This may be a stupid question, but it presents a bit of a problem.

I cannot deep throat my boy without gagging. I can take the majority of his dick in my mouth without issue, but when it starts to touch the back of my throat I gag and feel like I'm going to puke, which is lovely.

Apparently he can't get off unless I deep throat him. He usually pushes my head down until I do, but it's uncomfortable and I really, really don't want to puke all over his dick.

Help?

find new techniques that get him off, without deep throating, some girls have the talent to take it all in, and others don't, work around it!

http://www.a-womans-touch.com/article/9/106/How_to_give_a_blow_job_aka_fellatio.html

Start blowing guys with smaller dicks?

robinhoody reporting for duty

But in all seriousness, either practice controlling your gag reflex (be it with your finger or a banana or something), or tell him to stop being such an inconsiderate prick. Seriously, if it's uncomfortable for you or it makes you feel like you're going to puke, it's pretty fucking disrespectful for him to physically force you to deep-throat him. If he says the "only" way for him to get off is if you deep throat him, he's a lying sack of shit.

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[This message has been edited by robinhoody (edited 01-18-2007).]

Yea robinhoodys right if hes telling you its the only way he can get off hes a lying assholes. Eitherway hes an asshole for FORCING you phsyically to deepthroat when you don't want to. Suggestions tell him to deal with the fact you can't deep throat. Or get a nicer non asshole boyfriend with slightly smaller dick.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

Yea robinhoodys right if hes telling you its the only way he can get off hes a lying assholes. Eitherway hes an asshole for FORCING you phsyically to deepthroat when you don't want to. Suggestions tell him to deal with the fact you can't deep throat. Or get a nicer non asshole boyfriend with slightly smaller dick.

I suppose you're both right.

However, he's not really an asshole, and I would like to be able to deep throat him, because it sucks not being able to get him off through oral sex.

quote:Originally posted by Indulgence:

I suppose you're both right.

However, he's not really an asshole, and I would like to be able to deep throat him, because it sucks not being able to get him off through oral sex.

just jack him off while going down on him. that way you dont have to deep throat him, but he is still getting what his inconsiderate fuck dick ass wants.

Well some of us do have that problem, so the guy might not be lying. That or I need to find a female who can actually give head, but there very few and very far between.

kinda like what must females say about guys....makes ya think.

He may not be a complete asshole but anyone that shoves there girls head down and FORCEs them to deepthroat when it is very uncomfortable forthe girl is an asshole plus he lied to you about not being able to get off.

This thread makes me very very hard.

But i have nothing to add.

And yes, I'm a creep.

Why would you want to stop the gagging?!

quote:Originally posted by HandOfZek:

Why would you want to stop the gagging?!

I don't know, somehow the idea of puking on my boyfriend doesn't do much for me.

Maybe I'm weird.

.....zek.

quote:Originally posted by Indulgence:

I don't know, somehow the idea of puking on my boyfriend doesn't do much for me.

Maybe I'm weird.

I'm sure he appreciates that also. But, hey, if one day you do puke just throw your hands into the air and ask, "There, happy motherfucker? Can the sounds of my gagging not tell you something?" Then go suck robinhoody's cock.

The gag reflex is dulled after just waking up. Also, massaging and pressing hard on your temples for a couple minutes gets rid of the gag reflex completely.

quote:Originally posted by Finn:

I'm sure he appreciates that also. But, hey, if one day you do puke just throw your hands into the air and ask, "There, happy motherfucker? Can the sounds of my gagging not tell you something?" Then go suck robinhoody's cock.I wholeheartedly approve of this message!

Breathe through your nose. Thats how you stop gagging.

quote:Originally posted by Finn:

I'm sure he appreciates that also. But, hey, if one day you do puke just throw your hands into the air and ask, "There, happy motherfucker? Can the sounds of my gagging not tell you something?" Then go suck robinhoody's cock.



Yea if he keeps pressing your head down its not your fault if you puke all over his dick id say go with this just keep letting him deep throat you and when you eventually puke from his forcing it down then Bam scream that out.

quote:Originally posted by robinhoody:

Iwholeheartedly approve of this message![/B]

I got yo' back.

Seriously though, the motherfucker's asking for it if he's going to be a douche and essentially try to choke you with his cock.



[This message has been edited by Finn (edited 01-18-2007).]

Relax your throat more, or get it slimy. The slimyness coats the uvula (dangling gag flesh) making you gag less.

Try numbing the back of your throat with Xylocaine/Lidocaine 30%.

This has worked me I know. A girlfriend (at the time) was able to take the entire thing down. She said that she didn't feel anything at all, even though she had it so far into her throat that it hurt (mashing the tip into her throat).

warm my mind (http://www.warpmymind.com)

Not sure if it's free now, but it was a while ago.

I find it hawt as hell when she/he gags.

quote:Originally posted by HandOfZek:

I find it hawt as hell when she/he gags.

o rly?

quote:Originally posted by HandOfZek:

I find it hawt as hell when she/he gags.

I find it awkward and sometimes painful.

quote:Originally posted by Astr0cide:

Relax your throat more, or get it slimy. The slimyness coats the uvula (dangling gag flesh) making you gag less.

I'm sorry, something in the area of the vagina makes you gag LESS?

Now I love pussy as much as the next dude, anything associated with it isn't really pleasant. Sure there's good days and bad days, and even thought it's fun, you want to gag more the closer you get to the cunt.

quote:Originally posted by Indulgence:

I find it awkward and sometimes painful.

What's not to like? ^^

quote:Originally posted by Rykoshet:

I'm sorry, something in the area of the vagina makes you gag LESS?

Now I love pussy as much as the next dude, anything associated with it isn't really pleasant. Sure there's good days and bad days, and even thought it's fun, you want to gag more the closer you get to the cunt.

Huh? The uvula isn't in the vagina...

quote:Originally posted by Indulgence:

This may be a stupid question, but it presents a bit of a problem.

I cannot deep throat my boy without gagging. I can take the majority of his dick in my mouth without issue, but when it starts to touch the back of my throat I gag and feel like I'm going to puke, which is lovely.

Apparently he can't get off unless I deep throat him. He usually pushes my head down until I do, but it's uncomfortable and I really, really don't want to puke all over his dick.

Help?

Ooohh gag reflex, it's a bitch, isnt it?

Apart from practice, or possibly years of jamming your toothbrush down your throat to aid vomiting, there's not a hell of alot you can really do.

When you say it's the 'only' way he gets off, do you mean all together or simply in regards to oral sex?

quote:Originally posted by HandOfZek:

I find it hawt as hell when she/he gags.

Yep, I feel dead cool when it happens.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Ooohh gag reflex, it's a bitch, isnt it?

Apart from practice, or possibly years of jamming your toothbrush down your throat to aid vomiting, there's not a hell of alot you can really do.

When you say it's the 'only' way he gets off, do you mean all together or simply in regards to oral sex?

God yes it is. Glad someone knows its evils.

And yeah, just in regards to oral sex.

Everything else is fine for the most part, there's just this one little issue called gag reflex.

I don't see him terribly often either, as he lives 4 hours away, so practicing is difficult...

quote:Originally posted by Indulgence:

God yes it is. Glad someone knows its evils.

And yeah, just in regards to oral sex.

Everything else is fine for the most part, there's just this one little issue called gag reflex.

I don't see him terribly often either, as he lives 4 hours away, so practicing is difficult...

on the subject of gagging, I stand by my earlier post.

on the subject of long distance relationships:

fuck that. just have sex as much as you can, and have as much fun doing it as you can. I do that, and look how cool I am.

Using your hand at the end of his cock to stimulate the un-mouthed shaft is usually a good compromise. Especially when you make your hand tighter than your mouth could ever be.

i knew a chick who claimed she had no gag reflex, and she would never shut up about it "im not supposed to tell you guys, but i have no gag reflex"....it got fucking annoying

-Kman101

I dated a girl with no gag reflex! Be jealous. So jealous it hurts.

On a slightly more contructive note, she said her lack of gag reflex had something to do with getting strep throat repeatedly, so there's that option.

I hear that when you feel the head on the back of your throat to swallow, and breathe through your nose. Though if you have bad gag reflex, this doesn't help.

I thought there were ways to 'train' it (the gag reflex) so you could control it more?

Someone search, I'm not on my computer and my parents would think it was odd I was seraching for stuff about my gag reflex. =

get stoned and dnosrtotnotnotrail some blow.

quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

get stoned and dnosrtotnotnotrail some blow.

Tried it.

It doesn't help.

Somehow when I'm stoned my gag reflex is more sensitive.

http://www.deepthroatexpert.com

Found that.

Tell your ASSHOLE boyfriend to stop shoving your head down on his dick.

Not everybody has the ability to just turn off their gag reflex.

If he can't bust with no deepthroating, then too fucking bad I guess.

What an dick

[This message has been edited by Mr. Self Destruct (edited 01-19-2007).]

Someone posted a video in IFIOTW of this chick deepthroating a guy then throwing up multiple times after he pushed her head down.

Then he wanked off with the puke.

Tell him not to force your head.

And work on your "conventional" technique rather than deep-throating, if he can't get off through a chick sucking his dick in a supurb way...well, he's just a freak of nature

Tbh, it's only a big deal if you feel it is one, I would definatly talk to him about it though. And gag reflex with decrease over time, also being more relaxed would help? Have a few drinks before hand? Numb the throat with icecream/mouthwash?

Or how about oprah singing exercises, that'll keep your throat in good stretchin' order!

quote:Originally posted by Rykoshet:

I'm sorry, something in the area of the vagina makes you gag LESS?

Now I love pussy as much as the next dude, anything associated with it isn't really pleasant. Sure there's good days and bad days, and even thought it's fun, you want to gag more the closer you get to the cunt.



ha ha the uvula not the vulva