so my girlfriend confronted me about sex today.. and she says she wants it.. and sure as hell im going to give it to her... but i havent broken in a virgin yet.. and i was wondering roughly how deep the hymen is usually?... and how much pressure does it take to break it?

Thanks

Cory

You're looking at this the wrong way. You have fingers and a penis to find out how far in it is. And it'll take what it takes to break it. Will the metric measurements really help you that much?

What ever happened to the awkward coming of age tales that happened on SBS so I assumed happened in real life? Why does everybody seem to want to know in advance instead of experiencing it?

I miss the magic

Everyone's a little different. I lost my hymen at too young an age to remember the exact position of it. It won't take a whole lot to break it. You won't get too far in before you encounter a bit of a blockage to push past. Once it's broken it won't bleed as much as most guys seem to think it will. But an easy thrust should get you past.

well.. the thing is i want to actually break the hymen... like im not completely confident in my penis to break it... sensitive head and what not.... and then she says fingering hurts because shes sensitive... is this more of a based on the girl depth or is it common kinda?... or what

Cory

quote:Originally posted by Deadly Vaccine:

like im not completely confident in my penis to break it

You want me to take care of it?

not funny.. its just... im talking more length... so if i hear an average or some kind of help.. i can go in with some kind of confidence...or just any thought...to make it memorable

Cory

quote:Originally posted by Deadly Vaccine:

not funny.. its just... im talking more length... so if i hear an average or some kind of help.. i can go in with some kind of confidence...or just any thought...to make it memorable

Cory

translation - My penis is small and tiny and i think my middle finger will d better

quote:Originally posted by Deadly Vaccine:

not funny.. its just... im talking more length... so if i hear an average or some kind of help.. i can go in with some kind of confidence...or just any thought...to make it memorable

Cory

Quit with the pauses. It makes it hard to read. (http://www.bbc.co.uk/cult/malcolm/images/340/stevie2.jpg)

I'm guessing you're worried you're too short, which you shouldn't be. Apparently vaginas aren't much longer then 12 and a half centimeters so if you’re longer then that you're fine.

And that’s only if the hymen was right at the back of the vagina. Which it isn't. It's right at the front maybe one; no more then two centimeters in. (educated guess *shrugs*) So you really don't have a problem.

If you're really insecure just use your fingers to break it under the pretense that it will "hurt her less".

sorry about the pauses, and thanks for your help.

Cory

I've heard of a few cases where the hymen actually needs to be broken with a pair of bolt cutters.

quote:Originally posted by Deadly Vaccine:

so my girlfriend confronted me about sex today.. and she says she wants it.. and sure as hell im going to give it to her... but i havent broken in a virgin yet.. and i was wondering roughly how deep the hymen is usually?... and how much pressure does it take to break it?

Thanks

Cory

k, you need to use a jackhammer. your penis just isn't enough for this almighty task!

sir, so find that jackhammer, i heard ace hardware has them on sale... then pound away!!!

[This message has been edited by RogueWarheart (edited 01-16-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

Apparently vaginas aren't much longer then 12 and a half centimeters so if you’re longer then that you're fine.

I'd give them a bit more length then that. The average penis is 6" isn't it? That makes the average guy's tool longer then a chick's vagina, which sounds a bit off. From what I hear there aren't many that can't get it all the way in.

[This message has been edited by blinky04 (edited 01-16-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

You're looking at this the wrong way. You have fingers and a penis to find out how far in it is. And it'll take what it takes to break it. Will the metric measurements really help you that much?

What ever happened to the awkward coming of age tales that happened on SBS so I assumed happened in real life? Why does everybody seem to want to know in advance instead of experiencing it?

I miss the magic



You're adorable. That actually brought out a resonating 'Aww' from deep inside somewhere. I miss the magic too



And just for the record, about 30 PSI usually does the trick.

...the hymen is around or covering the entrance to the vagina.

Is this thread entirely full of people who've never encountered a hymen trying to give advice?

Goddamn. Click. Educate yourselves somewhat. (http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/images/hymen003.jpg) Or just go and have sex.

EDIT: And the average vagina is five to six inches deep, and will lengthen when the female's aroused.

[This message has been edited by Mr.Happy (edited 01-16-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

people who've never encountered a hymen trying to give advice?

A hymen tried to give me advice last week, but I dont let no pussy tell me what to do!



[This message has been edited by Docta? (edited 01-16-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Dark Kaiser II:

I've heard of a few cases where the hymen actually needs to be broken with a pair of bolt cutters.

hahahaha, nice.

+1