But I'm to shy and shit. I work, get good pay, I'm a clean person, and all of that stuff.. but heres the thing I fail at, Socializing. I know she likes me because she told my co-worker she was interested in me and hoped I'd drop by again, well what the HELL am I supposed to talk about when I do see her, First impressions are important, for all I know I'll get nervous and screw up.

Can someone give me some advice on what to talk about and what to do? I don't know anything about her just how she looks like. (SHES HOT!)

i wouldnt socialise with her during work, it has a small chance that she is busy and it might create an awkward "alright" that will haunt you.

catch up with her after work, which will pretty much be the time when she is free, then ak to walk with her to the bus top, car park or whatever.

i mean, if you KNOW she likes you, then shell probably know why you want to talk to her, invite her to something small, maybe a for lunch the next day, and ask questions about her, but not those old worn out questions like "so what do you like doing?" or "where abouts do you live?"

instead, opt for ones after you deliver a compliment eg: "wow you have great looking glasses, where did you get them?"

or "ive been meaning to get one of those mobil phones, how good is it"

then continue from there.

quote:Originally posted by Mantikore:

i wouldnt socialise with her during work, it has a small chance that she is busy and it might create an awkward "alright" that will haunt you.

catch up with her after work, which will pretty much be the time when she is free, then ak to walk with her to the bus top, car park or whatever.

i mean, if you KNOW she likes you, then shell probably know why you want to talk to her, invite her to something small, maybe a for lunch the next day, and ask questions about her, but not those old worn out questions like "so what do you like doing?" or "where abouts do you live?"

instead, opt for ones after you deliver a compliment eg: "wow you have great looking glasses, where did you get them?"

or "ive been meaning to get one of those mobil phones, how good is it"

then continue from there.

Thanks that was great advice. I like those conversation starters, knowing myself I would have ended it with a simple "alright"

Heres a tip. ASK HER OUT! stupid.