I'm creating this topic to hear all the suggestions coming from women and man alike to help inform on how one is to escape this Dangerous Ground We call "The Friend Zone" and still end up unscaled. Because its eating me alive inside...

***this is just hypothetical, I've got no real trouble with this issue i just know it exists and id like to hear other people's opionion. on the matter***

Thank you~

[This message has been edited by Romeo (edited 01-16-2007).]

Hmm...

Are you trying to be more than friends with a girl/guy or are you trying not to be a friend with a girl/guy?

*awaits loser to start ranting about ladder theory*

It's easier for girls to get out of the friendship thing...Most guys would fuck at least one of their female friends given the chance.

Any guy who says that's untrue, I call him a damn liar!

As for guys becoming more than a friend to a girl...Well...That's tough.

Girls seem to stick with their decision when it comes to that sort of thing.

Once they have decided that a guy is and will be no more than a friend, that's it...No nookie.

Sorry to break it to ya, kid but there's not much chance of becoming more than a friend to that girl you're infatuated with.

Unless you start showing some other girl the attention...But that's a whole different story!

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:



Unless you start showing some other girl the attention...But that's a whole different story!



Maybe what i was asking is for that *different story then!

How so are guys easily swayed and girls are not? are their any other exceptions?

Haha...this reminds me, my girlfriend's friend tried to do this to her three days ago. She met him at University this October, and they've been pretty good friends from what I hear. She just got back from the Christmas holidays, and he professes that he missed her quite a bit and thinks he actually loves her.

I think it all rather hilarious, since I've actually met the guy, and that he knows my girlfriend would never break up with me. At the moment, he's not speaking to her - I guess this would be an example of not how to move out of the friend's zone.

Are their any subconscious way of doing it? because we all know telling any friend you love her is a 9/10 gamble that it'll destroy you. i but what if someone just has a clingy friend that they have grown to like. and just abruptly popping stupid emotions into it will crucify him/her.

Are their any cruel ways of going about this, that only a true friend will understand and not hate you for it?

quote:Originally posted by Romeo:

Is Their any way Out!?

No.