and we were trying to get a whore and the whore was well a whore and my brother started yelling at her for being a whore then the whole bar was all evil eye and shit then I released my power of the wang and ran away.
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:54
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quote:Originally posted by Easy Rider:

Roflmao. Who gives a fuck either way? Its not like you can fix the situation except for kicking all of their asses at the same time, but you aren't a master of the wang like me so thats out.

Being a master of the grammar is better.
 #16 
Old 2007-01-22, 03:56
Easy Rider Easy Rider is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Being a master of the grammar is better.

There looks better, it matches my wang.
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Old 2007-01-22, 05:26
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quote:Originally posted by Uber:

Hmm, I'm glad I'm younger and have totse. I can recognize these stupid behaviors and not do them. Answer me this: Random making out = no good?

yo, random making out is sick, do it with as many bitches as u can, once u do it wit 2 at once its never the same for u, i still cant figure out how i pulls it off
 #18 
Old 2007-01-22, 10:09
Zonko Zonko is offline
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It's like I always say. If Forgotten thinks you're in the clear, you're in the clear.
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Old 2007-01-22, 12:40
the_boogiman the_boogiman is offline
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Wait, if you didn't know she had issues before all that I don't really think it's your fault.
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Old 2007-01-22, 12:59
oc6 oc6 is offline
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You know what I think...you're better off without them, so don't sweat it.
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Old 2007-01-22, 16:32
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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Don't worry my friend. Girls are an enigma. They come from another planet and it is very hard to communicate and understand their language. We can never be sure of what they really want or what they don't.
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Old 2007-01-23, 01:19
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quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

It's like I always say. If Forgotten thinks you're in the clear, you're in the clear.
 #23 
Old 2007-01-23, 01:24
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Ohio
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Dont worry about it dude. Try not to talk to any of them for a while and you should be fine. You didnt do anything wrong.
 #24 
Old 2007-01-23, 01:27
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wtf?

Tries to hook you up with one of her friends then get's upset about it?!

AND THEN WASTES GOOD BEER?!?



I'm ashamed to be female sometimes
 #25 
Old 2007-01-23, 01:31
casanova casanova is offline
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quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

wtf?

Tries to hook you up with one of her friends then get's upset about it?!

AND THEN WASTES GOOD BEER?!?



I'm ashamed to be female sometimes



well, it was only bud light, but still....i'm more pissed off that i had to get my new coat dry cleaned, i just bought it last week and it cost me $300, and a $600 suit.
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Old 2007-01-23, 01:31
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Las Vegas NV
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quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

AND THEN WASTES GOOD BEER?!?

Ummm, no...

quote:Originally posted by casanova:

...but then again it was only bud light (ew).
 #27 
Old 2007-01-23, 01:48
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-so it seems like this is what really happened:

-you were a little more willing than you let on

-she was a little less crazy than you let on

-she thought you had a "connection"

-she was pretty much wrong

-she made a joke about being your wingman

-you made out with her friend

-she got offended that you randomly make out with anyone therefore making her seem like a casual tryst

- her friend is a depressed drunk

-you get blamed for everything

moral= you attract the craziest, stop being so casual about your partners
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Old 2007-01-23, 01:55
casanova casanova is offline
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quote:Originally posted by TehWTF:

-so it seems like this is what really happened:

-you were a little more willing than you let on

-she was a little less crazy than you let on

-she thought you had a "connection"

-she was pretty much wrong

-she made a joke about being your wingman

-you made out with her friend

-she got offended that you randomly make out with anyone therefore making her seem like a casual tryst

- her friend is a depressed drunk

-you get blamed for everything

moral= you attract the craziest, stop being so casual about your partners



okay, but if any of you were put in my situation it wuold be easy to make the same mistake. these arent regular bar whores, these are rich, rich, rich upper class spoiled girls...the stereotypical long island JAPs with the tights and ugz and that look going on.

i don't know what my point is. but i think what i am trying to say is that i assumed they were all getting drunk looking for some casual fun...my assumption was wrong, but usually it shouldnt matter if they were crazy because it's casual fun and not something i normally have to deal with because it's all forgotten the next day.
 
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