I'm not too sure about beginning this topic or not or how i'm going to structure it but I'm going to go ahead anyway. What do you think about telling people what level you are at in your relationship or especially people telling you in order to get on their brag platform.

I have my friends and people I know telling me how 'far' they have gone with their partner and what-not, but the thing is I dont care what they have done nor do I think it is necessary or appropriate to be talking or bragging about such things.

I personally dont talk about my relationship to anyone, because I dont feel anyone should feel the need to know etc. So, what do you think about this? Do you tell people how 'far' you have gone with your 'partner'? What do you think when people tell you how 'far' they have gone with 'them'? And so on...

quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

I'm not too sure about beginning this topic or not or how i'm going to structure it but I'm going to go ahead anyway. What do you think about telling people what level you are at in your relationship or especially people telling you in order to get on their brag platform.

I have my friends and people I know telling me how 'far' they have gone with their partner and what-not, but the thing is I dont care what they have done nor do I think it is necessary or appropriate to be talking or bragging about such things.

I personally dont talk about my relationship to anyone, because I dont feel anyone should feel the need to know etc. So, what do you think about this? Do you tell people how 'far' you have gone with your 'partner'? What do you think when people tell you how 'far' they have gone with 'them'? And so on...

That's EXACTLY how I feel. I don't bring it up to my friends. But they always question me about it, but they'll never know. My relationship with my best friend involves music, movies, and chillen. I didn't know he had a girlfriend for like 2 months after he started dating her. I honestly don't care.

You'll usually find it's the sad, lonely guys who always ask about how far you've gotten in your relationship because theirs are so shit and boring for them because the girl "just doesn't feel ready" leaving them to sit and dream of what could be happening.

And yeah, I agree that peoples' relationships shouldn't be asked or bragged about.

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

...because the girl "just doesn't feel ready" leaving them to sit and dream of what could be happening.

Wow, I haven't even considered that. These days a lot of people fuck before they even go out, or they fuck in the first week.

I'd hate to have to wait for some one .

I don't like bragging or hearing people brag. But I was with this girl once who I guess I didn't know that well, anyway when I returned to work, after we got it on.

Every person there knew all the details of what happened, needless to say, I wasn't best pleased.

quote:Originally posted by Source:

Every person there knew all the details of what happened, needless to say, I wasn't best pleased.

Did you nut early/go flacid/make squaking noises as you came/fall asleep?

If not, and you were a decent/half decent lay, accept the advertising for your reputation.

I have this one friend who's a compulsive liar. He claims to have fucked all these girls while being in a relationship for the past 3 or more years. He's so full of shit. I'm surprised that it hasn't gotten around to his girlfriend yet...

But anyway, I always fuck a girl within the first week. I mean, come on, this the 21st century here. If a girl expects me to wait, then she can expect me to fuck other girls until she's ready...

(Not that I would cheat, I just mean that I wouldn't commit solely to a girl that wanted to wait.)

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Did you nut early/go flacid/make squaking noises as you came/fall asleep?

If not, and you were a decent/half decent lay, accept the advertising for your reputation.

Well it was my first time and she was bragging more about how she took my virginity more than anything.

Edit: My mother worked at the same place as well, so everyone thought it was real funny in telling her they knew everything.

Needless to say, that bitch got her ass ditched.



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quote:Originally posted by Source:

she was bragging more about how she took my virginity more than anything.

Oh man... the girl who took my virginity was like that too... fuck, she had to tell EVERYBODY... including my family whenever she was around. It was so annoying/embarrassing.

quote:Originally posted by Source:

I don't like bragging or hearing people brag. But I was with this girl once who I guess I didn't know that well, anyway when I returned to work, after we got it on.

Every person there knew all the details of what happened, needless to say, I wasn't best pleased.



=[ that kinda happened to me, first day of school, and all these randoms knew every detail of what happened.

Ahhh, compulsive liars I know a few of them. They are really annoying, say, you'll hear them tell you a story and the whole time you can't help but to think "Bullshit". So from now on I ask for pictures or someone else to tell me the story . Thats why I backup everything with pictures.... useless without pics etc.

But someone I knew, last year had done it for the first time etc... and he wouldn't shut up about it, up to a stage where it got really annoying. I was just thinking why on earth is he telling me... Self satisfaction/ego boost I figure now.

i have a grand total of 2 friends who, if they asked and kept bugging the shit out of me about it, would i tell them how far i've gone. its not something that really needs public discussion.

now, if my circle of friends wouldn't scrutinize my every move, and such topics weren't tabooed, i might say what my girlfriend and i have done, but not otherwise.

What goes on with a couple is their own buisness. Having other people keeping track just makes me feel pressured, and it's yet another lose-lose situation for girls. Pleh on society's outlook on sexuality!!

I enjoy bragging about my sexual conquests.

It makes me feel like more of a man.

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

I enjoy bragging about my sexual conquests.

It makes me feel like more of a man.

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[This message has been edited by Byss (edited 01-15-2007).]