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Old 2007-01-19, 00:21
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Default OH NOES! A lame bushy thread! What now?

So, Its 7:30 pm, I am wondering what tommorow is going to bring. I recently got back to Columbus, with nothing. No apartment, 150 dollars, and not much more.

I was kicked out of my mothers house because , I thought it would be funny to leave porn on my ULTRA conservative mothers computer * I was spending the night there *

I was in Cincinnati for the last month, working on a new store. I did a few websites including gypsyhookah,com, and cincityfilmfestival.com. The store looks great, and I added Most of my personal belongings to the store IE: my stereo, my whole book collection, Records, ETC.

Last saturday I was sent back to Columbus by my "boss" . He didn't really give me a reason, just told me o go back til I find an apartment in Cinci. Well, I did. And I saw him two days ago.

We talked about my position, how I felt kinda ripped off, and his position was kinda like "oh, well"

I have been putting preasure on him to hire me permantly, * the store is picking up, and he is opening 3 more in the next few months. He knows I know how to run it, because well, I was.

I am sitting in Columbus waiting for tommorow, I met this girl who is driving down there tommorow, and she offered me a ride.

When I get there, I am not sure exactly what I am going to be doing, but my first thing is going to be to go talk to him.

Now, How should I talk to him? I mean he knows I know my shit, and he still seems very stubborn on me working there. I would only need 500 dollars a month untill he can pay me more, and I already told him that.

I guess I need some constructive criticism on this. Because this is the most scared I have been, as far as I dont know what the fuck I am doing.

Comments and Questions are welcome. But if this thread is Hijacked, It will be closed.

Thanks, Bushy.

EDIT: When I started working for him, he told me I wasn't going to be working for my old boss, so I quit that job and he told me to get an apartment there. So I did.



[This message has been edited by bushy (edited 01-19-2007).]
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Old 2007-01-19, 00:27
Apoxyus Apoxyus is offline
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Default Re: OH NOES! A lame bushy thread! What now?

*waits for flames*
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Old 2007-01-19, 00:28
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This is interesting My horoscope for tommorow reads

Your Horoscope for January 19 , 2007

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You will be kept extremely busy in school or at the office today as someone in authority has decided that you can handle some additional responsibility. Although your mind is likely to be elsewhere there is much to be gained by showing that person that they were right to have faith in your ability.

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I will be at the store tommorow.... HRM
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Old 2007-01-19, 00:36
met_B_A_N_S met_B_A_N_S is offline
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Wow. Bushy is in Columbus, OH? Now I feel like a lower life form for living here.
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Old 2007-01-19, 01:00
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Ha ha you live in columbus. I hate that city.
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Old 2007-01-19, 01:03
met_B_A_N_S met_B_A_N_S is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Das Troll:

Ha ha you live in columbus. I hate that city.

After only living here for 5 months, I can testify that Ohio State University will hand diplomas to any cum-guzzling, cock-mongling, moron.
 #7 
Old 2007-01-19, 01:05
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quote:Originally posted by bushy:

This is interesting My horoscope for tommorow reads

Your Horoscope for January 19 , 2007

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You will lick nuts today. Have a nice day, jerk off.

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I will be at the store tommorow.... HRM

Fixed?
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Old 2007-01-19, 01:06
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Default Re: OH NOES! A lame bushy thread! What now?

Do you have anything on paper with him?

If you don't, get a contract on paper. If you're willing to work for next to nothing, be sure to put a timeframe on it. Don't let him choose when to pay you more, have it written in at a minimum raise rate.

It's a good plan to offer to work cheap, until someone knows that you're a good worker. After they know you can work well for them, don't work cheap. It sets things up for a poor working relationship. He'll think you're an idiot.
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Old 2007-01-19, 01:20
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He knows I am not an idiot, And he knows I am a hard worker.

I was thinking of getting something in writing when I get there.

Thanks Euda.
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Old 2007-01-19, 01:54
FCAdam FCAdam is offline
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how is this on topic...
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Old 2007-01-19, 01:59
neato bandito neato bandito is offline
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I won't say anything other than: How does this have ANYTHING to do with Sex and Affection?
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Old 2007-01-19, 02:01
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quote:Originally posted by neato bandito:

I won't say anything other than: How does this have ANYTHING to do with Sex and Affection?

Yeah, that's what I was wondering.
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Old 2007-01-19, 02:15
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quote:Originally posted by neato bandito:

I won't say anything other than: How does this have ANYTHING to do with Sex and Affection?



We tend to understand 'affection' as covering the whole bright ,colourful rainbow that is human interaction/relationships.
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Old 2007-01-19, 02:23
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Thanks Jackketh,

Its funny, I can't count the number f times I didn't know where I was going to sleep on my fingers and toes, I have to wonder, If I will ever really have a place to call HOME.

A lot of people don't get where I am coming from with all my little crushes. I think it comes from the need for a family, like maybe it gets better.

I have been kicked out of many places, for a number of diffrent reasons. Mostly disagreements about drugs. Either I did too many, or I wasn't generous enough with what I had.

I know I am not the best person, and I kinda expect I usualy get the short end of the stick. But, I work my ass off when I want something.

I'm mostly worried about what the hell I am going to do if this fails. I cried last night. I don't know why. I'm scared.

I will continue in a few.
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Old 2007-01-19, 07:14
firekitty751 firekitty751 is offline
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Disclaimer: Guys, go ahead and flame me for anything I say to bushy. Yes, I clicked on this thread with the intention of dropping whatever bitchy comment comes to mind. I would say all this to him in real life, however I'm not going to find a way to contact him just to tell him off.

Bushy, they don't like you. I also talked to the girl who is taking you to Cinci. She's super nice, so she won't say no, but she's heard a lot of things about you... and the best part is, I didn't have to tell her any of it. And don't try to hit on her or anything, she's dating one of my good friends.

Honestly though, I really, REALLY want you to get over all your issues. You could be a decent, cool person if you didn't make such an ass of yourself all the time. Maybe you should invest in a shrink or something.
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Old 2007-01-19, 13:10
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I'd just like to say, I wasn't going to hit on her, as far as you talking to her, I don't give a shit what she has heard. I really enjoy the fact that you think, you know more than you really do.

I'm kinda still wondering besides fucking your friends, and stealing that pipe. What else I have done so terrible as to deserve constant reaming on your and Neato Banditos part. As you may not realize I have had to survive on my own, and well, Shit has happened. If you would ever like to know the shit I have been through, with such dissapointment, we should talk, althought you wouldn't give a shit.

I have been betrayed so many times, its hard for me to trust people.

If you have talked to her, what does her name start with?

Edit:: Yes, I am an ass, with good reason. coming from someone who thought it would be a great idea to get my ass kicked. You are not one to talk. You don't realize that in the end, I am going to get what I want, and its not to spite anyone, as it may seem. Its because I want what everyone else wants. To be happy.

[This message has been edited by bushy (edited 01-19-2007).]
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Old 2007-01-19, 13:19
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Man honestly, get off firekitty's ass... freakin hell. If i was in her position and had a dickhead as annoying as you who fucked about with my friends i would be just as pissed at you... OH and stealing? no no.. its not bad AT ALL?

How about you stop falling into the same cycle, actually find a nice girl and stick with her?

"I have been betrayed so many times, its hard for me to trust people." oh BOO-FUCKING-HOO, its happened to alot of us... you arent unique or special.. maybe in a retarded way YES... but in any other sense no.

Just die.
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Old 2007-01-19, 13:44
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what? When the hell did you get involved?
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Old 2007-01-19, 13:53
whiteass whiteass is offline
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its official...welcome to TOTSE 90210. Were all cuntlappers globewide can come cry about their lives, because they have been through sooooo much.

People that use their past as an excuse for their actions will never amount to anything more than the masticated menstrual fluid on the front of my boxers.
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Old 2007-01-19, 13:58
Zonko Zonko is offline
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It's hard to give you any advice without knowing all the people involved personally, but try to assert yourself well when you're talking to your boss. Make him know you're the man for the job.
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Old 2007-01-19, 15:46
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Default Re: OH NOES! A lame bushy thread! What now?

If this turns into a Bushy v. Firekitty + her friends thread then it will get "ketch'ed".
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Old 2007-01-19, 16:22
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quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

If this turns into a Bushy v. Firekitty + her friends thread then it will get "ketch'ed".

But... what about being proactive and ketching it first? Please? For ALL our sakes?
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Old 2007-01-19, 16:47
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quote:Originally posted by bushy:

Thanks, Bushy.

I just understood this. I thought he was always kinda facetiously thanking himself after he made a thread. "Thanks for making this awesome thread, bushy." Now I understand it's like "Cheers, Lost" - a sign-off.

...I'm kinda disappointed.
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Old 2007-01-20, 19:14
firekitty751 firekitty751 is offline
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Her name starts with a J.

I don't want to hear your sob stories. I just want you to grow up.
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Old 2007-01-20, 21:43
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quote:Originally posted by shiva:

Man honestly, get off firekitty's ass...

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I clicked on this thread with the intention of dropping whatever bitchy comment comes to mind.

Who's on whose ass?
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Old 2007-01-21, 05:13
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I guess if he led you on with false hopes and fake promises of work and regular hours, and then that all proved to be a big lie, you could take the fucker to small claims court, or whatever you have over there.



He's deffinately in the wrong, if he promises you bitches and money, or atleasy money,he should damn well deliver!

Edit:

I do understand where you're coming from, regarding really needing a place to call 'home'. My parents split,so I move into a flat with my mum and a house with my dad at the same time, which was very confusing.Then my dad moved again, and I moved with him, whilst my mum eventually moved into a house, and so I moved with her also,after an interim of living with my brother. AGAIN, very confusing. Then I got away from my dad and moved out,then my mum kicked me out.

All in all, I've moved house atleast 7 times in the last 7 years.

I've got a flat now, and I finally understand having to work whatever shitty job I have to and do whatever I have to to keep my tiny little place. It may be a cold mouldy shithole, but it's mine.



Bushy, dont cry. This job, whilst it's one you may be great at, isnt the ONLY job in the world.

You crave a place to call home, I think even working in McDOnalds would be worth it to have a place to call your own.

[This message has been edited by yoyobek (edited 01-21-2007).]
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Old 2007-01-22, 18:22
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Thanks yoyo.I have been applying everyplace.

The place isn't that busy, so its just side work right now. I am kinda sleeping in nooks and crannies right now. I have made a bunch of friends though. And I got the hook up on drugs, so its not that bad. I am also keeping my self busy working on my website.

Edit: and I am going back to school

[This message has been edited by bushy (edited 01-22-2007).]
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Old 2007-01-23, 00:01
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quote:Originally posted by bushy:

Thanks yoyo.I have been applying everyplace.

The place isn't that busy, so its just side work right now. I am kinda sleeping in nooks and crannies right now. I have made a bunch of friends though. And I got the hook up on drugs, so its not that bad. I am also keeping my self busy working on my website.

Edit: and I am going back to school





I'm not sure about the drugs but the rest sounds great. If you ever need a vacation you can come visit the yoyobek and it's guinea pigs, and it's all cool cause I dont have any friends so we're not going to fall out about you sexing any of them

Keep updating, ok? Regardless of some peoples oppinions, I generally like your threads.



(no not because they remind me of sunset beach..)
 
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