I have been playing around with this idea for a while. I was engaged once, in Pittsburgh, that was a HUGE mistake. Ever since, I haven't really wanted a relationship of sorts. When I moved back to Columbus, I fucked around, got in to trouble, and my shit was on/off together.

I didn't really have a steady job, and I was homeless for a while. *I have a few people here I can thank for that one* I Didn't tell them why, because well. I don't really hold a grudge.

Skip to now.

I know this girl. And I would totally start a relationship with her, but she lives back in Columbus, I am living in Cincinnati. So, it would be kinda hard to see her. I mean, I get jealous very easily, and I am kinda over protective.

I am sure I could find a girl here, but I kinda wish she could be here with me. She graduates in a year or two. So, maybe. I also have to go back to school. I dropped out from Chicago University for photojournalism, because, well. I had to work full time to pay for school, and My job was more important than schooling at the time.* They didn't teach me anything I didn't already know*

So, what do I do? I mean on one side I miss her a lot, and on the other hand, I kinda need closeness of some sort, and Columbus is too far away. I'm weighting my options right now, but any advice would be helpful.

PS. I know people here will assume a lot of things. NO, you don't know her, and you haven't met her.

EDIT: To the people I know in real life, you may have met her. But, as we all know assuming can be dangerous.

[This message has been edited by bushy (edited 01-11-2007).]

It is my opinion (and I'm sure others will agree with me on this) that you are incapable of a "real relationship." But do whatever you want man. Just stop telling us about every bloody detail.

I'm sure they will.

I was just asking how I should Handle the situation at hand. If I can't get any REASONABLE responses, oh well.

[This message has been edited by bushy (edited 01-11-2007).]

Go for it, if you really think you can handle it.

Ease up on the jealousy though. Being jealous will not get you anywhere; if something is going to happen, it's going to happen whether or not you're jealous. And being over protective can drive people away from you.

I know where the over protective thing stems from, its from having 3 younger sisters. I kinda had to be growing up.

The jealousy thing comes from my ex finance cheating on me with one of my "distributors".

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

I was just asking how I should Handle the situation at hand.

Suicide

*edit*

Find a girl, and just stick with her. Is it that hard?

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 01-11-2007).]

I have plenty of reason to be jealous.

And I was sort of a jealous person until recently. It's something you just sort of something you have to get over.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I have plenty of reason to be jealous.

And I was sort of a jealous person until recently. It's something you just sort of something you have to get over.

WHOA!

please clarify. You have plenty of reason to be jealous? of who/what?

Just in general. I've been cheated on and lied to plenty of times.

But jealousy didn't stop that from happening. Being over-protective was what drove him to do it, I believe.

I think over-protective goes hand in hand with jealousy. It's a part of it.

You can be jealous and not show it. There's jealousy without over protectiveness, but generally people who are over protective are jealous.

Eh, whatever though. Honestly, I think you just want a girl to be there, and I don't think you're ready for a relationship. Learn to be happy on your own before persuing anything.

I am happy on my own. I had to grow up fast, as you have seen. I am applying to school this up coming month. I have a really good job, I get to go "on tour" this summer * I am getting a bus to go to festivals and sell hookah*

I get to bring people too, so play nice.

I get everything I wanted. I just want to share it with someone. Cause, its lonely down here.

Why are you still posting?



Seriously, I do NOT think you're ready for a relationship considering the threads you seem to constantly post.

Is this the 3rd girl your've love this year alone?

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Suicide

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

She graduates in a year or two

Please tell me you mean college and not high school, and you're not trying to fuck around with some girl who's five or six years younger than you.

Other than that, good luck with whatever you want to do, I just hope that whatever chick you end up with knows what she's getting into and that maybe your relationship will keep you busy enough that you won't have time to update us with every minute detail of your life anymore.

*rolls eyes*

If you knew who it was, you would be like "WTFBBQ"

Since you all hated me, I gots me a job at your favorite spot.

Think. Think. Think.

And when you find out who it is. I will laugh in your face.

That is all.

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

*rolls eyes*

If you knew who it was, you would be like "WTFBBQ"

Since you all hated me, I gots me a job at your favorite spot.

Think. Think. Think.

And when you find out who it is. I will laugh in your face.

That is all.



What are you, the fucking riddler?

If you want to tell totse something, then say it. Noone cares enough about your personal life to try and sort through your games. And unless you've got a dozen(non african-american) hostages, then I'm not even going to try.

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

*rolls eyes*

If you knew who it was, you would be like "WTFBBQ"

Since you all hated me, I gots me a job at your favorite spot.

Think. Think. Think.

And when you find out who it is. I will laugh in your face.

That is all.

..That makes you sound like you're doing all this shit to spite firekitty and whoever.

I like you, but you've become really shitty since everything you've started posting has subtle underlying ways of fucking off whoever all your real life acquaintences are.

What happened to the old bushy?

I'm sorry YoYo. I will play nice with the others.

I didn't mean to spite everyone. I won't bring a vendetta here. How are the new creatures?

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

I know where the over protective thing stems from, its from having 3 younger sisters. I kinda had to be growing up.

The jealousy thing comes from my ex finance cheating on me with one of my "distributors".

wow pwnd pretty bad

But we don't care who it is. Just have the decency to leave them alone.

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

*rolls eyes*

If you knew who it was, you would be like "WTFBBQ"

Since you all hated me, I gots me a job at your favorite spot.

Think. Think. Think.

And when you find out who it is. I will laugh in your face.

That is all.

Hated? Ha.

I don't give a shit who it is. If she has a functioning brain then it won't matter soon anyway.