I relise that to get any meaningful advice, I'm going to have to be honest in here.

I like this girl, who we shall refer to as "Layla", Layla is one of those girls at school who are in the weird/nerd group. She wears glasses, she's pretty weird.

Now, I went out with Layla in grade nine. This came about like this.

I have a bebo.com account, she added me on that, then added me on MSN. We didnt talk at school. After a few weeks of MSN chatting I decided to come online quite intoxicated. I said I loved her whilst drunk. She took me seriously, so after a few days of forgetting it, she proclaimed that she liked me also, and she asked me out. I didnt want to hurt her feelings or anything at the time, and I didnt really know her that well at the time, but I said yes anyway.

So the next day, I came to school drunk, for courage and the like. We hung around with each other for the next 3 days, I will admit that it was abit akward, because I didnt really know her very well, and we were both pretty different then. (I was a stoner, fail important subjects, moron type person and she was a straight A student)

So, after coming to school drunk for the 3rd day in a row. I sat with her friends and these 2, as people would say "popular" girls came up to us, and like, oh, you're going out with him? questioned our relationship and such and took her away to talk to her. I didnt follow, I went back to my group of males.

Later that day, I drank somemore booze and dumped her over email. The next day (Sober) I saw my friend, and yelled to him "Free!" Little did I know she was right behind me, and heard me.

Now, with this relationship, peope said she liked me, back then.

Anyways, after that, I did ask if she would ever get back with me, she said no and such, as you would expect.

So, the next year, she went to *random country* for an exchange. She came back a few months later, but he didnt talk much then. If at all.

So, lately (3 or so months) We've started talking to each other again, I've stopped drinking and smoking. I've been trying harder at school and such, but that's irelevent. Anyways, we've been getting closer. But over the net, I tell her I'll talk to her in person, but I'm really shy around her for some reason. Not around other girls, but her. I can't pinpoint it.

So, she went out with this guy, and people for some reason thought I liked her at this poimt, people accused me of it and such, but I didnt, so she broke up with this fella a few days later. Anyways. Skip foward a few weeks. I start liking her, but I'm still to afraid to tell her. I tell one of my friends. On and on, Now, I go to Thailand and I tell her over email. (Again, I'm lame, I'm far aware) Then I got drunk and sent her another, more loving? email.

I don't think she likes me, I think I'm trying to hard, as I email her frequently and about nothing in particular, she said she doesnt like me. But people say she does? I'm confused, she is giving me mixed messages. I think to her I'm coming across as a bit a creepy weirdo, I asked her if she want's to celebrate the return of school with me. (Drinking ) and she said maybe, which I think means a no. Eh.

What do you think I should do? Possible things I could say?

Thanks, help appreciated.



So, I'm on my last week of my Thailand holiday. She knows, as do 4 other people who I told for some moronic reason, I'm dreading the

quote:Originally posted by The Nipple:

she said she doesnt like me. But people say she does? I'm confused, she is giving me mixed messages.

As far as I can tell she's giving you one message and that's no. It's other people that are telling you she likes you, and some people will do that just to fuck with you.

Either way stop messaging her. Only respond to messages.

Break off contact with her for a month and then come into it with a clear slate and a seductive gleam in your eye.

Send her a picture of your cock, never fails.

Don't be shy and tell her how you feel. Do this where you and her will be alone with each other. This can be a way to know what she really feels to you. Aside from that, don't be drunk during this time because he wants you to be sincere and honest.

quote:Originally posted by The_Seventh_Artist:

Don't be shy and tell her how you feel. Do this where you and her will be alone with each other. This can be a way to know what she really feels to you. Aside from that, don't be drunk during this time because he wants you to be sincere and honest.

I'm guessing you mean in person, I've already told her over email. I don't know what that will achieve, cept for an akward situation. I'm just going to break of cntact for a bit. Wait till people start forgetting.

Wheres it gonna go if ya do get with her? Are you gonna get drunk every time you see her just so you can talk? What kind of relationship is that?

quote:Originally posted by ethical_digger:

Wheres it gonna go if ya do get with her? Are you gonna get drunk every time you see her just so you can talk? What kind of relationship is that?

Dude, I've stopped that, I know I don't need to get juiced every time I talk to her, I feel like a moron for doing it too.

quote:Originally posted by The Nipple:

Dude, I've stopped that, I know I don't need to get juiced every time I talk to her, I feel like a moron for doing it too.

Well, I've stopped drinking at inappropriate times

bebo is like the mongoloid version of myspace and about the same with how lame it is.

I like your username. It reminds me of how much I like nipples.

You only like her becuase she is now 'untouchable' in a sense, see how you didn't like her at first? Your kidding yourself mate. Stop the messages, and if you see her just smile maybe there will be no bad vibes between you then.

You're in thailand, and your spending your free time drinking alone and e-mailing this geeky girl who isn't attracted to you?

What the fuck is wrong with you?

quote:Originally posted by BluryVision:

You only like her becuase she is now 'untouchable' in a sense, see how you didn't like her at first? Your kidding yourself mate. Stop the messages, and if you see her just smile maybe there will be no bad vibes between you then.

Yeah, this is a great point, I didn't like her all too much if at all when I was first with her, that might change now. I don't know, I think I'm just going t break off contact for a while.