So it's been a while since I've had a girlfriend (go ahead throw in some jokes) but less time since I've actually done stuff with a girl (irrelevant but just wanted to make sure you guys know I'm not a total loser )

Ok with that aside, I always had a girlfriend who really, I don't know, messed me over mentally(I'll add more at the bottom).

One thing that really got to me, was she would always make out with chicks(and more) but would play me and never do stuff with me. I always had a jealously thing that I wasn't good enough for her or something.

Anyone else notice this? Just get kind of annoyed and jealous?

(Shit she did to me:

-Took porn pics of her and her friend at age 12 and posted them on the internet for strangers to see but made sure I never saw, though I saw a couple.

-would randomly leave on dates

-Dumped me on the day I went and got checked out for mental illness when she begged me to

-Flirted with other guys right in front of me and leave with them

etc etc)

quote:Originally posted by trippydeath:

-Flirted with other guys right in front of me and leave with them

etc etc)



I would have dumped any girl straight away if she did that. You seem fucking weak man.

You should of killed her.

You shouldn't have tollerated any of those, aside from the kiddie porn. You shouldn't ask for kiddie porn.

Anyways, by the sounds of it she was a horrible person to begin with, so I'm far from amazed that she had a negative effect on your mental health.

Your question uhh.. umm.. doesn't apply to me and probably not most people here given your situation. :/

Although, she times like a complete fucktard that I'd disassociate myself with immidaitely and permanantly.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

I would have dumped any girl straight away if she did that. You seem fucking weak man.

I'll admit, I was really weak at that time. I'd blame everything on myself and then become dependant on people and just couldn't stand breaking up.

We went out 11 or so times until last summer when I ended it for good. In the end I learned she was just as fucked up as me, but was better at hiding it and making it more acceptable.

And to the other guy, I'm not gonna talk about what I considered because I don't trust who's on this site (someone who knows me might be here).

I thought I had the last laugh on her until she fucking ruined everything.

EDIT: socratic: We were the same age at the time when she did it and when I asked.

[This message has been edited by trippydeath (edited 01-16-2007).]

If your getting treated like shit by women that means you have too much respect for them.. I'm not telling you to go and hit a chick, but just don't look at them like they're the shit, whenever a woman knows you like them 2 much or are too clingy aka whipped they know they can do w.e the fuck they want and you'll just sit there, take it and be happy.

if your want to have an awesome chick that digs u for u, and is with u not just being a whore and saying she's with u and going off with other guys... you need to be assertive let em know that your no pushover or stupid and that u want to be with them... this doesn't mean telling them u love em after 3 dates or calling them every day... the girl should know your serious about them and know that you're not puttin up with shit.... so be cool don't be loookin for just any gf, look for 1 that you like... and take it from there

Dude just be happy that your not with her anymore. Now whatever you do make sure she doesn't go back out with you. Pscyo bitches always have this way of getting back into our lifes.

She sounds like a psycho bitch.

Be glad you escaped that relationship.

I would've of made it my temporary life goal to ruin hers.

quote:Originally posted by ethical_digger:

I would've of made it my temporary life goal to ruin hers.

I got revenge. She had the last laugh, but I had revenge and still had dignity after I dumped her.

Lets say, her friends and random strangers know what she looks like nude.

All I can think of it... OWNED!!1

Rather stupid of you to even stay with her, maybe the first offense is forgivable but..nothing else is.

Fool. =/

There are girls in the world that are like that, but they should be rare (I hope). Next time, be a man, know when to go "fuck this shit" and don't be played.

Think to yourself this "I am the prize"

What do I mean? Don't treat the girl like you HAVE to win her over, like your not worthy. Make yourself think that they should be doing the work (though really, give and take is best). Have confidence and the rest should come together.

quote:Originally posted by trippydeath:

I got revenge. She had the last laugh, but I had revenge and still had dignity after I dumped her.

Lets say, her friends and random strangers know what she looks like nude.

how about you help NiGhT PrOwLeR find out what she looks like nude?

and shes a phsyco bitch, should have dumped her when she took nudes for someone else

quote:Originally posted by NiGhT PrOwLeR:

how about you help NiGhT PrOwLeR find out what she looks like nude?

and shes a phsyco bitch, should have dumped her when she took nudes for someone else

I sent you the pics before, i deleted them incase she tried to get me busted for something.

ANyways! This wasn't a pity thread, it had a point, does your girlfriend making out with other chicks and ignoring you bug you as much as it bugged me?

quote:Originally posted by trippydeath:

does your girlfriend making out with other chicks and ignoring you bug you as much as it bugged me?

It doesn't.

Because she doesn't.

Because I'm not dating a psycho-bitch-cunt.

What a crazy bitch, and I don't say that often.

Dump her and lock your doors at night.