Introducing the subject:

Sex - Female

Age - 14/15

Looks - Like a guy (If she didn't choose to look like this, she could be considered pretty or dare I say it.... SEXY?!?!)

Music - Stuff like Green day

Hair - Blue

Sexuality - Bi (Commonly seen as a lesbo though)

Friends - Not exactly sure. Mainly seen as a girl who wants to be a guy and a lesbian - so bullied by her peers.

Anything else - Her father died about 2 years ago.

Religion - Catholic, *Quite strict*...

Introducing the problem:

Socially shes fucked - Seen as a "dirty lesbo", Looks like a guy... misunderstood. Why would anyone touch her?

I first met her 14months ago. I can remember her dropping a pen, and out of common decency I picked it up and handed it to her. She seemed astounded - Why did this stranger do that for her?!?!

I never really spoke to her until about September. (Despite seeing her twice a week) I just made REALLY REALLY small talk with her - But I treated her with decency and I was friendly.

Pretty soon I got a MSN invite from her - she got my MSN off of her best friend, my best friend. She then gave me her phone number, address and life story... Then asked me out. I said Id think about it...

I then had her sister telling me to say Yes. Over the next 48 hours I was asked out 5 times. Eventually my best friend thought it went to far.. and told her "NO, HE DOESNT WANT A RELATIONSHIP... ATLEAST NOT WITH YOU.". She then ran out crying...

Although I managed to rescue our "friendship". I then heard that she had had dreams about me... specifically "It was dark... He was looking for me, I could hear him calling my name.". (Him being me...)

Now fast forward to this week. She got a boyfriend 4 days ago... She had sex with him yesterday... She got dumped today.

That one sentance somes her up... I think she craves love. AND WILL DO ANYTHING to get it... even giving it up after only 3 days.

Now shes cut up and depressed... I don't know what I'm looking for totse, but I want any of your opinions on this. I can't seem to work her out...

You do not want to date this girl. That is a a bad, bad idea. I gaurantee she will be clingy and obsessive because she's not used to attention. If you ever try to break up with her she will threaten to commit suicide and be generally insane. I'm telling you, stay as far away from her as possible.

quote:Originally posted by Silverfuck:

You do not want to date this girl. That is a a bad, bad idea. I gaurantee she will be clingy and obsessive because she's not used to attention. If you ever try to break up with her she will threaten to commit suicide and be generally insane. I'm telling you, stay as far away from her as possible.

Oh, Me dating her is out of the question... Shes hardly the type of girl to be seen with me... (In other words... Im looked upon as to good for her by everyone and it wouldn't work out due to outsiders...)

Tell her to stop acting like such a pathetic dyke and maybe she'd find a man that doesn't end up treating her like one.

We each make our own personal hell.

Her dad died and she wants to bang Jesus.

Run.

The best thing would be to listen to her and be there, but to not give her an inch.

Send her to a convent.

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

Oh, Me dating her is out of the question... Shes hardly the type of girl to be seen with me... (In other words... Im looked upon as to good for her by everyone and it wouldn't work out due to outsiders...)



Sorry, I guess I misunderstood what you were asking. In your case I would advise that you treat her with total indifference. If you are nice to her you will only give her false hope. If you ignore her she will eventually forget about you.

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

Oh, Me dating her is out of the question... Shes hardly the type of girl to be seen with me... (In other words... Im looked upon as to good for her by everyone and it wouldn't work out due to outsiders...)



That pretty much makes you a terrible person: letting others decide your love-life for you. Not that I'm saying you should fall head over heels for this girl, blah blah blah, you shouldn't, she's not ready for anything. I'm merely saying that "due to outsiders" should never be in considerations of the heart.

As for her "bi, giving it up after 3 days, strict catholic."

That doesn't work. Strict Catholic is what everybody thinks of when they think stereotypical douchebag christian: anti gay, anti abortion, anti sex really, anti freedom, anti science, anti thought.

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Her dad died and she wants to bang Jesus.

Run.

Hahahahahahah.

Winner.

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

Oh, Me dating her is out of the question... Shes hardly the type of girl to be seen with me... (In other words... Im looked upon as to good for her by everyone and it wouldn't work out due to outsiders...)





You're too good for her?

You know, kids like her, nine times out of ten they grow up to be beautiful, confident, great people.

You're judging a potential relationship not by your own feelings but by the probable reactions of your peers.

You lose.

Jx

quote:Originally posted by Jessic:



You're too good for her?

You know, kids like her, nine times out of ten they grow up to be beautiful, confident, great people.

You're judging a potential relationship not by your own feelings but by the probable reactions of your peers.

You lose.

Jx

Wow, Someone can't read can they? "... Im looked upon as to good for her by everyone and it..." - Im looked upon as to good. Now does that say I am too good? No.

You can't read properly, therefore you fail.

Feels like an outcast so acts and looks like an outcast...Hungry for positive emotions towards her...Will be duped into things to hear something nice said about her!