This month, or what's left of it is killing me. I'm not literally dying. As you can probably tell.

If you read my thread a few weeks ago. It basically said that I can't contact my girlfriend for a month or until after exams are over which is roughly a little over two weeks away. We don't go to the same school, and I just have no way of seeing her.

How do you deal with not only being unable to see your significant other, but not even being able to talk to them? I have to apply to colleges soon and she usually helps me with things like this. The application date is before we can see each other again. I just feel like shit.

So, like I said above. How would you deal with this?

I don't know why you can't see your girlfriend. Skip school one day and go visit?

If you can't do that, then you have to man up and just get things done on your own. Remember that she cares about you, talk to a guidance counselor about your applications.

[This message has been edited by Euda (edited 01-16-2007).]

One of my buddies lives here in Perth. He has a serious relationship with a girl who lives in New Zealand, and he only gets to see her like twice or three times a year. I have no idea how he does it.

I think you just need to find happiness in other ways. If your woman is your only source of joy you have problems there anyway- what if you break up? What if you or her move overseas?

Occupy yourself in other ways. Go out with your friends, get a job, find a hobby, play sport, go get wasted and break shit. Read a list of things people do to avoid depression, it may give you some ideas, since essentially you're avoiding a very similar thing- lonliness and anxiety.

Find a new one.

Did you send her the basket full of helpful study items like I told you to? Because if you did, you should have been able to see her at least once. And if you didn't, you're crappy.

Shit a month ain't really that bad.

You should be happy about the fact that you will be getting to see her soon-ish, and that it's not a perm thing...Dig?