I've got 2 problems to bring up the wise folks of totse.

First of all I'll start by saying I've found the woman of my dreams a while back and I've been dating her for a few months now (not quite half a year). We haven't had many problems and none that we didn't fix the same day. We see eye to eye on most things, but now I'm a little worried. We're pretty serious already and next year were both going to be switching into the same college. I have no problem with the idea of being with this girl for a very long time, but how soon is too soon to get really serious? Somehow we were talking about the subject of marriage and she mentioned how she thought it would be really great if we got engaged by the end of this year. She hinted at this several other times and I even sorta stopped her and asked if she was serious (and she was).

I like the sound of this idea and she obviously does too, but is a year/year and a half good long enough? I know there's no set time frame, but what is everyone else's opinion on this?

Tell her "buttsecks or no bells"

You aren't even in college yet? Way too soon. Just keep dating, but don't get engaged. No need to get married when you're young.

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

You aren't even in college yet? Way too soon. Just keep dating, but don't get engaged. No need to get married when you're young.

Nah, we're in college, but we're both transferring to the same place next year...

I guess we'd save the actual wedding for at least 2 years though, seeing as I believe we'd lose all our financial aid.

quote:Originally posted by the_untouchable:

Nah, we're in college, but we're both transferring to the same place next year...

I guess we'd save the actual wedding for at least 2 years though, seeing as I believe we'd lose all our financial aid.

I see now that I read your original post incorrectly. In any case, hold off on the engagement. If you aren't sure then don't do it. It's the rest of your life, and you have years to decide. If she's insistant then use the "if it's meant to be it'll be just give it time" bullshit line that girls love.

6 months seems like a pretty SHORT time to be getting into that married trip. Are you sure your ready for that adventure and that she won't end up turning into an evil bitch? www.nomarriage.com (http://www.nomarriage.com) THE FEAR OF MARRIAGE. Remember if she devoice(sp?) you she takes half your shit. If you devoice(sp?) her she takes half your shit I dunno man

going into college eh? well i reccomend breaking it off now before she gets around all those other college guys and chets on your ass. dont say i didnt warn you

tell her you love her but you're the type of guy that fall for girls really hard, and you love her a lot, but you're afraid it could stop, so tell her to hold out.

It sounds like she'll be the clingy type. beee careful!



But for real, tell her to slow down ghandi.

Keep it fun http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQZi8Qdc8F0 like this mate...