heres the deal, my girl is unshaved and she is very artistic but not hippish.i actually have never dated girl who is unshaved, i have had random sex with many but i know i dont have to deal with it for a more than a night. i was wondering if anyone has had a similiar situation and how you confronted your girl about it. and i know there is going to be alot of well you should be able to be honest with her, and i do agree, but sometimes there is a better way of being honest with women, and anyone that understands women will agree with me.

quote:Originally posted by highspeed26:

heres the deal, my girl is unshaved and she is very artistic but not hippish.i actually have never dated girl who is unshaved, i have had random sex with many but i know i dont have to deal with it for a more than a night. i was wondering if anyone has had a similiar situation and how you confronted your girl about it. and i know there is going to be alot of well you should be able to be honest with her, and i do agree, but sometimes there is a better way of being honest with women, and anyone that understands women will agree with me.

It's her body. If she doesn't choose to shave, respect that.

i agree but at the same time im really neutral about my pubes if the girl would rather me have em ill grow em back if not i keep it shacved its not a big deal to me, so its possible its not a big deal to her. but im not exactly sure on how to bring it up.

Options:

1. lie, yes you can lie to the woman you care about. tell her she should shave it because you're afraid your body oils and odor can get tangled into her hair. (also tell her you trim your pubs to minimize the odor) you can also try spraying something or rubbing something vile near your dick and the next time you both have sex, she'll believe you.

2. tell her, suck it up and dont be a pussy. "baby, you know i care about you? but i find pubs rough and its a turn off, sorry." She may care about you enough to please you, and therefore shaving it off.

3. hang out with her and invite a few of your buddies, tell them the situation when shes not around. have your buddies casually enter into a conversation where you talk about how hot a girls body is, or wat you guys like about girls. when one of your friends comments and says "yeh, i love a nice clean shaven pussy," you in turn say something along the lines of "yeh, i like that too, its a real turn on". maybe you can have your buddies slip in something like, "yeh its fucking dirty and disgusting when girls dont shave"

[This message has been edited by ScaryDangerous (edited 01-18-2007).]

lol at scary i was thinking about the third one already haha.

uhh

Just ask her "Hey could you shave your pubes?"

Not that hard.

Lead by example, worked for me.

I have this exact same problem! help us!

Maybe i could chloroform her and wax it all.

hahah...

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

I have this exact same problem! help us!

Maybe i could chloroform her and wax it all.

hahah...

No. Just ask or shut up.

the problem with just straight out asking is this, she is the type of person that says i dont need to go to the gym im perfect the way i am and all that shit, so i dont want to offend her but i dont want to floss either.

you could just "accidently" bite one and pull your head away so it rips out. say sorry and go back to work, then a few minutes later do it agian and apologize. she will either really like that your doing it or get annoyed and shave it

Just tell her your Soldier gets lost in 'Nams jungle.

Is it really that big of a deal?

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

Is it really that big of a deal?

your name is bushy, of course you dont fucking care. why are you even in this thread?

I just asked my girl, i told her in as nice a way as possible that the hair was a turnoff and asked her if she could do something about it. She was totally fine with it, it should not be some big moral dilemma. If you dont like it, TELL HER, dont fucking suffer through it.

Just ask, if she doesn't...then well..grow yours out and don't shower for a month.

My ex once complained of getting pubes stuck down her throat. I thought that musn't be much fun so I shaved.

Tell her you get off on shaving girls. That way you can do it for her instead of her. The act itself is sexual. And you both win in the end.

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

Is it really that big of a deal?

Your name + that made me giggle. And not a manly sort of giggle. The weaksauce kind. Damn you.

Ask her to shave...she sounds like a misery chica...half assed bohemians. Sounds kinda lazy, maybe, maybe not...anyway, man up, worst that happens is that you have a retarded fight over her embaressment followed by (hairy) makeupsex.

Best to bring it up at a dinner party.

"And you think this corn is bad? You wouldn't believe the hardcore gnarly things I pick out of my teeth after trying to tame her mane..."

there was a time I dated a girl who was rather untended. A week later without my saying anything (my attitude was basically "deal with it") she was clean shaven of her own volition.

Either tell her or deal with it be a man. My girl sometimes shaves but sometimes she gets cuts and all from the shaving which isn't good so I told her I really don't care which is true now. At first when we first started dating she didn't shave and it was a tiny bit gross but I was like what ever fuck it no big deal. Then she did some and it was a little nicer but really not a big deal if she doesn't. I mean if your not eating her out seriously its not a fucking deal at all I could never feel any difference. If your eating her out yea it does make a little difference but to me I don't care its all good. So suck it up or tell her.

quote:Originally posted by highspeed26:

she is very artistic but not hippish.

...? i...go to art school, but i shave it bare.

oh silly stereotypes.

quote:Originally posted by highspeed26:

heres the deal, my girl is unshaved and she is very artistic but not hippish.i actually have never dated girl who is unshaved, i have had random sex with many but i know i dont have to deal with it for a more than a night. i was wondering if anyone has had a similiar situation and how you confronted your girl about it. and i know there is going to be alot of well you should be able to be honest with her, and i do agree, but sometimes there is a better way of being honest with women, and anyone that understands women will agree with me.

May I ask what are you like down there?

Just wondering because you should be shaven if you so desperately want it.

FYI to all the guys out there... pubes in the mouth is very unsexy.

I would feel extremely embarassed if a guy asked me to go bare flat out maybe shave each other in the shower to be sexy... I'm very glad I'm disgusted with myself if I have hair down there, pre emptively solves a lot of problems

Here's a thinker. Do you males out there shave regularly? My boyfriend...definately doesn't. Would you feel that someone has the right to flat out refuse such a request? If so, should you still be responsible for going down on them, hairs and all?

Food for thought, perhaps.

to you girls asking if i shave, i do, i shave almost everyday down there so i am not being hypocritical. thanks for some of the advice, i guess really it doenst make that much of a difference i guess it would just be much nicer if it was, besides its easiers to find all the right spots

I never shave mine...I tried it once, but I found it to be gross and uncomfortable. Seriously, guys worry about this issue way too much. Maybe you could suggest that she trim it shorter to facilitate oral sex? If her pubes are trimmed, you won't get hair in your mouth and that might be easier to suggest than asking her to shave it bald.

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

No. Just ask or shut up.

I give this post a solid 80%.

That's fucking nasty dude.

That said, a pussy is still a pussy, even if it's like the fucking amazon forest down there.

quote:Originally posted by ScaryDangerous:

1. lie, yes you can lie to the woman you care about. tell her she should shave it because you're afraid your body oils and odor can get tangled into her hair. (also tell her you trim your pubs to minimize the odor) you can also try spraying something or rubbing something vile near your dick and the next time you both have sex, she'll believe you.

She'd have to be borderline retarted to believe that



And never ask a girl to shave if you're not willing to do so yourself. One sided expectations are moronic

quote:Originally posted by highspeed26:

i agree but at the same time im really neutral about my pubes if the girl would rather me have em ill grow em back if not i keep it shacved its not a big deal to me, so its possible its not a big deal to her. but im not exactly sure on how to bring it up.

If it's no big deal to you or her then quit fucking bitching about it. To bring it up to her attention just start talking about sexuality and what not then bring up your pubes issue.

well my boyfriend felt the same way as you. and alls he did was say " baby can you trim down there" i of course was like ya no problem but you have no idea how hurtful it can be. most women are very afraid of even showing guys what they look like down there but just be careful. for she might take it hard and feel like shes not good enough. i know i didn't feel good enough

thats exactly what im talking about gecko, but some of these fuckin tools on here that have never gotten laid or had a realtionship even worth talking about dont understand you cant just ask. maybe ill just learn to get over it, so far its the only thing i have found that i dont like about her so im not going to let some stupid convo fuck up her confidence or the way she thinks about me, im not about to jepeordize or connection over something so trivial. so i guess im just not going to say anything at all and get over it. thanks for the help ladies most of the guys said nothing but stupidness.

quote:Originally posted by Chibi Shinigami:

Here's a thinker. Do you males out there shave regularly? My boyfriend...definately doesn't. Would you feel that someone has the right to flat out refuse such a request? If so, should you still be responsible for going down on them, hairs and all?

Food for thought, perhaps.

i trim but not shave

it makes i soft like a teddy bear

mmmmmmmmmmmmmm

i went out with this really hot chick from school and she was waxed. i appreciated that and i commented on it and she thanked me for admiring her well waxed pussy. i guess you had to be there i thought it was funny.

Me:i like how you are waxed

Her:thanks im glad you like it.

it was an amusing conversation.

I can't really picture a girl that specifically wants an unshaved pussy. Like what is there about pubic hair that someone could get so attached to that they refuse to shave it if their boyfriend simply said 'I like shaved better' in a nice manner. I think most girls that are unshaved probably just never really thought it mattered, or in rare cases haven't been around pornography to give them the idea.

PS. This is just my opinion.. please dont get angry Toraton! I'm sorry for being such a 'machine'!

[This message has been edited by Internet-Weed-Dude (edited 01-19-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

It's her body. If she doesn't choose to shave, respect that.



HAHA, i guess if she chooses not to shower, you should respect that too. right?

quote:Originally posted by Internet-Weed-Dude:

I can't really picture a girl that specifically wants an unshaved pussy. Like what is there about pubic hair that someone could get so attached to that they refuse to shave it if their boyfriend simply said 'I like shaved better' in a nice manner. I think most girls that are unshaved probably just never really thought it mattered, or in rare cases haven't been around pornography to give them the idea.

Who could honestly say they prefer the look of a hairy pussy?? Let alone the feel. It's just not as attractive. period.

Shut up, you drone. I find my girl MORE attractive down there when there's a bit of hair. She doesn't look like a girl, she looks like a woman.

And we watch tons of pornography together. You need to stop being such a machine.

I like it when there is a bit of a stubble.

quote:Originally posted by Uncle Phil:



HAHA, i guess if she chooses not to shower, you should respect that too. right?

No, that is quite a bit different.

quote:Originally posted by Internet-Weed-Dude:

I can't really picture a girl that specifically wants an unshaved pussy. Like what is there about pubic hair that someone could get so attached to that they refuse to shave it if their boyfriend simply said 'I like shaved better' in a nice manner. I think most girls that are unshaved probably just never really thought it mattered, or in rare cases haven't been around pornography to give them the idea.

Who could honestly say they prefer the look of a hairy pussy?? Let alone the feel. It's just not as attractive. period.

Umm well first off you're a dumb ass. One of the main reasons my partner doesn't shave hers completly off(tried it once) is becuase she doesn't like having a vagina that looks like it belongs on a 10 year old prepubescent girl which is true. Another reason is the fact that it is kind of a pain in the ass to have to shave every few days but she does keep it well trimmed usually. And I used to think shaved was better but then I realized I want my partner to look more like a woman then a fucking little girl. I mean its not that great when its SUPER hairy but a little bit of hair isn't bad. Plus like I already said sometimes she gets a minor cut or two which obviously isn't pleasent and makes it so we can't fuck for as long or as much sometimes. I know ive only shaved once or twice because its a fucking pain in the ass but I do trim it.

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

No. Just ask or shut up.

Shut the fuck up, you obviously dont know how to get what you want from a woman- therefore anything you say is absolutely and utterly worthless.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Shut the fuck up, you obviously dont know how to get what you want from a woman- therefore anything you say is absolutely and utterly worthless.

Naw he might because anytime ive just staight up asked got the answer quicker. The girl ive been with we just talk about everything and ask or what not I mean our comfort level is pretty rare but still before we got to this level of comfort with talking about anything and all id just ask or comment on something.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

Naw he might because anytime ive just staight up asked got the answer quicker. The girl ive been with we just talk about everything and ask or what not I mean our comfort level is pretty rare but still before we got to this level of comfort with talking about anything and all id just ask or comment on something.

Chloroform works much quicker.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemistBITCHS:

Umm well first off you're a dumb ass. One of the main reasons my partner doesn't shave hers completly off(tried it once) is becuase she doesn't like having a vagina that looks like it belongs on a 10 year old prepubescent girl which is true. Another reason is the fact that it is kind of a pain in the ass to have to shave every few days but she does keep it well trimmed usually. And I used to think shaved was better but then I realized I want my partner to look more like a woman then a fucking little girl. I mean its not that great when its SUPER hairy but a little bit of hair isn't bad. Plus like I already said sometimes she gets a minor cut or two which obviously isn't pleasent and makes it so we can't fuck for as long or as much sometimes. I know ive only shaved once or twice because its a fucking pain in the ass but I do trim it.

why am i being flamed? by you and some mod as well? holy fuck guys i'm really sorry you didn't like my post! we dont have to resort to name calling over a bunch of pubic hair do we? Plus, why are you fucking a broad with a ten year old looking pre pubescent vagina? Is it because you have a small penis? It's ok if you do. Everyone needs to feel friction during sex somehow..

quote:Originally posted by Internet-Weed-Dude:

why am i being flamed? by you and some mod as well? holy fuck guys i'm really sorry you didn't like my post! we dont have to resort to name calling over a bunch of pubic hair do we? Plus, why are you fucking a broad with a ten year old looking pre pubescent vagina? Is it because you have a small penis? It's ok if you do. Everyone needs to feel friction during sex somehow..

No im NOT with a girl with a 10 year old prepubescent looking pussy I said THATS how she feels when she shaves it all becuase she says it looks and feels like it did when she was younger. And you got flamed because your to stupid to realize that there are LOTS of reasons why a girl would not want to shave and its not because they haven't seen porn or what ever. Actually as far as I have heard my penis is average at 6inchs so no thats not it.

and do u think men look like little kids because they shave their faces?

Umm actually some of them do, I know that I look a bit younger when I shave then when I let it grow out. But theres kind of a differnce between a face and a vagina a face gets more "mature" looking with age, where as vaginas don't. I mean yea some do get more beef curtains and all but for the most part it looks about the same except that it starts getting hair there.

Mmmm, two trolls going at it.

My bet's on the dumber one.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Chloroform works much quicker.



Yes, yes I run around with chlorine gas handy.

HH, please disconnect your internet connection. Thank you.

Mmmmmm, chemicals on my genitals.

for those of us too lazy for a razor or trimmers. DD

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

Yes, yes I run around with chlorine gas handy.

HH, please disconnect your internet connection. Thank you.

Youre a fucking moron. Jesus christ, do you have any fucking idea where you are you fucking asshat? (http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e142/blackendearth108/Pope.jpg)

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Youre a fucking moron. Jesus christ, do you have any fucking idea where you are you fucking asshat? (http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e142/blackendearth108/Pope.jpg)

Totse! Now fuck off you inbred cunt.

quote:Originally posted by highspeed26:

thats exactly what im talking about gecko, but some of these fuckin tools on here that have never gotten laid or had a realtionship even worth talking about dont understand you cant just ask. maybe ill just learn to get over it, so far its the only thing i have found that i dont like about her so im not going to let some stupid convo fuck up her confidence or the way she thinks about me, im not about to jepeordize or connection over something so trivial. so i guess im just not going to say anything at all and get over it. thanks for the help ladies most of the guys said nothing but stupidness.

well how long have you to been together. cause if you to have been together a long time then you both should be able to tell each other anything. and see the problem with not telling her is that she might start you realize that somethings wrong if you just stop doing things for her. like oral for example. when i first started dating my boyfriend he would do it all the time and then when we started having sex it like stopped. that made me feel even worse then him telling me to trim. so alls i would do is ask her if there is anything about you that she wishes you would change, and then tell her your situation as to never being with a girls that was unshaven, and just she how she reacts. if it makes her upset then just be like its ok you dont have to change if you dont want to. then just make sure that she knows that its really ok and your fine with it.

hope this helps a bit more man

~gecko

Watch porn with her!

Suggest that she try shaving, to see how it feels. Lol.

[This message has been edited by Khepri (edited 01-20-2007).]

Next time you're going down on her just start coughing and gagging and make a big scene about trying to pull something out of yur throat. She'll ask what's wrong, and you will tell her you got a pube stuck in your throat. Then resume what you're doing. If she's not retarded she'll likely shave or at least trim after that.