So anyway there was a dance at my school last night and I got a phone# of some chick I'd made out with, I got a couple of questions. Keep in mind that I don't know this girl because I go to an all boys school so this is the first time we'd met. Anyway:

1) Is she sincere enough to pursue anything with or is she a slut, she made out with some random kid at a dance...

2) If she is sincere how soon should I call her?

Thats it, thanks.

she probably isn't a slut, and just liked you. but hey, what do i know?

as for the calling her, do it soon. it's a saturday, call her and ask her to the movies/bowling/mall/whatever the hell you want. some people say that you should wait a few days, but really...all that is is mind games. if you want to hangout with her today, call her. plus, being in school it will probably make it difficult/awkward to have a first date type thing on a weekday.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

she probably isn't a slut, and just liked you. but hey, what do i know?

as for the calling her, do it soon. it's a saturday, call her and ask her to the movies/bowling/mall/whatever the hell you want. some people say that you should wait a few days, but really...all that is is mind games. if you want to hangout with her today, call her. plus, being in school it will probably make it difficult/awkward to have a first date type thing on a weekday.



I got midterms though so I don't really have time to do anything but study until next weekend... is that to late?

I didn't mean to be offensive by calling her a slut but promiscuous just doesn't flow off the tongue and I thought the situtation was a bit odd but whatever.

quote:Originally posted by phade:

I got midterms though so I don't really have time to do anything but study until next weekend... is that to late?

I didn't mean to be offensive by calling her a slut but promiscuous just doesn't flow off the tongue and I thought the situtation was a bit odd but whatever.



well then just call her and explain that. ask if she wants to do something next weekend.

teenage girls just tend to be fragile, and the sooner you call her and show interest the more she will have a liking for you. seriously, all week she will thinking about and talking about how she is going out with you next weekend.

oh teenage giddyness...how i miss it.

Maybe you're the slut?

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

Maybe you're the slut?

Yeah thats it.

she made out with a random kid at a dance.

shes got some slut in her.

pursue it for the ass, not for the relationship.

I'm with whiteass on this one.

quote:Originally posted by phade:

I got midterms though so I don't really have time to do anything but study until next weekend... is that to late?

I didn't mean to be offensive by calling her a slut but promiscuous just doesn't flow off the tongue and I thought the situtation was a bit odd but whatever.

Hahaha Fuck her at the same time yur reading your math book Sheesh man id fail an exam for hot sex :P

quote:Originally posted by phade:

So anyway there was a dance at my school last night and I got a phone# of some chick I'd made out with, I got a couple of questions. Keep in mind that I don't know this girl because I go to an all boys school so this is the first time we'd met. Anyway:

1) Is she sincere enough to pursue anything with or is she a slut, she made out with some random kid at a dance...

2) If she is sincere how soon should I call her?

Thats it, thanks.

Maybe YOU are a slut for making out with some random girl you've never met before at a dance?

Think about that, then call her.

quote:Originally posted by myscars:

Maybe YOU are a slut for making out with some random girl you've never met before at a dance?

Think about that, then call her.

Thanks for being the second person to say that, and no I'm not since I didn't initiate it.

I'm going to text her and see where it goes from there.

How are we supposed to tell if she is a slut from the few lines you wrote?

Grow up!

omgogmogm she made out with a boy at a dance! call her parents!!!11

quote:Originally posted by phade:

Thanks for being the second person to say that, and no I'm not since I didn't initiate it.

I'm going to text her and see where it goes from there.

Actually I didn't see that post. Doesn't matter though. You are questioning whether she may be a slut because she took part in the same activity you did. Maybe she is at home wondering the same thing?

It doesn't matter who is initiated.

All I'm saying is, do you think of yourself as a slut? No. Then why think of her like that? Call her.

I don't know about slut, mate...

I must say that just because a girl kisses a guy at a social event where there is closeness, gyrating hips and happiness it doesn't make her a slut.

This ain't the old days when "courting" was the ettiquette and having to take the girl out for dinner 2 nights a week for a month before even a kiss was thought about!

Give it a try and see if you like it.

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

I don't know about slut, mate...

I must say that just because a girl kisses a guy at a social event where there is closeness, gyrating hips and happiness it doesn't make her a slut.

This ain't the old days when "courting" was the ettiquette and having to take the girl out for dinner 2 nights a week for a month before even a kiss was thought about!

Give it a try and see if you like it.

Well theres a little more to why I said it but you guys would just laugh at it, besides I've already said that maybe slut wasn't the right word, in what the third post?

I txted her yesterday and no reply. Good news is that my phone says that she hasn't received the message yet so it isn't like shes blowing me off or ignoring me. Bad news is that the only time I've known a girl to go this long without turning on her cell phone is when it has been taken away which begs the question "Why was it taken?" and I find it a little to hard to believe that it coincidentally occurred the night after the dance...

quote:Originally posted by phade:

I'm going to text her and see where it goes from there.

Do not do this.



EDIT: Ok, for next time, phone don't text.

"uhm hey its tht rndm kid at the dnce u mde out wit uhh im to slfsncious to achly phn u so i txtd u instd uhhm wnna hng out ths satday?" Dork.

[This message has been edited by soro_one (edited 01-14-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by phade:

Bad news is that the only time I've known a girl to go this long without turning on her cell phone is when it has been taken away which begs the question "Why was it taken?" and I find it a little to hard to believe that it coincidentally occurred the night after the dance...

you are putting way too much thought into this. i lose my phone all time for days at a time. people can sometimes just be absent minded.

if it still says she didn't recieve it by tomorrow, give her a call.

and as people have said...DON'T TEXT! ITS FREAKING LAME.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

and as people have said...DON'T TEXT! ITS FREAKING LAME.

I agree. It's the offline equivalent of asking someone out via email/IM.

quote:Originally posted by MaddMan:

I agree. It's the offline equivalent of asking someone out via email/IM.

I didn't ask her out it was just a way to give her my # because I only had hers she didn't have mine.

quote:Originally posted by phade:

I didn't ask her out it was just a way to give her my # because I only had hers she didn't have mine.

Then call her and she'll have your number.

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Then call her and she'll have your number.

She hasn't even returned the txt yet I'm not calling her.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

you are putting way too much thought into this. i lose my phone all time for days at a time. people can sometimes just be absent minded.

if it still says she didn't recieve it by tomorrow, give her a call.

and as people have said...DON'T TEXT! ITS FREAKING LAME.

This post said it. I havn't turned on my cell phone in like 4 days! Who cares if she hasn't gotten your text? Call her. Maybe she.. dropped her phone in the toilet or something and it's broken. (This happened to a friend of mine at the bar.. haha) Maybe she lost it at the dance.

quote:Originally posted by myscars:

This post said it. I havn't turned on my cell phone in like 4 days! Who cares if she hasn't gotten your text? Call her. Maybe she.. dropped her phone in the toilet or something and it's broken. (This happened to a friend of mine at the bar.. haha) Maybe she lost it at the dance.

If either of those happened how would calling help?

Unlike what was previously said, always text first, don't call. I can back this advice up with cold hard statistics. Under the condtions upon which this happened, you are 1.8 times as likely to get to see her again by texting as opposed to calling, ceteris parabus.

[This message has been edited by Markoni (edited 01-15-2007).]

Text messages are only acceptable after like a good three phone calls (if she doesn't like you and wants to avoid verbal communication) or two dates (if she does like you).

But, after that, I think sexy little messages are really cute.