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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-01-22, 02:05
Crack Man Crack Man is offline
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Default Sex with a close friend?

Well just recently i had sex with one of my best friends, i normally avoid any relationships with any of my close friends because in the past its bitten me in the ass.

I went over there and we just talked and watched a movie together, and then we were on the floor doing the dirty.

Afterwards, she wanted me to spend the night with her and i relized what i just did and made some BS excuse and left.

But ive been best friends with this girl since 3rd grade til around 10th grade where she had to move but came back for the senior year,and to be honest she is like a sister to me.

It just feels weird and shes been calling me like crazy and asking about "that night" and why we havan't talked about it and i dont know what to do..., i think she wants a relationship but i cant imagine dateing her since were so close..

Should i tell her it was a mistake and try to continue to be friends? Has anyone had an experience with this?
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Old 2007-01-22, 02:07
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

Is she hot?

Then stop thinking about her like a sister and start going out with her.
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Old 2007-01-22, 02:09
static flight static flight is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

quote:Originally posted by Crack Man:

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and to be honest she is a sister to me.

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Incest?
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Old 2007-01-22, 02:27
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

Do it again?
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Old 2007-01-22, 02:31
Gus Gus is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

If she's so close, it's only logical that something sexual could evolve. Just go with it, because you went with her last night.
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Old 2007-01-22, 02:42
Nameless Dude Nameless Dude is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

Go for a relationship. If you don't its always gonna be ackward around her and you're friend relationship is proably always gonna be funny. So go out with her for a while have fun but don't get to serious and things don't work out just go back to being friends. Don't do something stupid like fall in love or other bs like that.
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Old 2007-01-22, 02:45
Crack Man Crack Man is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

alright thanks for the advice, ill think about it
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:04
phrazah phrazah is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

I Nearly Done That.

Bring us back to the whole can a girl and a boy be friends without blah blah.

No.

I think thats why ppl can be mates, sexual tension.

Pump her. See how it goes kid.
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Old 2007-01-22, 03:06
creepinghorseman creepinghorseman is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

quote:Originally posted by phrazah:

I Nearly Done That.

Bring us back to the whole can a girl and a boy be friends without blah blah.

No.

I think thats why ppl can be mates, sexual tension.

Pump her. See how it goes kid.



What the fuck was that?
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Old 2007-01-22, 04:03
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

I fucked up. I did that. I can't talk to her or look her in the face anymore. It's awful.
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Old 2007-01-22, 04:11
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

I want to fuck one of my close girl friends so bad..

We always just share a hug or innocent kiss and i stroke her or whatever, but she doesn't think of me sexually and I hate that.She has no idea that when I hold her close that I really just want to ram it in.

The end.
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Old 2007-01-22, 05:33
Cheesus_Crust Cheesus_Crust is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

If you like her alot, either keep on having the sexy time or date her. As was aforementioned, it's not like you fucked your sister... did you??? Men and women are meant to fuck eachother... it's not like there is anything wrong with it or you'll go to hell for it... oh wait...

[This message has been edited by Cheesus_Crust (edited 01-22-2007).]
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Old 2007-01-22, 05:39
stab stab is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

What are you scared of? You have a great friend who wants to fuck. She probably wants a relationship too, do you want that?
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Old 2007-01-22, 19:19
StillArmedStillAngry StillArmedStillAngry is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

Don't write it off right away, man. I've had some truly beautiful relationships with women who were close friends for years before we ever hooked up. I'm convinced the "friends/lovers" divide espoused in ladder theory is pure bullshit. If a girl's single and you're on your game, she's an option, period.
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Old 2007-01-22, 19:23
fullcircle fullcircle is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

Fuck her in the ass.
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Old 2007-01-22, 19:53
burntoffering burntoffering is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

sex with a friend is the only sex worth having.
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Old 2007-01-22, 20:33
geckotail geckotail is offline
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Default Re: Sex with a close friend?

well I've never slept with a best friend but i remember a couple of summers ago i had this big crush on my brothers best friend. my brother is two years younger then me but his friend was in my grade. so that summer we fouled around a bit nothing to big or anything but it was so hard to get over the way he kissed or the way he touched me... but anyways he then eventually told me that he couldn't date me because he didn't want to ruin his friend ship with my brother because they are practically brothers.

that was so hard to handle and to try and get over it.

my advice to you is just talk to her about that night. make sure you mention how important your friendship with her is to you and you dont want to ruin it.
 
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