I will start off and say my current gf is a virgin.

When i first fingered her, i noticed that i could only fit one finger in, so i stuck with the middle and prayed that she would loosen up a little, but that never happened, i tried for a second and it was too tight and i didnt want to hurt her at all. is there something that im missing here? or are my fingers too big for her or something

confusedly yours...

lube?

noo that was NOT the problem at all lol she was rediculously wet

[This message has been edited by FCAdam (edited 01-14-2007).]

itll take time, especially if shes a virgin, keep using 1 finger, and take it slow, it might take some time, but in the end it will be worth it.

Put a thumb in, and push it RIGHT IN reach in as far as you can. Then put two fingers in, don't stop unless she says something (like: Stop, or ouch)

Yeah it will loosen up. Give it time. Stretch it out a bit.

Give it time. Use your smaller fingers if you find your index or middle finger to be two big.

I had a virgin girfriend once. She could easily take three. Is that normal?

-F☺rd

haha i don't think "trying for a few seconds" is going to be enough for the results you want. i started out with one feeling like a lot and ended up being able to take like 3, not to mention a penis. just go slow, work your way up, and expect it to take a little while.

I have nothing to contribute to this post other than praising Ford Prefect's username. Loads of my friends saw the original series of HHGTTG and had no idea what a Ford Prefect was, they just assumed that it was a mis-spelling of Perfect.

I think in the new films he is called Ford Anglia or Ford Sierra or some other modern Ford model so the young generation actually get the joke that he thought cars were the most intelligent lifeform on earth.

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:



I had a virgin girfriend once. She could easily take three. Is that normal?

-F☺rd

That made me laugh so hard.

Allow me to leave you with this one thought before I head to work: Women lie.

Some are just that small, and won't loosen much. Use a penis, it's better-shaped for penetration that two fingers are.

Go for the middle finger first.. Move it around for like a minute or so, then insert ring finger.. That'll probably be more comfortable for her than index and middle..

Virgins can be so lazy sometimes.... she shouldn't be making you do all the work.... she should be in bed masterbating every night loosening herself up. That's how I did it.... when I lost my virginity I'd never even been fingered by a guy and it didn't hurt.... and he was pretty well endowed too.

SHES USING HER VAGINA AGAINST YOU! RUN! Nah...my fisrt chick couldnt take my pinky until like a weeks worth of working on it *Rolls eyes*

Eh, when I first fingered my girlfriend... Whom I'd known for three years and trust as far as an ass like me could trust (meaning I will not believe anything without solid proof), she said she was a virgin. I believed her just fine, after a bit.

But MAN. First time I could easily maneuver two in, and then we tried three but that just made it more difficult (bad positioning = lose).

So I asked her about that (and did some personal research...). Turns out the more a chick loosens herself up, the more loose she will be. Now, it does not always have to be a penis being shoved up there. It could be a dildo, her own fingers, wrong-sized tampons.



I don't think any girl could grow to the age where a dooder would be fingering them WITHOUT masturbating a good amount. The only difference, I think, is that certain girls will prefer G-Spot Self-Stimulation and some girls will prefer Clitoral Self-Stimulation.

My girlfriend was G-Spot, yours seems to have been a Clitoral. See it now? D: