Well, I'm a high school kid, and I got my first serious GF (Past the point of 2nd base), and I need to know, kinda, how to finger. Someone told me rub, then finger, or whatever, and how to do it.... So, ANY help is good, thanks.

Also, her handjobs are a bit rough, how could I kinda tell her, to calm it?

Be open with her. Tell her what you like and don't like.

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Be gentle, trim your fingernails, have clean hands. You'll learn through experience, so just ask her what she likes and go from there. (If she's moaning, she probably likes it.)

[This message has been edited by Fanglekai (edited 01-21-2007).]

Alright, listen, and listen well.

First off, you have to make sure shes calm. Make sure your in a place shes familiar with. I personally feel more comfortable with her sitting inbetween my legs, facing away from me. Feel up her whole body and make her sweat. Gently slide your fingers down to her crotch and rub her cunt for a bit.

Wait till shes wet, and then proceed to slide your fingers down her underwear. Dont surprise her, but locate where her hole is. After you find it, gently caress it with your fingers. If your familiar with the female anatomy, then you can place your thumb on her clitoris and slowly rub it. When you finally got your hands really wet and messy, proceed to enter her. One finger at first, and listen carefully of how she reacts. Slowly penetrate her until your whole finger is in her. Then, softly push up againts the walls of her vagina, and retract outward. If your lucky and skilled, you might hit the G-spot.

Start off with that, then when shes ready use two fingers.

For you, while shes tugging you, you can slowly grab her wrist and slow her down, while wispering "Slow down baby, we got lots of time" Or something along the lines of that.

Well, thats my two cents, when your ready for the big times, eat her out .

quote:Originally posted by Raptafairious:

Well, thats my two cents, when your ready for the big times, eat her out .

Then set her pubs on fire!

Thats my $2.

Ah, what the wonders of communication would solve!

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:

Then set her pubs on fire!

Thats my $2.

lawls. then, eat her out.

flaming pussy ftw!

pours vodka on pussy, lights on fire and yells " EPAHHHH"

Just be comfortable, and make sure she is too. Ask her what she likes. Be gentle... communication is the key.

and is she a virgin?? some can be EXTREMELY FUCKING TIGHT!!!